I think, the problem is, that while their concerns are valid (whether you agree with them, fundamentally or not) but the angst and "join us" or else attitude they have is completely rooted in white privilege and its ironic because this is one of the reasons it rubs other minorities the wrong way.
And I say valid in that, you don't have to be LBQT+ to realize there is often either not enough representation or mis representation of minorities in media.
But, I cant help but feel like Chapelle said it best, a lot of the fast adoption of LBQT+ friendly agenda is more so because it has white male empathy (be it first or second hand) and so it gets pushed. We see it time and time again that America doesn't take a problem seriously unless it affects white people. Now, this is not to say that they (LBQT+) don't deserve equal rights and fair treatment.
No. I am saying the adamant push for "allies" and "hivemind" mentality or else is just par for the course when you're dealing with white people, because they are use to getting their way, even when coming from the stance of a vocal minority.
I don't feel its often reciprocated, in earnest , towards other races unless it can be co-opted like say BLM.
The reason I feel like this is because in order to lift other races up, and have true equality, you'd have to destroy the same privilege/system that allows them to advance at the rate they do.
And rarely will you see people on that side of the fence go that far when discussing things.