Republican Rep. Byron Donalds: “I still believe in spanking. I’ve got kids. I spank my kids.

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The reason we know this is bullshyt is because most of us got spankings. Most of our peers got spankings. Yet most of them were not fighting teachers. And we didnt have that many fights in school. Which based on your "science",it should have been a royal rumble.



These studies are nothing more than the European making correlations to fit a narrative. You can do that about many things.


This little girl has probably built up an ego. That she is a bad ass,feisty,dont take shyt type of girl. This teacher challenging her couldve been a threat to her ego.


This is where 90% of violence comes into play. Someone has their public image or self image threatened.


It is false to pretend that kids base their self image or public image on their parents. Some kids can base their identity entirely on what gains them validation from the outside world. It may be validation at home or validation from society and strangers. When you live in an environment that has a culture that celebrates violence, machismo,not being p*ssy its a recipe for disaster. You will have people whove gained validation from their aggression. Challenging people who may not want to be violent. But their self image/public image they have created deems they have to. People are willing to die and kill to protect their self idealization when its in jeapordy.


Your studies leave out the fact that violence can be neccessary from a parent. When your validation stops mattering,some times to no fault of your own. Time to bring out the valuable teaching tools,aka the hands. Your image must be protected at all cost when you are a parent. If my actions and words have failed to gain your respect,time to escalate:respect:.




Acts of violence dont neccessarily mean you are violent.
Did most of us have teen mothers, and siblings with different fathers?
 

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Did most of us have teen mothers, and siblings with different fathers?


I cant speak to those demographics honestly. By the time Ibwas aware,my friends mothers werent teenagers anymore. And usually there was no father in the home,so I assumed they were all by the same father. Are you saying this is the case now? The majority of women have multiple baby fathers and are teen mothers? And if so whats your point?
 

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Welcome to the coli where you can literally post science backing up why something doesn't work and people will just say "nah forget that I'm gonna do what I want to do anyway" and then call other people ignorant.

If you think you'll have to hurt your child to get them to listen to you. Don't have kids. Save your money and use it to buy shyt you enjoy and donate it to people who have less than you do.
 
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I cant speak to those demographics honestly. By the time Ibwas aware,my friends mothers werent teenagers anymore. And usually there was no father in the home,so I assumed they were all by the same father. Are you saying this is the case now? The majority of women have multiple baby fathers and are teen mothers? And if so whats your point?
I’m saying the current generation of parents is not the same. Maybe it’s because they were beaten, and never learned how to parent properly. And unfortunately, we do have a lot of mothers who gave birth at a young age, and never developed themselves before becoming parents. Plus social media is a problem, and you have parents beating their kids, and posting it for the world to see.
 
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I’m saying the current generation of parents is not the same. Maybe it’s because they were beaten, and never learned how to parent properly. And unfortunately, we do have a lot of mothers who gave birth at a young age, and never developed themselves before becoming parents. Plus social media is a problem, and you have parents bearing their kids, and posting it for the world to see.



I agree parents are much different. Im 36 and it seems like although I did see alot of my peers spank their kids as children. I also see as the kids get older,I see a desire from the parents to want to be seen as cooler than our parents were. And wanting to be friends with their kids,more than parents. I never felt like my mama was my friend,or ever could have had the same thought proccess as me:mjlol:



So for all the talk of abuse in this thread. I also see an abundance of parents stuck in their youth and wanting to be friends with their child. Adults seemed far more adult in my childhood. These kids seem more entitled and unafraid, than they do fearful or traumatized imo.
 

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I’ll be honest some of you are soft as fukk and couldn’t last in any type of combat or conflict.

A man can’t afford to be soft and weak. If you don’t want to spank your children that’s cool I understand but it’s a discipline tool that should be used at times if needed.

The studies about how prisoners were spanked cool. But what about all of the other people who were spanked and ended up becoming successful.

Just a hypothetical question. Are Russia and China coddling their children like this?
 

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I agree parents are much different. Im 36 and it seems like although I did see alot of my peers spank their kids as children. I also see as the kids get older,I see a desire from the parents to want to be seen as cooler than our parents were. And wanting to be friends with their kids,more than parents. I never felt like my mama was my friend,or ever could have had the same thought proccess as me:mjlol:



So for all the talk of abuse in this thread. I also see an abundance of parents stuck in their youth and wanting to be friends with their child. Adults seemed far more adult in my childhood. These kids seem more entitled and unafraid, than they do fearful or traumatized imo.

Have you noticed a influx of children having a opinion in adult conversations?
 

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I’ll be honest some of you are soft as fukk and couldn’t last in any type of combat or conflict.

A man can’t afford to be soft and weak. If you don’t want to spank your children that’s cool I understand but it’s a discipline tool that should be used at times if needed.

The studies about how prisoners were spanked cool. But what about all of the other people who were spanked and ended up becoming successful.

They way some of these posters complain about the world, it'll be worse than child abuse if they birthed one into it.
 

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Bunch of :flabbynsick: Gen. X posters who grew up getting the shyt beat out of them, going outside to sell crack and set murder rate records with their friends, talking about the current generation needing to experience what they did because things are so much worse now. :russ:
 

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That has more to do with the uncertainty of the future of the country/planet and the increased cost of everything while wages remain stagnant.

By that same token, spanking has been talked down for decades and violent crime has declined dramatically in this country during that same period. :sas1:
life is much easier now than it was 100+ years ago.
not sure what youre trying to get at
 

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They way some of these posters complain about the world, it'll be worse than child abuse if they birthed one into it.

Flat out. Gone fukk around and half a bunch of Emo hybrid male/females with LGBT leanings and always crying talking about toxic this or that.

Yet at the same time comm
Bunch of :flabbynsick: Gen. X posters who grew up getting the shyt beat out of them, going outside to sell crack and set murder rate records with their friends, talking about the current generation needing to experience what they did because things are so much worse now. :russ:

:russ: I’ll take that because you aren’t lying
 

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Bunch of :flabbynsick: Gen. X posters who grew up getting the shyt beat out of them, going outside to sell crack and set murder rate records with their friends, talking about the current generation needing to experience what they did because things are so much worse now. :russ:
getting whooped by your father is much different than your mother
(all things equal and its not abuse)

a boy respects his father in ways he could never his mother.
the lack of a man & discipline in the home in the current gen is the issue.

you can laugh...
...but black kids are falling behind while Asian/Hispanic kids have their fathers on their ass about shyt
 

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I got 5 kids, never spanked any of them and believe me they try you. All you got to do is turn off the internet and they fall in line quick.

That being said, I don't have the heart to spank to them. They too damn cute :mjcry:
Man I witnessed my sister take away the tablet, Xbox

My nephew straightened up within a few days
 
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