Russell Wilson: “Stay Squared Up My Friends”

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Then they are fukking stupid.. Now I would get "culture" if they are immigrants... Maybe.. But in this here America, we've been having men, get with single moms, FOREVER!!! And quadruple in the black community. From all statures, classes, colors, ages, whatever. Yes, a woman having a child wasn't the PREFERRED option. But at no point in this culture, did we outright shyt on women for having one child from a serious relationship... She didn't have 5 kids.. She didn't have 10 baby daddies.. In fact, she didn't even have a baby with some bum ass nikka. Future is also a top 1% earning black man with a successful career. It's not even like SHE is a bum ass bytch.. She's also a top 1% earning black woman...

Now to Russ. I get that he "supposed" to have an IG dime, virgin, freak, with money, who only dated good guys, and stays at home to get pregnant and raise babies... But damn.. Did he date down more than famous black men that date women who don't even work? Are their bum ass the prize? Should every famous black man only get with women doctors and lawyers (another coli trope) who are somehow under 30 as well and dimes and have no kids?

I'm not getting at you. Those are the EXCUSES they give. The real reason is flat out jealousy. How dare he choose a woman that I see as less than. If Russ made $100k they'd say he was too good for her... Mainly cause she had a baby with a "thug"

People also seem to not want to point out, her and future were ENGAGED. Let's not pretend even half of you on this very forum were born to a couple in wedlock either. She tried to do things the right way, even with future.
 

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yeah a clean simple fit thats sized right can never go wrong. When you're in shape clothes something as simple as a plain t shirt that fits perfectly can make a fit pop
It's honestly crazy how people don't realize this. Two people could literally wear the same thing but it will look better on a breh or brehette in decent shape compared to someone that's not.
 

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Then they are fukking stupid.. Now I would get "culture" if they are immigrants... Maybe.. But in this here America, we've been having men, get with single moms, FOREVER!!! And quadruple in the black community. From all statures, classes, colors, ages, whatever. Yes, a woman having a child wasn't the PREFERRED option. But at no point in this culture, did we outright shyt on women for having one child from a serious relationship... She didn't have 5 kids.. She didn't have 10 baby daddies.. In fact, she didn't even have a baby with some bum ass nikka. Future is also a top 1% earning black man with a successful career. It's not even like SHE is a bum ass bytch.. She's also a top 1% earning black woman...

Now to Russ. I get that he "supposed" to have an IG dime, virgin, freak, with money, who only dated good guys, and stays at home to get pregnant and raise babies... But damn.. Did he date down more than famous black men that date women who don't even work? Are their bum ass the prize? Should every famous black man only get with women doctors and lawyers (another coli trope) who are somehow under 30 as well and dimes and have no kids?

I'm not getting at you. Those are the EXCUSES they give. The real reason is flat out jealousy. How dare he choose a woman that I see as less than. If Russ made $100k they'd say he was too good for her... Mainly cause she had a baby with a "thug"
Any woman engaged to future doesn't have good decision making skills

Or values the wrong thingz

Future kind of said as much on the DS2 interlude and I believe him

Ciara just wanted someone popping
 

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Then they are fukking stupid.. Now I would get "culture" if they are immigrants... Maybe.. But in this here America, we've been having men, get with single moms, FOREVER!!! And quadruple in the black community. From all statures, classes, colors, ages, whatever. Yes, a woman having a child wasn't the PREFERRED option. But at no point in this culture, did we outright shyt on women for having one child from a serious relationship... She didn't have 5 kids.. She didn't have 10 baby daddies.. In fact, she didn't even have a baby with some bum ass nikka. Future is also a top 1% earning black man with a successful career. It's not even like SHE is a bum ass bytch.. She's also a top 1% earning black woman...

Now to Russ. I get that he "supposed" to have an IG dime, virgin, freak, with money, who only dated good guys, and stays at home to get pregnant and raise babies... But damn.. Did he date down more than famous black men that date women who don't even work? Are their bum ass the prize? Should every famous black man only get with women doctors and lawyers (another coli trope) who are somehow under 30 as well and dimes and have no kids?

I'm not getting at you. Those are the EXCUSES they give. The real reason is flat out jealousy. How dare he choose a woman that I see as less than. If Russ made $100k they'd say he was too good for her... Mainly cause she had a baby with a "thug"
I don't think it makes them stupid. People want the ideal and the perception is that money makes achieving an ideal easier and a woman without a child is indeed preferred because it is the ideal. So when someone with money chooses not to adhere to the ideal, it causes controversy and people are upset or bothered by this. This kind of reaction is universal. The reaction from some men is just that: people discontent with an ideal not being pursued when it could have been. And it makes sense for black men, especially, who are constantly told to do better to say, "why should I be average and be part of that quadruple? Why can't I be more or want more? Isn't that part of being better?" In the end, dudes just want more than the average and are tired of the expectation of deserving less, even when they work hard. In Russ, they see someone who worked hard and still chose less. It doesn't sit well with them. And indeed this is America which brings me to my next question: how many presidents has this country have, that were men that wifed up single mothers? People love the ideal and cast aspersions on the less than ideal readily. Everyone.

