My problem is, they are not consistent in their ideals. It's a trope from life, especially when it comes to looking at people with more than you. They can make more money, but you have more time off, and they look at you and think "If I had that amount of free time, I'd be doing......." And visa versa.. So I get that people do that. It's a natural part of life.
I'm saying, people are lying about their ideals. If it was about their ideals on marriage and single parents, they would have something to say about other black couples. But unless it's the extreme, where a dude wife's a stripper or known industry thot, or someone has a huge divorce settlement, these same guys do not care one bit about other celeb couples. They don't care what any of these wives do for a living. They don't bother to look up where the kids came from. They don't give two shyts how many kids the men are bringing in. They don't care if these people were married previously or the kids came from a one nighter. They don't look it up and when it's presented, they don't care. When there's pics of black men and their women, nobody asks "I wonder if she has any kids from before and who with so I can decide if he should be dating her"
They don't care about THOSE ideals whatsoever. So while I agree with everything you're saying, I don't agree on what their ideals are...
I believe these guys are so angry because they are bitter. They are more like Russell Wilson. And they've been feeling a way towards the women who didn't want them in their lives. They don't care that Future is closer to them than Future is to Big Meech. He's not a thug. But he portrays one so that's close enough for them to get flashbacks. Then she's a single mom. She's not supposed to land on her feet after having a baby with that thug. She supposed to see a Russ type and cry from her regrets. She's definitely not supposed to get the wedding, the kids, the SB champ and a guy expressing his love for her every chance he gets...
Oh they are FURIOUS. Their ideal is "If you pass up the guys you thought was lame.... Like me.... Then you don't deserve us later........ Oh what? Ciara got one of US nikka nerds? And he treating her right????? How dare he!!!!
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Brook is going to have to do another upgrade to the servers if they ever get a divorce