Called out for what lol, she like the fast majority of single black mothers is taking care of her kids، the question here is where is the father, why is he not stepping up.
She said it: he was there, shyt happened, and he took his daughter back to Jersey. Sound like they was trynna do the right thing. Id like to hear his side.
Cuz he doesn't have to step up to fukk bum bytches like the one in the OP. That's putting the cart before the horse.
My ex was like this
The gift of gab or mouthpiece shouldn't blind you from discernment. You should look at dudes career, goals, what they have going on and their social network to get an idea of the quality of the dude. A dude can say all the right things but if he is inconsiderate, inconsistent, and lack ambition. Why even lay with him? Especially without protection?So now we blaming the woman cause the dude was lying and pretending to be something that he wasn't?
I'm not saying that there ain't some trifling women who are attracted to trifling men.
but with that being said, there are a lot of trifling dudes out here who got the gift of gab and a mouthpiece who are able to pretend to be something that they are not, and they do it constantly, knowing good and well that they're operating from a place of bad intentions.
And just like many of y'all coli brehs don't understand women, women don't understand men; and they take men at our words, not realizing that there are many of us who will say and do ANYthing just to get her panties off, and then once we get that, we take the mask off.
Real shyt.
We have been talking about and guilting "deadbeats" about leaving their children for at least 35+ years. Since i was a child women were chanting that, now the men they raised are doing the same. Still what do the men do?
But when a woman has 3+ kids and we're not even sure if they have the same father, immediate pushback the moment we question if it's her fault. No one wants to say women need to do better despite the fact multiple kids by multiple men is common in our community. "Don't generalize"
- No pushback. Men universally say "we need to do better" like robots since the 80's till now.
, women love talking accountability... as long as it's about others.
until I did all I could to make it right. But most women arent built this way and will side with their son/brother right or wrong. Or just stay out of it,which probably is best in some scenarios.
Real shyt.
We have been talking about and guilting "deadbeats" about leaving their children for at least 35+ years. Since i was a child women were chanting that, now the men they raised are doing the same. Still what do the men do?
But when a woman has 3+ kids and we're not even sure if they have the same father, immediate pushback the moment we question if it's her fault. No one wants to say women need to do better despite the fact multiple kids by multiple men is common in our community. "Don't generalize"
- No pushback. Men universally say "we need to do better" like robots since the 80's till now.
