Quick Little Gems on Dealing with Men Thread

[George Gooney]

Men arent simple human beings. They are just as complex as us women. Often times, u will get by trying to read them.

Make sure u have wayyy more wants from a man than needs

Stay away from mammas boys and men with out any positive male role models in his life.

Dont judge a man by his exterior...ive learned that the dread head covered in tats have a lot more to offer than the clean cut man in a suit.

welcome back Vee!!! i agree with the bolded

 

[George Gooney]

welcome back Vee!!! i agree with the bolded

why did i confuse this for the dealing with women thread???













no ****

 

[Ooh Marty]

IDK whether this is a gem or what but if a man can't make me laugh, I quickly lose interest in him. He could be attractive as hell but if he cant make me giggle I gotta KIM.

 

[Petty Crocker]

So I definitely took heed and made a conscious effort to not be readily available all the time..I dont want to come across desperate..So after date #1 on Saturday, he wanted to take me to the park/zoo on Sunday..I politely declined..He calls me just now to see if we could go to the movies..Declined that as well and made plans to hang out on Thursday.
I gently informed him that I have no problem hanging out with him but I would need notice in advance..He seemed to understand and agreed to meet with me on Thursday.

 

[malbaker86]

So I definitely took heed and made a conscious effort to not be readily available all the time..I dont want to come across desperate..So after date #1 on Saturday, he wanted to take me to the park/zoo on Sunday..I politely declined..He calls me just now to see if we could go to the movies..Declined that as well and made plans to hang out on Thursday.

I gently informed him that I have no problem hanging out with him but I would need notice in advance..He seemed to understand and agreed to meet with me on Thursday.

That's pretty smart of you to do that. If only more females followed this path.

 

[PartyHeart]

You will never be one of the boys. No matter how many bytches and hoes you call other females to fit in, no matter how much you try to shame females playing the game in front of guys, nor how much you turn a blind eye/help your male friends cheat on their women, there is a loyalty that men have between each other that they won't give a female no matter what. So don't play yourself trying to get that type of approval from men, you're better off trying to establish that bond with a close female friend(s) because she'll understand your experience easier.

Story about this: I met a girl when I first moved to Cali who was on that "I don't get along with females, I only have male friends" stuff. That's an immediate red flag to me so I distanced myself and kim with some other female friends who I deemed more trustworthy. But she and I still chatted from time to time.

Well she tells me this morning that she was fooling around on the side with a dude other than the one she is dating, and the men who were her 'friends' and knew her bf for all of a week told him all about her side piece. Called her a hoe and a golddigger to him and everything. She on the phone crying and I'm trying my best to give her the "woo woo woo" treatment like Sinclair, but I don't feel sorry for her. If there's an equivalent word to a c00n for Black folks for the female gender, she was one, so it is what it is I think women in general just doing too much to be accepted by men these days.

 

[Libra Lady]

^ Terrific post. I too have always been wary of females who claim that they don't get along with other women/ only have male friends- its like why? Eh.

Anyways, I have come across so many females who go above and beyond to try and be 'one of the boys' only to be pushed back into their lane. Now there is nothing wrong with liking something that may be deemed more for guys, (trust me I know) but some take it to such a level that it becomes doing too damn much.

 

[Ooh Marty]

You will never be one of the boys. No matter how many bytches and hoes you call other females to fit in, no matter how much you try to shame females playing the game in front of guys, nor how much you turn a blind eye/help your male friends cheat on their women, there is a loyalty that men have between each other that they won't give a female no matter what. So don't play yourself trying to get that type of approval from men, you're better off trying to establish that bond with a close female friend(s) because she'll understand your experience easier.

Story about this: I met a girl when I first moved to Cali who was on that "I don't get along with females, I only have male friends" stuff. That's an immediate red flag to me so I distanced myself and kim with some other female friends who I deemed more trustworthy. But she and I still chatted from time to time.

Well she tells me this morning that she was fooling around on the side with a dude other than the one she is dating, and the men who were her 'friends' and knew her bf for all of a week told him all about her side piece. Called her a hoe and a golddigger to him and everything. She on the phone crying and I'm trying my best to give her the "woo woo woo" treatment like Sinclair, but I don't feel sorry for her. If there's an equivalent word to a c00n for Black folks for the female gender, she was one, so it is what it is I think women in general just doing too much to be accepted by men these days.

