richaveli83
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One child, ok I can have a LITTLE sympathy. 2+ though?!
(Sad) The End Result Of Our Young Girls Worshipping The City Girls, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion etc.
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Breh, why are you assuming these guy aren't shytSo now we blaming the woman cause the dude was lying and pretending to be something that he wasn't?
I'm not saying that there ain't some trifling women who are attracted to trifling men.
but with that being said, there are a lot of trifling dudes out here who got the gift of gab and a mouthpiece who are able to pretend to be something that they are not, and they do it constantly, knowing good and well that they're operating from a place of bad intentions.
And just like many of y'all coli brehs don't understand women, women don't understand men; and they take men at our words, not realizing that there are many of us who will say and do ANYthing just to get her panties off, and then once we get that, we take the mask off.
?Do you actually pay attention to women? I know women who have babies (one of who i am the Godfatheer of and take care) by men that other men TELL her aren't ish. Watched it happen before my eyes. Or the man says upfront/dodges marriage/children questions. Women think they can change those men instead of finding one of the many simps who surround her, its on them. I love the friend who made me a Godfather, but i keep it 100 with her too
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richaveli83
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Of course we do. It's been drilled in our heads for 35+ years. Irresponsible fathers have rightfully been called out for the longest. When our we going to hold sisters willingly having babies with deadbeats accountable? I get that some dudes will use this as an excuse to bash women but at what point are we going to stop making excuses for some of of our women being reckless when it comes to having babies.
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Breh, why are you assuming these guy aren't shyt
Do you actually pay attention to women? I know women who have babies (one of who i am the Godfatheer of and take care) by men that other men TELL her aren't ish. Watched it happen before my eyes. Or the man says upfront/dodges marriage/children questions. Women think they can change those men instead of finding one of the many simps who surround her, its on them. I love the friend who made me a Godfather, but i keep it 100 with her too
I cant get with the hypocrisy, breh. There are definitely women who like lowdown trifling men, but there are also just as many who are looking for love and are simply being tricked by men who are liars. I would say the latter happens more than the former. And the only reason you would think otherwise is that you either ain't outside, or you are on your woman-hating bandwagon and want to absolve men of all guilt when it comes to this situation.
There's a LOT of trifling women out here, I'll be the first to say that. But there are also a lot of trifling men outchea too.
Knuckles Red
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She was probably pressured into having these children. Broken promises made by the “men” who left her. She’ll be fine though. Women, like this, always find their inner strength. Does she have a Gofundme? I’d love to help her financially!
So now we blaming the woman cause the dude was lying and pretending to be something that he wasn't?
I'm not saying that there ain't some trifling women who are attracted to trifling men.
but with that being said, there are a lot of trifling dudes out here who got the gift of gab and a mouthpiece who are able to pretend to be something that they are not, and they do it constantly, knowing good and well that they're operating from a place of bad intentions.
And just like many of y'all coli brehs don't understand women, women don't understand men; and they take men at our words, not realizing that there are many of us who will say and do ANYthing just to get her panties off, and then once we get that, we take the mask off.
You hooking up one of your nephews or young cousins with her breh?
And the woman herself has said the babydaddy has been disrespecting her throughout the relationship but she tried to make it work with him so how was he pretending to be something he was not?
The mother of my daughter doesn't have to worry about this. It's all about choices. You can choose the man who tells you to make an Amazon registry so he can buy everything off of it himself or you choose the man who's on a sex offender's registry. Lots of women would choose option two, sadly.
Have a hot girl summer and don't realize that you are about to fall for the winter wondering about spring brehs 
Oh ok, at least you're fair.
And nah, SOME men are liars but ALL men show you with their actions who they are. Most women look back and say they knew, they are never really blindsided. (Many cases GOOD men tell them, but all men aint shyt tho)
And as a man who's Dad stayed in his life and had a marriage for 12 years, my mom made it hell for that man after a while (arguments and stubbornness). Imma keep it 100, alot of women make it hard for these men to stay with the disrespect, if you're not a simp you'll concede this.
Square biz. Through the ups and downs, From living in a legit crib to being in a shelter, I rode with my wife from thick to thin because "Til Death Do Us Part". The thing that kills me about situations like these is the fact that reality doesn't hit, until a jawn has a screaming child, a baby needing a diaper change, and another that's wondering what's for dinner.
I mean we all fall for forbidden fruit, but there's alternatives to the shyt. Yet, the desire of a taste ends up being hazardous to the very end.
ElectroMan
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I feel sad for the kids.
That right here is the gospel. As much as I love my wife....HOLY fukkING shyt there were times where I just wanted to fling from the damn tree to a different habitat. Yes, the marsupial is not perfect as well (Pride issues, fatherless upbringing, severe depression, crohn's disease, and etc), but, its like women know how to cut the red wire despite having a bunch of green wires in front of them. Its a cross to drag as a man, especially as a good man because its not easy when you have jawns giving the grizzley because they wondering why I'm at church, or why I'm in the shelter with my wife and son.
Koala: "umm because we are fukking family
"Thingsfallapart
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Acknowledgment is not accountability. We’ve acknowledged deadbeats but at no point have they been held accountable.
If a single mother is taking care of a child by herself that she did not make by herself, then she is being accountable for her part.
Reminds me of this jawn we knew in the shelter that had such a precious child. I mean the little girl was the entire highlight of my time in that shytty place. Yet, she would treat the girl like she's the problem. Nevermind, the fact that she got married to a man that flat out fell off and did not want nothing to do with both of them. She would buck up to the little girl and wonder why she was aggy as shyt.
One time, the girl threw her phone on the ground and she was set the hell off. Like cursing at the child and etc. I gave her a hug and felt that embrace like she want more than this.
I even told the jawn that she's hurting.
bytch: "I don't give a fuoouckkk, she brokeee my phonneee"
Like your dikkheaded ass went out to spend a lump some of money on a fukking Samsung, instead of getting priorities straight. Hell, my wife wanted to adopt the poor girl, so her mother can find herself in this weird predicament, but she did not bulge.
Last time I seen ole girl was at Wally World and she Facetimed the daughter so I could see her since she was at her "child's father house". Poor little girl looked like shyt and was more focus on a tablet to even care, because tablets= nanny.
Just thinking about the shyt making my blood boil, because this is a cycle that will never break away. It just keeps spinning.