Republican Rep. Byron Donalds: “I still believe in spanking. I’ve got kids. I spank my kids.

[BrothaZay]

All I know is that shyt didn’t work on me or my brothers, it just made us move more discretely on how we did our dirt

So I never spanked my son that shyt wasn’t even needed

Y’all always say this as if putting a kid on punishment won’t make them move more discretely as well. Anyone who’s not a full blown compulsive idiot will move discretely once they know they can get in trouble for doing something

 

[concise]

Column: Why you should never use timeouts on your kids

At some point, we must accept that even though we all love our kids and want what’s best for them, parenting can’t be a strictly intuitive endeavor. Sometimes we need to listen, really listen, to the experts and the science — and both are telling us it’s time to quit punishing our children.

www.pbs.org

Punishment in any form is harmful, LaPointe said, because “it takes the core need of the child… and uses it as a bargaining chip.” A child has a lot of core needs, she said, but one of the most vital is emotional attachment — the very thing parents sacrifice when they place their kids in timeouts.

“The more you use punishments to respond to behavior, the more you are actually escalating behavior and creating a reality where you have more behavior problems,” LaPointe said.

 

[I'm Blackman]

whoop your kids

dont abuse, dont do it out of anger, dont use objects, dont use it as the only option/method, shower them with love, talk to them

....but whoop (small child, a hand on their bottom will do...nothing crazy) their ass if needed.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Column: Why you should never use timeouts on your kids

At some point, we must accept that even though we all love our kids and want what’s best for them, parenting can’t be a strictly intuitive endeavor. Sometimes we need to listen, really listen, to the experts and the science — and both are telling us it’s time to quit punishing our children.

www.pbs.org

damn, timeout harmful now

 

[Animal House]

Y’all always say this as if putting a kid on punishment won’t make them move more discretely as well. Anyone who’s not a full blown compulsive idiot will move discretely once they know they can get in trouble for doing something

Not the reason at all I just never did it a and he’s a fine young man


Just go with whatever works for you breh

 

[Wildhundreds]

damn, timeout harmful now

If you find yourself putting your kid in timeout ALL THE TIME, you have bigger issues. Im personally noticing parents don't have time to give their kids undivided attention on a consistent basis.. If you don't have adequate time, simply don't have kids.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Column: Why you should never use timeouts on your kids

At some point, we must accept that even though we all love our kids and want what’s best for them, parenting can’t be a strictly intuitive endeavor. Sometimes we need to listen, really listen, to the experts and the science — and both are telling us it’s time to quit punishing our children.

www.pbs.org

So if that kid has a attention problem and always find themselves playing video games and not doing homework. That kid keep bringing home Ds and Fs, you not going to do shyt? You just going to keep letting that kid play video games all day after school?

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Was this about spanking or was he giving an example about the debt ceiling? I not a fan of Byron Donalds but a 30 second clip doesn't say much.

 

[#1 pick]

Coli brehs gonna agree.

And call anyone who disagrees a cac.

I agree and I am calling anyone who disagrees a cac

 

[#1 pick]

My father beat me with a belt, stripped me naked, made me stand with my arms out until I couldn’t hold them out anymore…at which point he’d beat me like a slave. My mother once witnessed this happening, after coming home from work, and walked right past the room like she hadn’t seen anything. My father also, spied on me, cornered me and constantly violated my personal space, yelled directly at me, as loudly as he could, while balls of his spit would fly into my face. He’d undermine me, antagonize me, doubt me, talk down to me…and at the end of it all, apologize, and tell me he loved me. Every single time it happened. Let’s just say its been a difficult journey for my mental health.

I see why you post the way you do

 

[BunchePark]

hey I'm a father of 4

I'm the king of "don't make me buss that ass"

but I never actually buss that ass

 

[Ski Mask]

I dont think theres a right or wrong answer to this(tho i do lean towards it being harmful do teaching might makes righg), tho i think it could be that parents lazily use punishments where the kid might need therapy or other methods of guidance.

 

[MMS]

Did you even read the article?

When the parental response is to isolate the child, an instinctual psychological need of the child goes unmet. In fact, brain imaging shows that the experience of relational pain—like that caused by rejection—looks very similar to the experience of physical pain in terms of brain activity.

On top of everything, time-outs are usually ineffective in accomplishing the goals of discipline: to change behavior and build skills. Parents may think that time-outs cause children to calm down and reflect on their behavior. But instead, time-outs frequently make children angrier and more dysregulated, leaving them even less able to control themselves or think about what they’ve done, and more focused on how mean their parents are to have punished them.​

To me I got the Randy orton approach

Strike first, why’d you do it?

No reply?

Strike twice, say sorry?

Ok now go play and don’t do it again
If I got to raise my voice they weren’t listening to begin with As long as it’s the whip like crack and not the blunt force strike it seems effective. Blows my mindhow folks go back and forth in public, I would get taken outside and that was the end of it

 

[Braman]

I dont think theres a right or wrong answer to this(tho i do lean towards it being harmful do teaching might makes righg), tho i think it could be that parents lazily use punishments where the kid might need therapy or other methods of guidance.

This will fukk your kid up more than any punishment

 

[Ski Mask]

This will fukk your kid up more than any punishment

For me(the kid in question), i would say therapy helped me, but i will say that parents should keep their kids away from ssris/medicating them. I was a highly extroverted person as a teen(adhd) until i was put on zoloft. Became a recluse soon after