You don't grasp what's going on in the real world, do you?
If you're a single parent, with 2 kids lets say ..
-You're workin full time (40 hours)
-You got the kids in daycare.
After work, you pick them up and you make them dinner.
Then you sit down for family time.
How is that single parent supposed to 'hone some skills' ?? You're being narrowminded here. Not everyone is 20-25 years old with minimal responsibilities outside of a cell phone bill, that they can just drop everything and go back to school. Or study and pick up a trade. Or any of that shyt you're saying. Some people? Sure. A majority? Naaa. Not in this country.
So this is where you inevitably come back and say some dumb shyt like 'well, you shouldn't have had kids then' or 'no one made you start a family' .. but what you need to understand is that you're in the minority. Period. You're monday morning quarterbacking. Anybody can look at ANY situation and be like 'well, he/she coulda done this differently, or that differently' .. except that aint life.
Something along the lines of 83% of the US population are living paycheck to paycheck. Are you saying they're all fukkin up? Cause thats what it sounds like.
Is the problem the wage? Or the problem you decided to have kids while making that wage.
That is life. You have the power of deciding when you have kids. You have the power to make good decisions vs. bad ones. And having kids before your able to "afford" them is just stupid and will set you back.
Most adult children are quick to move out of their parents house after high school and or college for more "freedom". Then you get smacked by the real world. You should be using that time to build yourself. I saved 60K while under my parents roof making between $8-$15 for the simple fact that I had a goal in mind and was disciplined enough to do it. I also, had my own car that I paid for myself. I'm not saying all parents or situations are the same. But what I am saying is that we all mostly had a foundation that we came from that we probably should've taken more advantage of. That 60K sat until i started making around 60K a year by time I was 27-28, I could finally afford a home on my own, which I did. I didn't have a kid until I was 30, and I always told myself I don't want a kid until I have my own house to put him in. That's life planning. And most people don't plan at all. Now I'm 6figs/6certs at 34 about to buy my second home.
Parents are 2 quick to push their children into the world on their own and Kids are too quick to leave the foundation for freedom, where there a mutual beneficial relationship that parents and adult children should/could have. Adult children can contribute to the household, alleviating some pressure of the parents, while being able to save money. We also have a culture of people wanting to be fly before they can afford to be fly. Where are the priorities. People complaining about wages, but have the latest iphones, airpods and jordans and other luxuries. Where's the sacrifice for what you want.?
I'm not saying wages don't need to be increased, but I'm saying we have to be realistic at the same time. You weren't meant to be able to raise a family as a cashier at Mcdonalds. So because you decided to have said family as a cashier. Your blaming that company that they don't pay enough to fill the gap of your bad decisions.
Blanket wage increases won't work and will kill small businesses, especially in rural parts of the country. Wages should increase across the board, but it should be different in every state and catered to that state's economy. Minimum wage in New York City, should probably be like $17-$18 based on its economy but in west bubblefukk Kentucky $10-$11 should be aight since its a slower market, the cost of living is significantly lower and those business won't make as much money just because of location and traffic.