Some dudes just want the ideal and see having money and accomplishments as part of that and seeing wifing a single mother as aiming low. Some may be on some hating shyt but I don't see that many dudes on that. They like Russ and are happy for him but think he made a bad decision overall.
 

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I'd love for this to be evidence of a positive relationship and would like this brotha to win because he seems to be a decent guy, but Ciara's poppin that thang in some pum pum shorts in her latest video and even when he leaned in to kiss her she backed up
I caught that too...
 

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Since future isn't a street nikka you're basically saying Ciara, an R&B singer, is tainted by fukking with a rapper.

Y'all some weirdos man :heh:

I just told you these goofies on this site painted the picture of who Future is, not me. Years ago it was exposed that Future was a bytch nikka in H.S. Somehow these dudes missed that. They forgot that Ciara was fcking with 50 cent before Future, another rap nikka. But since these dudes worship Future, they believe every woman who fcks with this dude "belongs to the streets". So in my estimation, these dudes mad she moved on.

None the less, on any level, this was good shyt in the OP.
 

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None of that shyt goes through our heads when we are attracted to someone. Fundamentally we are animals. What attracts a man to a woman and a woman to a man are our primal instincts. And a woman's money isn't part of our primal instincts. Our instincts are to focus in on her looks (which are heavily influenced by her age). Then when it comes to taking her seriously we care about her body count. A promiscuous woman causes us to be repulsed at the idea of taking her seriously. A broke woman does not instinctively make a man repulsed by her. Almost all men will happily accept a beautiful feminine young woman with a low body count who happens to be broke.

Being broke is a deal breaker for women not men.
Broke woman will drain them pockets quick.
 

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Any woman engaged to future doesn't have good decision making skills

Or values the wrong thingz

Future kind of said as much on the DS2 interlude and I believe him

Ciara just wanted someone popping
And then she grew up.. And leveled up.. And nikkas mad like she wasn't allowed to

nikkas mad if she kept dating more dudes like Future and also mad when she dates someone living better than him.. What exactly would be an outcome that everyone would be happy about?
 

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I don't think it makes them stupid. People want the ideal and the perception is that money makes achieving an ideal easier and a woman without a child is indeed preferred because it is the ideal. So when someone with money chooses not to adhere to the ideal, it causes controversy and people are upset or bothered by this. This kind of reaction is universal. The reaction from some men is just that: people discontent with an ideal not being pursued when it could have been. And it makes sense for black men, especially, who are constantly told to do better to say, "why should I be average and be part of that quadruple? Why can't I be more or want more? Isn't that part of being better?" In the end, dudes just want more than the average and are tired of the expectation of deserving less, even when they work hard. In Russ, they see someone who worked hard and still chose less. It doesn't sit well with them. And indeed this is America which brings me to my next question: how many presidents has this country have, that were men that wifed up single mothers? People love the ideal and cast aspersions on the less than ideal readily. Everyone.

Some dudes just want the ideal and see having money and accomplishments as part of that and seeing wifing a single mother as aiming low. Some may be on some hating shyt but I don't see that many dudes on that. They like Russ and are happy for him but think he made a bad decision overall.
Which would be fine... IF IT WAS THEIR OWN LIFE THEY WERE MAD ABOUT

They are literally upset, emotional and angry that a man they won't even MEET in their lifetime decided to "date down." Yea they are stupid as hell. Smart enough to deduce that Russ is making a mistake and too dumb to realize they shouldn't care.

Presidents are chosen. So before we even get to the ideas they have, they are picked from a narrow pool. So I don't count that shyt at all as to what normal Americans are doing.

Normal Americans are getting divorced at 50% rate. So all these single moms got single dads attached.. And all these single parents aren't single parents because they wanted to have fun and date thugs. Some was actually in serious relationships and even married. But we all know these dudes don't care about that. To them it's WOMAN HAVE BABY = WOMAN BAD and nothing more. They don't care about any other famous black people or even know who came in with a child. They care because it's Future and no other reason
 

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Russell Wilson is a star because he married Ciara. Without her, he’s a very good to great football player who nobody cares about outside of NFL nerds.
Yall gotta chill with these trash ass takes

Ive chilled out on going in on this topic in recent years but this clear revisionist post is gonna make me relapse
 

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Only so long a person like her can pretend

It's like her ID is fighting her superego. She knows she needs or should be with someone like him, but on a deeper level she just isn't that into him.

I know that's a lot to read into from this short clip, but I've been on both ends of that attraction spectrum and she is exhibiting tolerance of dude, not desire.
 
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