write a book, breh. Seriously.
write a series of books.
write a series of books.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Here's a perfect example of what we've been talking about
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sher...e-caught-him-having-sex-with-his-wife.136436/
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sher...e-caught-him-having-sex-with-his-wife.136436/
"In the past I’ve described the female sexual strategy as schizophrenic, but what it really is is pluralistic. All the jokes you read as ***** memes about ‘chick logic’ are only funny because we all have an intrinsic, largely unspoken, understanding of this sexual pluralism. The female sexual response is characterized by a dual nature, Alpha fukks and Beta bucks.
That’s the simplistic, distilled version ready for easy consumption and understanding, but the feminine sexual response is much more detailed on an individual level, and much more significant on a social level than just this jargon. Every stimulus bearing on the feminine, from how she’ll explain her girl’s night out to her LTR Beta, to how women in the workplace can rejigger legislature to create a society directed by the feminine imperative, all come back to the Alpha fukks / Beta bucks equation for optimizing Hypergamy.”
- Great Books For Men
That’s the simplistic, distilled version ready for easy consumption and understanding, but the feminine sexual response is much more detailed on an individual level, and much more significant on a social level than just this jargon. Every stimulus bearing on the feminine, from how she’ll explain her girl’s night out to her LTR Beta, to how women in the workplace can rejigger legislature to create a society directed by the feminine imperative, all come back to the Alpha fukks / Beta bucks equation for optimizing Hypergamy.”
- Great Books For Men
Huellz Santana
Shocking
'preciate the feedback. I think she is just naturally submissive. I'm not worried about getting played, she's one of the most naturally good-hearted people I know. I'm more worried about breaking her heart and I'm trying to be mature and balance what matters most with what is nice to have. I worry about the lack of passion/lack of outward sexual expression because I know if I get bored in the bedroom I will have a high incentive to cheat. I'm hoping that she is just getting more comfortable with me and that over time she will open up more.
ironically she's the female version of me. I've been told by numerous girls that I'm hard as fukk to read. sucks to have the shoe on the other foot. lol. its weird because as incompatible as me and my last chick were, she was crazy passionate and feminine and I really liked that. but I didn't like the drama it caused.
ironically she's the female version of me. I've been told by numerous girls that I'm hard as fukk to read. sucks to have the shoe on the other foot. lol. its weird because as incompatible as me and my last chick were, she was crazy passionate and feminine and I really liked that. but I didn't like the drama it caused.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Kicked it with my boys over past weekend until early wee hours of morning.None of us had to get that phone call "Where you at? What time you coming home".
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I been said some of these shows yes some reality shows subconciously effect women more then anything.
I just thought it was a little odd. Never knew people set goals to be in a relationship.
MBwithadream
All Star
I messed up again. but this time tho I just wanted my thing wet.
CrossBones
Louder than words
its called "applying the craft," or her putting her witchcraft on you. in the old days this is what our grandmothers or even grandmothers' grandmother would call it. men can do this to women too, but typically sex is used as a tool from women to get what they want. women udnerstand this, and its why they will typically be more reserved when they see a man they like. they dont want to lose that and give that power to a man and look thirsty. a woman's sexuality is her witchcraft, and in this society, a main source of power. she knows that if she sets it off right she will be able to have a man "under her spell" so to speak. this man will now become hers and she can get him to do what she wants, because she has this power/spell over him. see this is how they used to talk, because more or less this is how it works.
the way it typically goes between both sexes is this: she wants to lure a man with her looks/flirtations/sex, and a man gets a woman through the premise that he is capable and willing to pay her some attention/companionship/protection, depending on the level of game each one is playing at. and I think the more you understand ways to do this to your partner without really doing it, is a trick in itself which is done by all the master manipulators of this game ...
if a woman thinks that a man is truly there for her and can provide her something she wants, she could be under his spell. women in turn run game by making you think that she will let you fukk her, or making you think youre the only one fukking her. deep down females dont like men who arent true and dedicated them (ie. spending time and money on them), and men hate to be used by a woman who isnt really interested and isnt down with him like he wants her to be (hes spending time and resources because he wants to fukk, and he wants her to be his). the two relationships are not really looking going about the same way for the same things, and thus they dont play out the same on each side. also, its very different as women understand their inherent power a lot more. its something that we give to them more readily. nonetheless, it all revolves around appearances and manipulation is a very surface level game.
