Also stable 2 parent households are a huge factor that many in the black community simply refuse to acknowledge. Tripping your child of the opportunity to grow up with big parents in the household is murder. You’re already killing your child. Kids need stability.
But we got men and women thinking it’s cool to aspire to having baby mamas and daddies. Folk should be shunned for that but we embrace that shyt.
We have a lot of work to do. Racism is a mahfukka but we need to play our part too.
I will say that many of the mexicans I have known still had baby mommas and daddies. The difference was as a family everyone chipped in to help. So a sister or brother will take in the kids. Or a mother and father will say hey you got all those kids come live with us.
Also like someone said before they have no problem living with family for years and years, pulling money together and having 2 or 3 or 4 jobs at the same time.
One more thing I would argue is that the black middle class has shrunk in the last 40 years due to jobs going overseas. Where as in border towns (I have worked in those) have had an explosion of wealth in the last 30 years. Because jobs have been pushed further south and into mexico.
I literally know tons of mexican americans that cross the boarder everyday to work at factories in mexico (get paid high american salaries). These same factories were once in america and in black neighborhoods (check out the companies in Reynosa Mexico).
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