Of course it's in my head, that's why the organ that processes my thoughts is. Your problem seems to be that's all in your ass because that's what you're thinking with. You don't know what's really up with these dudes yet you've thrown the cape on in defense. Hmmmm. Whether Quan is the one calling other dudes his "hubby" or other dudes are referring to him as their "hubby", the shyt is suspect. The way he looks in the video is suspect. The simple minded psychology you're trying to run in defense of dude makes you look suspect.
let me put extra spaces in my next sentence so your brain can process how absurd your rationale is.
you...are...calling...a...person...homosexual...based...on...the...way...he...is...dancing.
you're right, I don't know "what's really up", with these dudes, but a video of an entertainer dancing for his audience sure isn't the conclusive evidence that seals the deal.