JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
no disrespect but im not reading all that.............
u need to learn how to express yourself more concisely if you expect me to read ur posts........no nikka wants a rambling female......
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no disrespect but im not reading all that.............
u need to learn how to express yourself more concisely if you expect me to read ur posts........no nikka wants a rambling female......
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
For the sake of me having a good day, this will be my last response to you...The last thing Im trying to do is impress a font on a message board..
JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
im trying to help u..........ur looking for pointers on how to better deal with a man, well.......im giving them to u.
You over there letting these unhappy cluckers fill ur head with bullshyt........and youre actually running with it.
If you want to see that nikka Saturday and he wants to see you......GO SEE HIM SATURDAY!
anybody telling u differntly is a dummy.
But if u decide to disregard my advice and choose to stick to your guns and continue stalling this nikka out.......
i truly hope he fukks the shyt out of u and flips the game on u......im dead ass
Libra Lady
All Star
Some will never understand that saying something like that, especially to another female, isn't a good look at all. It makes one wonder how they got to that place of distrust and if it was from their end.
This is the gawd honest truth!
I can not stand women who say they cant get alone with other girls and have nothing but male friends and brag about how much they know men yet you single with 4 failed relationships
I'm almost positive that when a woman says, "I don't get along with other women... I only have guy friends" it translates to, "I'm a bustdown" in man speak.
Those women are usually the most jealous ones and I don't need all that 'mal de ojo' in my life.
I almost forgot to mention the 'Bitter Bobby' in this thread... Who hurt you, Suckmebeautiful???? You should try lamaze, it will help you get thru the pain.
@Tee it does appear that you're playing games when you said that you didn't want to appear desperate. If you're declining his offers because you're genuninely busy or you just appreciate notice, then that's one thing. But doing it because you don't want him to think you're feeling him is another.
If you like hanging out with him, allow yourself to have a good time as many times in a row as you want. If you're not doing anything , just go.
If you like hanging out with him, allow yourself to have a good time as many times in a row as you want. If you're not doing anything , just go.
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
Thats really all it was..everytime he asked me to go somewhere it was last minute..If Mr.Super Smart Ass in this thread would have read and understood my posts correctly, he would have came to the conclusion..
Seriously,Imma take a hiatus from this thread...
PartyHeart
All Star
That dude was an obvious troll, don't let him run you out of the thread.
I actually agreed with what you said. Being too accessible isn't a good look. Plans should be made in advance and then confirmed the day of, not everything a few hours before you want to go out. That's for anybody. I'd hate for people to assume I just ain't doing shyt and then I confirm it for them
if u feeling him and want to spend time go for it but if he doing it last minute (which for me i dont like doing) tell him to let u know more far advanced so u can get urself situated in time aint nothing wrong with saying tell me more in advance.
regardless though u can go out with him as often as u like if u enjoy his company that much dont let nobody tell u otherwise.
i get u dont want to be looking easy but u can do that going out without givin up the goods until u feel ur ready and he is worth giving it up too.
take ur time at ur own pace u will be just fine.
JoelB
All Praise To TMH
Most of your time dealing with a man will be catering to his ego. Not just catering in the cooking cleaning sense, cause let these new knuckleheads tell it, that's all there is to it. Men are prideful creatures, and they are as fragile and irrational with their ego as women are said to be with their emotions.
A lotta conflict goes on these days because men want their emotions to be catered to and women their ego, instead of the other way around which is the natural order of things.
That being said, you gotta be cautious in choosing your words and actions so as not to harm the delicate ego of a man. Make him feel like he's the man and cheerlead him on incessantly no matter how asinine you might think it is (within reason). Don't fight dirty, and keep it respectful because a man with a bruised ego...well just take a look around the Coli for examples
Semi-relatedly, avoid men who grew up with all sisters or all women in the house and no father, especially if you did grow up with a good father. He's not used to seeing how a man and woman should talk to each other in an discussion or argument. He will get inappropriately confrontational or overly argumentative with you and yap too fukking much in the manner that women will often confront each other. Some heterosexual men are out here walking around with the subconscious attitudes and mannerisms of women and if you too are naturally a very feminine person, the whole balance of energy is off and both of ya'll will end up with constant headaches.
I thought this thread was going to be one long ass Keyshia Cole song, but ya'll droppin some gems in here.
this thread needed a re-up. some of y'all are drunk with perceived power and buying into your own p*ssy hype. Misplaced arrogance will get that heart broken. Stop letting these simps enable you and stop following faulty advice from fellow females who are also drinking the kool-aid. misplaced arrogance will get that heart broken.
I agree. Too many females take advice from females about men knowing damn well homegirl aint no better in that department herself.
I need to go back to the first page and read this ish.
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
You can't make a man love you, no matter what you do or what sacrifices you have made, it don't mean shyt if you were looking for some specific or desired result and didn't get it.
Always love yourself first and everything else will fall into place.
Props to Turbulent for establishing reality again with his post.
Always love yourself first and everything else will fall into place.
Props to Turbulent for establishing reality again with his post.
lotsa truth in this post especially the ego aspect....i know my ego is outa this world....i get all kinds of upset when u attack my ego lol 
know thy self i guess
know thy self i guess