honestly as aman the two most important things you have at your disposal is Commitment which i mentioned before and the ability to walk away and never look back.
Every broad out there thinks her puzzy is the greatest, or that hse is so beautiful that no matter what she does she can just say sorry and draw that man back to her.
its called "applying the craft," or her putting her witchcraft on you. in the old days this is what our grandmothers or even grandmothers' grandmother would call it. men can do this to women too, but typically sex is used as a tool from women to get what they want. women udnerstand this, and its why they will typically be more reserved when they see a man they like. they dont want to lose that and give that power to a man and look thirsty. a woman's sexuality is her witchcraft, and in this society, a main source of power. she knows that if she sets it off right she will be able to have a man "under her spell" so to speak. this man will now become hers and she can get him to do what she wants, because she has this power/spell over him. see this is how they used to talk, because more or less this is how it works.
the way it typically goes between both sexes is this: she wants to lure a man with her looks/flirtations/sex, and a man gets a woman through the premise that he is capable and willing to pay her some attention/companionship/protection, depending on the level of game each one is playing at. and I think the more you understand ways to do this to your partner without really doing it, is a trick in itself which is done by all the master manipulators of this game ...
if a woman thinks that a man is truly there for her and can provide her something she wants, she could be under his spell. women in turn run game by making you think that she will let you fukk her, or making you think youre the only one fukking her. deep down females dont like men who arent true and dedicated them (ie. spending time and money on them), and men hate to be used by a woman who isnt really interested and isnt down with him like he wants her to be (hes spending time and resources because he wants to fukk, and he wants her to be his). the two relationships are not really looking going about the same way for the same things, and thus they dont play out the same on each side. also, its very different as women understand their inherent power a lot more. its something that we give to them more readily. nonetheless, it all revolves around appearances and manipulation is a very surface level game.
honestly, its frustrating to get too deep into it if you dont like playing games. but its real. this is the context of how many people are interacting and operating with one another. sexual manipulation is everywhere and has become a part of how the genders function with each other. women KNOW that they can seduce, entice, and lure men to them with their looks and promises of sex, and like dumb asses many men throughout time just wag their tongues out, jump at the bait, and chase any and everything we can because of our lust for sex. the key problem here being, "chasing any and everything we can" or anything that LOOKS good. without proper judgement, restraint, or even a touch of critical thinking you will be caught in it too. its wired in our bodies to satisfy our urges, but its
in our mind where everything is going to have its last word. so when a woman is weaving her spell on you and you think everything looks fine, make sure you know whats happening and that your mind is in control of your actions, not your body.
having your mind and your body agree with each other and move towards one road is difficult, but important if you want to control your life.
women can doom themselves by listening too much to their bodies too, because they want to have babies, they want sex also, they want the comfort of having a strong man with them, and they want male guidance/attention to balance out their feminine ways. just like ol girl who wants to "be in a relationship" just because. shes about to set herself up in a situation because shes not thinking it all the way through. women will settle for men just because they may have money or status; put up with cheating, choose lowlife men, and only listen to their emotions which tell them that this man which only satisfies one of her needs is for her. men doom ourselves by chasing ass, and not thinking it all the way through. we chase women typically for only one thing, so the rest just happens to come along with it. we go raw, we fukk certain women just because we can, we endanger stable relationships we have, we flirt with women in relationships and we put lust over our own well being. all of that can be harmful to us in different ways.
if we let a woman manipulate us and take control of our choices then we're going to be trapped into being a pawn of our bodies and her will. living and making choices by using forward thinking and in being in control of our urges is our best weapon and asset towards everything out there. we honestly have to know in life what we want, and what we dont want. that way we know who we want, and who we dont want. we need to be in tuned with our goals and how to make everything match with that, and to not go against that. it takes an acknowledgement of our weaknesses, our situation, and a discipline from ourselves.
my thing right now is this, when men wake up from extreme ways of thinking, from either being a p*ssy ass feminist or from being a straight player who dogs every women hes been with, then I believe we can start to see the playing field for real and understand everyones motivation as well as how they chose to go about it. once from there, we should be more able to find like minds, avoid unnecessary drama and bad mistakes. when you can find people on your thinking level and who can understand you, you will be able to go further with them and everyone should be able to get what they want. at the least, everyone can start to make better decisions. one.
I just thought it was a little odd. Never knew people set goals to be in a relationship.