honestly, its frustrating to get too deep into it if you dont like playing games. but its real. this is the context of how many people are interacting and operating with one another. sexual manipulation is everywhere and has become a part of how the genders function with each other. women KNOW that they can seduce, entice, and lure men to them with their looks and promises of sex, and like dumb asses many men throughout time just wag their tongues out, jump at the bait, and chase any and everything we can because of our lust for sex. the key problem here being, "chasing any and everything we can" or anything that LOOKS good. without proper judgement, restraint, or even a touch of critical thinking you will be caught in it too. its wired in our bodies to satisfy our urges, but its in our mind where everything is going to have its last word. so when a woman is weaving her spell on you and you think everything looks fine, make sure you know whats happening and that your mind is in control of your actions, not your body.
having your mind and your body agree with each other and move towards one road is difficult, but important if you want to control your life.
women can doom themselves by listening too much to their bodies too, because they want to have babies, they want sex also, they want the comfort of having a strong man with them, and they want male guidance/attention to balance out their feminine ways. just like ol girl who wants to "be in a relationship" just because. shes about to set herself up in a situation because shes not thinking it all the way through. women will settle for men just because they may have money or status; put up with cheating, choose lowlife men, and only listen to their emotions which tell them that this man which only satisfies one of her needs is for her. men doom ourselves by chasing ass, and not thinking it all the way through. we chase women typically for only one thing, so the rest just happens to come along with it. we go raw, we fukk certain women just because we can, we endanger stable relationships we have, we flirt with women in relationships and we put lust over our own well being. all of that can be harmful to us in different ways.
if we let a woman manipulate us and take control of our choices then we're going to be trapped into being a pawn of our bodies and her will. living and making choices by using forward thinking and in being in control of our urges is our best weapon and asset towards everything out there. we honestly have to know in life what we want, and what we dont want. that way we know who we want, and who we dont want. we need to be in tuned with our goals and how to make everything match with that, and to not go against that. it takes an acknowledgement of our weaknesses, our situation, and a discipline from ourselves.
my thing right now is this, when men wake up from extreme ways of thinking, from either being a p*ssy ass feminist or from being a straight player who dogs every women hes been with, then I believe we can start to see the playing field for real and understand everyones motivation as well as how they chose to go about it. once from there, we should be more able to find like minds, avoid unnecessary drama and bad mistakes. when you can find people on your thinking level and who can understand you, you will be able to go further with them and everyone should be able to get what they want. at the least, everyone can start to make better decisions. one.
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CrossBones
Louder than words
you might have to bring it out of her. she might be the more romantic type, so once you crack into her pysche you can both reap the rewards. as much as we want to have a complete product in front of us, that is rare. so not every women is perfect or ready to be on the level we are. as the man and the leader, you are going to have to approach this problem
you sound like you really like her and want things to work. if you feel shes worth it and is your lady, you need to take things into your own hands. you want more passion, then introduce it to her. take her for a night out on the weekend, maybe get a room somewhere. get your music right, get the honey, get the drinks, get the roses, candles whatever whatever you think she might need. set the mood and take it from there. play with her, get her ready, get it in. massage bath and all that too, fukk it.
also its important that if you find that whatever you decide to do to her doesnt bring it out, then you talk to her about it. say that you want her to be into the sex and to enjoy herself. so ask her what is it that she needs.
anything else, I dont know. I dont like lazy chicks in the bed, but a lot of pretty ones are. I usually dont do all that for a women and I just handle sex by doing it the way I like and telling her what to do in authoritive manner, and in the end she still gets hers as I get mine. being in complete control is what women want and like from a man
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MaccabeanRebel
All Star
Wow...that women/vampire allegory is something else.
MaccabeanRebel
All Star
That vid was posted in the comments of the link u posted...man that clip was pure piff
Let a women in your life brehs..haha
agree with this wholeheartedly one of the most important decisions as a man in life is the women you allow in, whether as lovers or friends. I know firsthand how a women can literally suck you dry and try to destroy your life.
Its amazing how some cats are more careful in what they eat, where they hang out, but they hang around horrible life draining, drama filled women
CrossBones
Louder than words
and you know the thing about that is, no matter who she is, if you give her too much power it will corrupt her. thats what all that talk about putting her on a pedestal is about. you give up and relinquish too much and your hand is weak - and your woman will vampire the fukk out of you, your life, your money and your future. lay down over a puddle for her, and get her some heels and she'll just walk over you in em
this is why you have to maintain your strong hand, always keep your respect and dignity intact, and always have more going on in your life than someone elses feelings towards you. when you can say that you value your own self and you know as well as can display your own worth, then the right kind of woman who can respect that will fall in line and understand you better.
this is why you have to maintain your strong hand, always keep your respect and dignity intact, and always have more going on in your life than someone elses feelings towards you. when you can say that you value your own self and you know as well as can display your own worth, then the right kind of woman who can respect that will fall in line and understand you better.