Redman Admits He & Method Man No Longer Hang Out: 'My Circle Is Very Small'

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Sound like they're on two different pages completely if you refer to that red bull interview in the quotes :dead:


Meth is heavily in Hollywood now

Never expected to see you in a Red and Meth thread lol

Meth been acting since the 90’s

They just older now and both have busy schedules. That’s all. As Red said, they still cool
 

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I don't believe that you have to lose friends or closeness, or even stop hanging out completely as you get older. Of course, life takes you into different directions, and some may move far away, but you should still make time for your friends and outside interests, as well. But it also depends on the types of friendships you had, and whether or not they were seasonal.

After a couple of decades of close friendship, you become family, so it's nothing to stop by or include them just as you would family. While the frequency changes, it should never stop altogether, and definitely not if y'all live in the same city. Hell, in this interview Reggie said his circle consists of Doitall & Capri. that he hangs out with and sees. Hell, if women can do it, so can men. And you see it in the older heads that and may hang out at a bar or event or something, the stoop.

Besides, as you get older, you don't do anything but replace the ones that you had. If you're not out solo all the time, then those bar, sporting events, showers, celebrations, after work events with acquaintances, relaxation moments is time that you have for your friends - schedules permitting.
 

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they're almost sixty... i hope nobody thought they were still smoking blunts before class :pachaha:

Group chats is how me and my old friends talk and we only have time to meet up a few times a year

nikkas got kids and shyt :pachaha:
the group chat is so important! we use discord to keep up which is cool cos you dont have to be online 24/7 to catch somebody, you can just leave photos and messages to read later. good shyt :obama:
 

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I don’t know if I agree with this especially if we all live in the same city

I will say for clarity I’m currently going through that situation right now and I’m very much feeling a type of way about it if I’m being honest, and Lowkey not having free time is kinda a bad excuse in my opinion

I’m honestly at a point where ima chalk it up as folks not really fukking with me for real, which it is what it is I didn’t necessarily have friends like that anyway growing up

I been through it bruh....they fukk with you, theyre just busy and tired.

Work (i take work home)
kids (and all the shyt that comes with that)
caring for older parents (my circle in their 40s)
marriage or girlfriend
cleaning. the crib and car
errands
working out
extra committee obligations
serving on church boards


If they arent doing that theyre probably sleep. In HS and college we hung together 24 7 almost because we were physically around each other 24 7.


I was feeling some type of way about a friend not hitting me back at one point. My brotha was like :mjtf: the man has a full time job, an elderly mother he cares for, and a newborn. When he broke it down logically like that of course it makes sense. Also, i know if i need him for some real shyt (stranded, help me move, somebody died, somebody needs to die, ride to the airport, etc) he’ll drop everything and come.

I do make it point to at least have a few text message threads going so we communicate regularly, so the connection isnt totally lost.


Side note...this is one reason women outlive us. Theyre better at making friends, talking to them regularly, and keeping bonds over the years.
 
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