Sexual Harassment

[BaggerofTea]

Lmao! U have EVERY right to pick and choose who u want to engage with and who u want to interact with u.
What are you talking about? The advances of an ugly buggawoof chick would be unwelcome if she persisted trying to hit on you right? Trying to grope you? Or just kept making little inappropriate comments right? What if she escalated and threatened ur job if u didn't fukk with her?
Even worse what if a gay guy did this to you? Someone completely abhorrent to you.

But if someone you're attracted to and want attention from flirted or propositioned It's flirting. Sexy. Because it's wanted affection.

How can't ya'll distinguish between wanted and UNWANTED affection?

Doing unwanted shyt to people is harassment. Ur forcing urself and unwilling affection on an unwilling party.


Why the hell is this such a difficult concept to understand? What in the world makes you think that anybody has to accept attention and affections from everyone equally?

People doing shyt that u don't want them to do b/c ur not attracted to them on that level and they won't stop makes you uncomfortable. It's as simple as that. And u should not feel uncomfortable where u work. The safest thing to do is to keep it out of the workplace unless ur getting signs that she wants you. And even then proceed with caution.

But dudes want to be considered attractive to all females, even tho they know good and damn well all women ain't attractive to them and they damn sure don't treat ugly women the same way they treat the ones they attracted to. Fukking logic and reciprocity...not even once.

This is a pile of nonsense.

The right course of action is to ignore/report all instances of sexual harassment rather than pick and choose off of your own personal feelings.

Miss me with that degenerate feel good do what we want garbage

 

[BaggerofTea]

Old ass white women at my job stare me down everyday.

That's not sexual harassment

Gtfo

 

[Jamal514]

Question for you - If a woman, whom you have politely turned down more than once, was constantly throwing herself at you, coming into your office uninvited, inviting herself to lunch with you, calling your extension to discuss non-work topics, making comments while leering sexually at you, cornering you at the water cooler to ask you out for the 12th time, walking you to your car, sending you non-work emails, in your personal space/squeezing past you in tight spots instead of waiting until you moved, telling you stupid off-colored jokes, interrupting conversations that you are having *particularly other women...

Some shyt like this happened to a dude at my work earlier this year, the harasser wasn't a woman though, it was a gay guy. The victim is 23-24ish and the harasser is fifty something. This creeper was relentless too, always making comments about dude's body and trying to cop feels on him. It all ended when the young dude shoved him in self defense and he fell back against the water cooler. They both got pulled into the boss' office and the gay guy got written up for his unwanted sexual advances.

 

[jackson35]

sexual harassment is basically conducting yourself in a offensive or annoying matter that makes women uncomfortable and not giving a fukk. that's it in a nutshell

 

[Ashley Banks]

because its inconsistent and therefore has no validity.

If you you are anti sexual harrassment, be consistent about it.

Dont pick and choose.

Oh so what you’re saying is, if a woman is okay with a guy she likes/is dating making sexual advances at her then she has to be okay with all men making sexual advances at her. Because if she picks and chooses who she’s okay with being that way with her she is being inconsistent.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Oh so what you’re saying is, if a woman is okay with a guy she likes/is dating making sexual advances at her then she has to be okay with all men making sexual advances at her. Because if she picks and chooses who she’s okay with being that way with her she is being inconsistent.

In work place, yes. Or she should not be entertaining no such advances period.

Outside of work, to each her own.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Old ass white women at my job stare me down everyday.

That's not sexual harassment

Gtfo

Ur willfully ignoring a power dynamic that either u don't truly understand or wish to truly understand.
It's HIGHLY unlikely that the old ass woman staring at u is going to lead to a stalking event or that she has leverage to blkmail u for ur job in the same positions as the men that women have been coming out against, or that she could physically overpower u if she wanted to take it farther.

Even still however, most aren't reporting people staring at them. Most are major escalated circumstances like reporting a principal giving a teacher the option of sleeping with him or getting losing her job and then fukking up her evaluations in retaliation when she refuses. And MOST don't get reported. Much like that incident didn't get reported.
Regardless, if that attention was desired, it wouldn't have been harrassment, but merely an affair as is their right between two consenting adults.

However the unwanted attention equals harrassment. There's no way to get around it and petulantly asserting that just b/c a person doesn't want the affections of one person means they shouldn't be open to the affections of anyone is ridiculous.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Ur willfully ignoring a power dynamic that either u don't truly understand or wish to truly understand.
It's HIGHLY unlikely that the old ass woman staring at u is going to lead to a stalking event or that she has leverage to blkmail u for ur job in the same positions as the men that women have been coming out against, or that she could physically overpower u if she wanted to take it farther.

Even still however, most aren't reporting people staring at them. Most are major escalated circumstances like reporting a principal giving a teacher the option of sleeping with him or getting losing her job and then fukking up her evaluations in retaliation when she refuses. And MOST don't get reported. Much like that incident didn't get reported.
Regardless, if that attention was desired, it wouldn't have been harrassment, but merely an affair as is their right between two consenting adults.

However the unwanted attention equals harrassment. There's no way to get around it and petulantly asserting that just b/c a person doesn't want the affections of one person means they shouldn't be open to the affections of anyone is ridiculous.

In the work place, yes that is wrong.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In the work place, yes that is wrong.

No not wrong, especially depending on company's fraternization policies. Lol!

Two consenting individuals can interact while on the job. One consenting/one unwilling equals harrassment. And if the unwanted attention is reported then it is what it is. Lol! U report what makes you uncomfortable and what is unwanted. This is common sense.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

sexual harassment is basically conducting yourself in a offensive or annoying matter that makes women uncomfortable and not giving a fukk. that's it in a nutshell