1. She wants to go to a therapist to have support in telling you that you're the problem. Guaranteed if the therapist says she's being excessive NOTHING will change and she might even bush that therapist.
2. You, judging by your post, already go above and beyond what 95% of other men do for their woman.
3. She's entitled and never satisfied.
4. As a man you should be giving her the layout of how things go WITH her wants in mind. Example..
Her - I want to go out every week on a date, take a vacation every other month and do it big on holidays!
You - We'll do an outing/date every OTHER week. In the alternate week, we'll set up something intimate at home with just us. I'll save a certain percentage of my income for travel and holidays, we can aim for three vacations a year but within budget. It's your (the girl) job to organize and plan for most of them. (the times that you do it can be considered spontaneous or out of the ordinary to fulfill that need to feel courted or whatever)
A leader takes all necessary info and makes a plan to reach the goal.
5. This type of shyt is why people are broke regardless of what income they bring in. Shouldn't be spending more than 5k-8k on a 100k salary for relationship shyt
dawg, we have a whole future to worry about! What about the 401ks, the Roth IRAs and index funds?
6. Women tend to think extragantly and in a very short sighted manner. You are the manager, manage expectations.
7. This one is already lost, chalk it up and move on. Depending on how you exit, she might realize how dumb she is and start acting right. Next time, manage the expectations out the gate! Don't court a bytch all lavishly on some love bomb shyt.
Hope it all works out (not with that broad, but in life period)