Quick Little Gems on Dealing with Men Thread
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Playing games because someone else played one on you is ultimately a losing proposition. A woman who plays games because she has been played is introducing a filthy and losing mindset into her own mentality and allowing the conman that did her wrong to have an even greater victory by planting a seed of corruption into her mind.
What people need to understand is having game doesn't mean 'playing games,' or in other words, lying, deceiving and 'getting over' on someone else. Having game means having the knowledge and wherewithal to successfully accomplish whatever it is you intend to do. Kobe Bryant has game in basketball not by being a mediocre or bad player and deceiving people that he is actually a skilled player. He has game because he legitimately has an understanding of what it takes to be successful at basketball and he knows how to bring that game on court when it's gametime.
So with that said, I'd like to warn you ladies from adopting a deceptive mindset from any of the lying, dishonest losers you come across in your dating endeavors. Doing so will only guarantee that you drive away the honest man who would actually have done you well.
that's real, i don't know if women think it makes us want them more but personally it's a turn off. I don't mind a busy chick (i actually prefer it) but at the same time a chick that wants me to chase is a turn off. I'll pursue something with a chick (meaning we're both pursuing something together) and matter of fact, if i see that we're a team pursuing something i'll actually feel her more and want to build something with her more. but once i see she's really just trying to get me to chase, i'll either lose interest in her completely or just play her game til i get her p*ssy and then bushes. and even that i'm not doing anymore cause i'm becoming less and less patient and a lot of time after the fact you feel disgusted cause you realize all the effort you put in and her p*ssy wasn't even worth it (post-nut clarity). where as if she had been real and if i felt like she was real with me, the bad energy and frustration wouldn't be there and the post-nut clarity would make me see that i can build with her and bond with her.
i'll admit i've made that mistake in the past out of spite. When i saw someone try to play me, i'd be on a mission to show them they can't beat me. but it's really inferior bytch behavior and i'd still end up losing at the end cause all that energy could have been spent in the pursuit of happiness instead...
and what i said about how i would start to play her game and beat her at it if i felt like she was playing me, if i ended up losing, i felt like i deserved it in the end for even going in. And that's one point i'd like to make with the ladies. Once you realize you're messing with a player, if you choose to keep messing with him and try to beat him at his own game, then anything that happens afterwards you deserve. Don't cry foul at the end if you end up on the losing end. once you start playing you get no sympathy.
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Ms~Opinionated
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Most of your time dealing with a man will be catering to his ego. Not just catering in the cooking cleaning sense, cause let these new knuckleheads tell it, that's all there is to it. Men are prideful creatures, and they are as fragile and irrational with their ego as women are said to be with their emotions.
A lotta conflict goes on these days because men want their emotions to be catered to and women their ego, instead of the other way around which is the natural order of things.
That being said, you gotta be cautious in choosing your words and actions so as not to harm the delicate ego of a man. Make him feel like he's the man and cheerlead him on incessantly no matter how asinine you might think it is (within reason). Don't fight dirty, and keep it respectful because a man with a bruised ego...well just take a look around the Coli for examples
Semi-relatedly, avoid men who grew up with all sisters or all women in the house and no father, especially if you did grow up with a good father. He's not used to seeing how a man and woman should talk to each other in an discussion or argument. He will get inappropriately confrontational or overly argumentative with you and yap too fukking much in the manner that women will often confront each other. Some heterosexual men are out here walking around with the subconscious attitudes and mannerisms of women and if you too are naturally a very feminine person, the whole balance of energy is off and both of ya'll will end up with constant headaches.
You are so right.
I don't have much to add but I have learned you have to stroke his ego. This may sound manipulative, but its about keeping the peace and letting him know he is appreciated.
He is a man, respect him and tell him. This means being a bit submissive.
Be vocal about how much you admire him. Compliment him. Compliments are FREE, don't cost a thing.
I like to be right, but sometimes you got to let him win.
This doesn't mean you can't be feisty, but there are instances where less is more.
Let him take care of things. I know the guys here all talk about hating simps, but guys are naturally simps.
Whenever I present a problem I have to ANY of the men I know they think it over and usually try to help fix it. It is in there nature to take care of things. That is why guys fall for that damsel in distress thing or that baby talk girls do that I hate. They love it, because it is in their nature to take care of and handle things and fix problems. So make him feel useful, needed, and loved.That's all I got.
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Feed me.
fukk me.
Shut up.
Though seriously, I think all these ladies talking about waiting to have sex and not to do it too early, blah blah blah, are going about this the wrong way. I honestly think that the sooner a girl gives it up, the better it is to see the true intentions of a guy.
If a guy wants nothing to do with you, once you have sex he will lose all interest and move on to the next. While I understand most women don't wanna be played that way, if he still sticks around, he definitely things you're something special and really likes you. If you just hold sex over him like the rabbit in a greyhound race, isn't it hard to tell if all his interest is genuine or if he's just holding on until he gets the cat?
Feed me.
fukk me.
Shut up.
Though seriously, I think all these ladies talking about waiting to have sex and not to do it too early, blah blah blah, are going about this the wrong way. I honestly think that the sooner a girl gives it up, the better it is to see the true intentions of a guy.
If a guy wants nothing to do with you, once you have sex he will lose all interest and move on to the next. While I understand most women don't wanna be played that way, if he still sticks around, he definitely things you're something special and really likes you. If you just hold sex over him like the rabbit in a greyhound race, isn't it hard to tell if all his interest is genuine or if he's just holding on until he gets the cat?
This goes for both males and females of you find a good man or woman don't f it up, you may never get that opportunity again.
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