REALEST EBRO RANT on Hot97: No One Cares About The Plight Of Men

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As a black man, we definitely have an easier path to this sort of thing, but I think it's fair to say this is an 'every man' thing.
ehh I know some new age whites that haven't fully bought into the patriarchal structure. Liberal whites and all that.

being a black man, our image is tied with being hyper-masculine. Some women find it attractive, some men buy into it, some don't, regardless of whether or not it's true.
 

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B4TT3RY: When ladies demand confidence from men in order for men to be accepted, then men start faking confidence. They put up a facade and pretend like everything is going good for them, when in reality they might be depressed, stressed, worried, etc. All this does is build up anger, resentment, self-loathing. And the person he wants to be able to share these feelings with, his partner, will react negatively when she finds out he's not as confident as she thought.

A Youtube user made an interesting comment.
 

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ehh I know some new age whites that haven't fully bought into the patriarchal structure. Liberal whites and all that.

being a black man, our image is tied with being hyper-masculine. Some women find it attractive, some men buy into it, some don't, regardless of whether or not it's true.

cause they usually trust fund babies living off their people's money get to do that. They're afforded the chance to be weak by the strength of their families. You could say the "patriarchy" is the only thing sustaining their ability to reject it and the same is true for the women:sas2:

Besides how could the average man ditch "patriarchy"? what does that entail? Aside from accepting women with huge bodycounts of course:mjlol:

Refusing to work to pursue happiness instead? Not supporting himself? Telling everyone about their feels? Who can hold down a family, a woman who respects him, a good career and respect from his peers living like Cole from Martin?

thing about these feminist buzzwords and especially their terrible advice is there is no foundation in reality. just saying whatever sounds convenient (for them)
 

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ehh I know some new age whites that haven't fully bought into the patriarchal structure. Liberal whites and all that.

being a black man, our image is tied with being hyper-masculine. Some women find it attractive, some men buy into it, some don't, regardless of whether or not it's true.

Dog - this isn't even a "patriarchy" issue. This is straight up "I am a grown male" chit.

The most liberal white hipster male understands:

- "I should have (insert rite of passage) by now"
- "I am wasting my potential doin _____, I want to do something else"
- "people do not appreciate what I do"


again, those are things that are not confined to the male/female dynamic.
 

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cause they usually trust fund babies living off their people's money get to do that. They're afforded the chance to be weak by the strength of their families. You could say the "patriarchy" is the only thing sustaining their ability to reject it and the same is true for the women:sas2:

Besides how could the average man ditch "patriarchy"? what does that entail?

Refusing to work to pursue happiness instead? Not supporting himself? Telling everyone about their feels? Who can hold down a family, a woman who respects him, a good career and respect from his peers living like Cole from Martin?

I think you're suggesting the most extreme outcome.

I know the ideal is unfathomable because of the norm that has been ingrained and accepted for generations, but as a society that's constantly evolving it wouldn't hurt to have a discussion about a true medium.
 

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I don't think it's men, I think it's black men. Black men aren't allowed to complain, you just gotta keep it pushing. You're depressed? Oh well, you just suck it up and keep it moving. Now I'm not a man, but I have witnessed this with the black men I grew up with (especially my father). Nobody really gives a fukk. It hurts to see it.

Not to mention the fact that Black women have also bought into the stereotypes white media presents of Black men.

Most Black women, deep down, believe Black men are nothing but brutes with big dikks. Not much different than the average cac when it comes to Black men.

Black men are on our own in this society.
 

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Not to mention the fact that Black women have also bought into the stereotypes white media presents of Black men.

Most Black women, deep down, believe Black men are nothing but brutes with big dikks. Not much different than the average cac when it comes to Black men.

Black men are on our own in this society.

Let's not.

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Damn, half yall sound gay as fukk B. I actually agree with @bcrusaderw. You cant wanna be "the man" in the relationship and be coddled at the same time. Thays incongruous. Couldn't picture myself being laid up under some woman for months on end complaining about how she doesn't understand my plight. :scust:That shyt don't even sound right
 

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Not to mention the fact that Black women have also bought into the stereotypes white media presents of Black men.

Most Black women, deep down, believe Black men are nothing but brutes with big dikks. Not much different than the average cac when it comes to Black men.

Black men are on our own in this society.

Here you go with this shyt bruh. How many black men play rigjt along with that stereotype? A plethora of dudes on this very site place our value on nothing more than how e can dikk down white women to make their men mad. What kinda shyt is that? Every time im in the gym locker room I hear these young high school knuckleheads placing their worth on how much p*ssy their getting. Not a solitary utterance about the grades they're getting. So whats the difference between black men and women in that regard anyway?
 

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And this is what I'd say a passive aggressive fakkit would say.

Damn, half yall sound gay as fukk B.

some mothafukkas are clueless huh :snoop:
:rudy:nikka you ARE the problem.
a man can't even call it like it is on a damn forum without other nikkas callin him gay and feminine :why: that shyt doesn't make sense.
and i guarantee neither of you watched the video...cause what point is there to be made right? men just gotta suck it up every day of their lives and shut the fukk up, right? :camby:

but i aint even mad for real, cause its only nikkas that understand the whole point of this thread that know how the game works and use that to our advantage. ima get mine trust that :umad:
 
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