Of course
Method is married and has kids
Red is single and no kids
Method is married and has kids
Red is single and no kids
Of course
Method is married and has kids
Red is single and no kids
I think the bolded is why you may feel that way.
The older I get, the less I hang with my friends and I'm only in my early 30s. I guess a good way to gauge if your friends don't really fukk with you specifically is to see if they're all hanging out with each other and leaving you hanging. But if you notice the entire friend group not hanging around anymore or hanging with other people you don't know, it's often a proximity thing.
Red has kids breh lolOf course
Method is married and has kids
Red is single and no kids
people def pick and choose who to apply that "life is lifing" ish to. i seem to be the only one everybody talks to on a regular basis so i see it first hand. they be asking me, "how's the homie".
babies be reaching for me, but start acting scary at the other friends because this is the first time meeting them
yikes.
maybe it's just something about me though, cuz they all don't keep in very close touch with each other for some reason. idk
Well I can't speak on your situation as I don't know the specifics.
I'm telling you "they're not f*cking with me" isn't necessarily a factor though.
These guys gave me a place to live when I was homeless as a teen. We'd put together enough money to get a hamburger from McDonald's, and split that sh*t.
If we had food, everybody ate. We literally gave each other the clothes off our backs, in some cases.
So this is a level of loyalty most people do not see, or experience.
I'm telling you cats do not have time like we did, back then. Some of us work completely different schedules. Some gotta go pick their kids up. Some gotta deal with sick family members, their mom, whatever.
Hell, I like to walk. Yesterday I walked 10 miles. None of them cats are gonna do that.
Nor do I expect them to. I don't care about sports, a couple of them went out of town to watch a Chiefs game. I like to read....are they gonna sit here and watch me read?
The love and loyalty is there but the time isn't. It's as simple as that. I went and seen "Infinity War" day 1 with one of these cats....he literally had to stay up 24 hours to make it happen. Due to his schedule being f*cked up. If that's what we gotta do to see each other I'd rather just text. We're old now.
Fred.
It's not like they grew up together. Them nikkas were grown ass men when they met, and were put together by Def Jam as a promotional tool because they both had ",Man" in their names. It's probably always just been a business relationship from the jump![]()
There’s also putting yourself in the mix and making yourself present. People get busy and life will pass you by if you aren’t making an effort to be in with people. I see it firsthand with my blood brother. We’re two years apart so always had pretty much the same circle of friends. But I choose to get to know their kids, ask about broader things in their life etc.
you won’t always get left behind on purpose but you can at least do your part to say you tried