This is the gawd honest truth!

I can not stand women who say they cant get alone with other girls and have nothing but male friends and brag about how much they know men yet you single with 4 failed relationships

 

[malbaker86]

I think women in general just doing too much to be accepted by men these days.

 

[JasonSJackson]

So I definitely took heed and made a conscious effort to not be readily available all the time..I dont want to come across desperate..So after date #1 on Saturday, he wanted to take me to the park/zoo on Sunday..I politely declined..He calls me just now to see if we could go to the movies..Declined that as well and made plans to hang out on Thursday.
I gently informed him that I have no problem hanging out with him but I would need notice in advance..He seemed to understand and agreed to meet with me on Thursday.

i hope the games these cluckers got u playing blow up right in ur face

 

[Petty Crocker]

i hope the games these cluckers got u playing blow up right in ur face

Why you mad tho?

 

[JasonSJackson]

Why you mad tho?

not mad at all.........

U have decided to start playing games with guys instead of being geniune.......cool

My hope is that you play this game with the right person. A person who's able to recognize what ure doing, plays along with ur little game till he gets into ur panties, fukks the shyt out of u, then gives u a dose of your own medicine.........


thats all

 

[JasonSJackson]

Here are some gems for you ladies, straight from the horses mouth..........

Be down to suck ur guys dikk whenever he wants you to.

Wake him up with a dikk suck every now and then

Let him cum in your mouth

If he wants to cum inside of you let him..........Dont put up resistance to the things he wants to do with you sexually.

Dont talk so much.

Dont call unless it's something important. Let the dude hit your phone first........

dont ever double call

dont flood a nikka with texts...........

Dont question his choices.........

clean his dikk after sex........

dont talk so much.......

cook

if u see a mess, dont point it out.......clean that shyt

 

[PartyHeart]

^ Terrific post. I too have always been wary of females who claim that they don't get along with other women/ only have male friends- its like why? Eh.

Anyways, I have come across so many females who go above and beyond to try and be 'one of the boys' only to be pushed back into their lane. Now there is nothing wrong with liking something that may be deemed more for guys, (trust me I know) but some take it to such a level that it becomes doing too damn much.

Exactly! I'm trying to figure out why these type of chicks even say that to other females. Its like, what am I supposed to do with this information? Dap you up and say yeah girl none of us are good friends at all.

The very least they can do is just say that shyt to guys. At least then she'd have a chance that they'd consider her 'special' or 'different'.

This is the gawd honest truth!

I can not stand women who say they cant get alone with other girls and have nothing but male friends and brag about how much they know men yet you single with 4 failed relationships

lol @ the gif. She is exactly that type too. I will give her that the "one of the boys" thing works in terms of her getting money out of dudes, but its one thing for it to be a game and another for you to actually believe they see you the same way they see their boys or will treat you as such when push comes to shove

 

[Petty Crocker]

not mad at all.........

U have decided to start playing games with guys instead of being geniune.......cool

My hope is that you play this game with the right person. A person who's able to recognize what ure doing, plays along with ur little game till he gets into ur panties, fukks the shyt out of u, then gives u a dose of your own medicine.........


thats all

You are more the welcome to post your opinion...However you dont know what my intentions are and you are already making assumptions..I dont owe you an explanation, but for the sake of being a woman, I'll play along

First, what you fail to realize is that Im not a person that jumps to anyone's beck and call..I have obligations and responsibilites to take care of on a daily basis, as a grown woman should..I will not lose my individuality and focus just because someone wants to hang out..Just like "he" has a life before he met me, I have one before, during, and after I met him...What confuses me is that certain men will complain about a woman who is too clingy but when a woman exercises a little restraint, we playing games..We all need personal space and time to explore our hobbies and interests as well

As I stated before, I have no problem with hanging out, but I do like to be notified in advance to be able to make arrangements if needed..I dont see what the problem is with that. I dont expect for "him" to drop everything for me and I would hope he would respect that about me as well.

Now, see how I havent been in the Men's gem thread with my unpopular opinions? I would hope that you can do the same.