She's not necessarily the best decision maker. Joe Budden said he originally called/texted her and wanted her to be the moderator of Everyday Struggle. She never even responded back to him. Now Everyday Struggle probably the hottest hiphop show or shyt music show period right now. Charlemagne also said he hit her up to audition for some MTV shows and she never replied to him either. She turned both of these opportunities down seemingly due to some loyalty to Hot 97 which she just recently ended up leaving anyways. She hates men yer those are two black men that tried to give her amazing opportunities for her career that she ain't even have the decency to reply to. If that's how she handles her professional career no wonder her dating life is a mess as well.I'm a good dude. Always been a good dude. I sleep like a baby with a good conscience because I know I treated all my women right for the most part. If a chick hate men it's because she intentionally went after nikkas that wasn't shyt
traumatic experiences like these are impacting men and women within our community.
praying for her mental recovery.
a lot of women place their trust in the wrong men...and are disillusioned with reality. She made a comment about a random black man caring about her well being despite not knowing her. Ideally I would agree and hope we could all care for each other.
But in reality it doesn't work that way. I've had several black women try to screw me over (I'm in Houston dealing with this hurricane and the other day a random black chick tried to steal my shopping cart with supplies) and I know several black women who have been screwed over by men. I think it's easy to make black men as a collective the scapegoats, because black women have so many expectations of us. At times I'm not sure if that's a compliment and telling of how highly they think of us, or just a method to consistently demean us. Probably a mix of both.
Didn't listen but this is what I was oing to say.After listening to the whole thing, I don't feel for her. She said she has no respect for men and little regard for em.
I've been hurt by a number of women in a number of ways, and my reaction was to withdraw emotional attachment and using my head first and foremost.
I don't hate women, and don't take pleasure in seeing them seriously hurt, especially not sistas. I still care on a base level about the wellbeing of women,
and won't let my losses change that. She has broadbrushed and revealed her resentment to black men as a whole.
My only takeaway is a man would be a fool to get involved with her, today, tomorrow, or whenever she states she is ready to trust men again.
One strike and you out. She is a liability to a potential suitor. Her hurt causes her to hurt him, and now he has issues, and the cycle continues.
She needs therapy. Not being spiteful, but she needs therapy.
I mean, I feel bad for her, but at the same to time I can't fully defend her here. She's gotta take accountability for the men she choose to date. I hate the fact she got dogged out like that,but when she said "I don't want to give birth to a black male baby" and the ludicrous generalizations? Sorry sista
nikkas going ask for receipts. It's already timestamped at 1:03:41She's not necessarily the best decision maker. Joe Budden said he originally called/texted her and wanted her to be the moderator of Everyday Struggle. She never even responded back to him. Now Everyday Struggle probably the hottest hiphop show or shyt music show period right now. Charlemagne also said he hit her up to audition for some MTV shows and she never replied to him either. She turned both of these opportunities down seemingly due to some loyalty to Hot 97 which she just recently ended up leaving anyways. She hates men yer those are two black men that tried to give her amazing opportunities for her career that she ain't even have the decency to reply to. If that's how she handles her professional career no wonder her dating life is a mess as well.
Of all the women I seriously dated, only 1 was a really horrible choice.
And I learned to vet against that going forward.
The others were good, we just didn't mesh well or things didn't work out for whatever reason.
I still learned valuable life lessons from those relationships too though.
These chicks don't learn from their experiences.
They legit date the "same guy" over and over and over.......and over.
Of all the women I seriously dated, only 1 was a really horrible choice.
And I learned to vet against that going forward.
The others were good, we just didn't mesh well or things didn't work out for whatever reason.
I still learned valuable life lessons from those relationships too though.
These chicks don't learn from their experiences.
They legit date the "same guy" over and over and over.......and over.
:idiot:So in other words she doesn't trust men, especially black men because she got touched up by a bouncer in the club
yeah, ok
She's not necessarily the best decision maker. Joe Budden said he originally called/texted her and wanted her to be the moderator of Everyday Struggle. She never even responded back to him. Now Everyday Struggle probably the hottest hiphop show or shyt music show period right now. Charlemagne also said he hit her up to audition for some MTV shows and she never replied to him either. She turned both of these opportunities down seemingly due to some loyalty to Hot 97 which she just recently ended up leaving anyways. She hates men yer those are two black men that tried to give her amazing opportunities for her career that she ain't even have the decency to reply to. If that's how she handles her professional career no wonder her dating life is a mess as well.