Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I've been on 3 dates with this girl I met on match. First 2 dates I was :ehh: as she looked :ehh:

She comes to the crib last night actually looking a little:whoo: but I'm still a little skeptical at getting it in. She texts me today talmbout wanting me to put the move. I'm not sure if I'm all there in terms of dating. Hopping on match was more of a way to test myself. Should I say fukk it and just give her what she wants or should I hold back on the intimacy?
 

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sober sex :scusthov:
Sober Sex is wack to you because you fukk women like this
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Breighs...

i'm close to committing adultery.

I'm texting old flames... when i know i got a GREAT gal on my side.


But the thrill is what i'm seeking. What i got right now with my main squeeze - it's getting too redundant.


Honestly, i don't know why i can't stay monogamous. I really can't.


Typically, your boy ain't this ratchet and i have NEVER cheated on a girlfriend.


Being at the prime of my time ---- ehhhh... somebody talk me out of it.


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Sober Sex is wack to you because you fukk women like this
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or maybe its cause i just smashed high as fukk and had the best sex ever

and the next day i smashed and it wasnt as good as the the other day
 

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Breighs...

i'm close to committing adultery.

I'm texting old flames... when i know i got a GREAT gal on my side.


But the thrill is what i'm seeking. What i got right now with my main squeeze - it's getting too redundant.


Honestly, i don't know why i can't stay monogamous. I really can't.


Typically, your boy ain't this ratchet and i have NEVER cheated on a girlfriend.


Being at the prime of my time ---- ehhhh... somebody talk me out of it.


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what age is considered prime? :usure:
 

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Well if you do enjoy talking to her, then i'm guessing something is going to be building. If you move to germany relatively soon I would keep in touch with her, just as long as you feel it's not a chore, do it. It's good to have some 'i miss her' feelings and feel excited to talk to her cause you know it's real like that. it sounds like she likes you and you like her, sounds fun man.
I'd figure that, although she's all over the place, lives in Switzerland for school, is going to South Africa to put on a play for a sister school, vacation in France and is visiting family in Germany. On top of that she's pretty old school, has no smart phone, hates cellphones I think. I think I will within the next year, the early part if it. Yeah I know huh, anyway thanks for responding needed someone else's input.
 

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Im feeling the same way but the problem is that I realized that I missed out on a few good ones Im not trying to make that mistake again

I feel like I may have missed out but at the same time Im holding out for exactly what I want. However long it takes I'm willing to wait.
 

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I'm going to be focusing more on self improvement than anything else.

But I read something that I feel a lot of down and out brehs going through a low period in their lives could probably relate to:

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/329868/Trapped-in-my-loser-lifestyle


I keep looking at my life and asking: “What have I actually achieved?”

The sad answer is nothing.

I’m still living at home with my parents, I’m stuck in a dead-end job and no-one respects me.

My mates all call me a loser and my long-term girlfriend treats me like a piece of dirt.

She always puts her friends before me and I literally have to beg (and sometimes pay) for sex.

If she’s broke she’ll say: “Give me £20 and I’ll close my eyes and think of England”.

That’s what I’ve been reduced to. How romantic is that?

My biggest problem is that I am racked with hang-ups and regrets.

There are have been so many great opportunities that I’ve missed because I’m so damn stupid and chicken.

I didn’t go to university because I was nervous about leaving home.

All of my friends went, had a great laugh and now have good jobs.

Six years ago, my first boss invited me to join his new company.

The money was less and the offices were horrible, so I said “no”. Now all of the people who went with him are driving around in Mercs.

I even had the chance to buy a flat with my cousin. Naturally I backed out at the last minute because I was worried about the monthly repayments and now it’s doubled in value.

Get the picture? Being wise after the event is the story of my life.

I’m terrified that I’m never going to amount to anything because I have no nerve and no vision.


JANE SAYS: Surely this big birthday has to signal a fresh start for you?

You’re acutely aware of all the mistakes you made in the past, and hate the way your life is going now, so vow to fix it.

Anniversaries and significant birthdays always trigger a little reflection.

We naturally look back at the failures and achievements and congratulate ourselves for coming out the other side and still being around.

What you must do now is learn from your mistakes and vow to be the man you want to be.

Take a deep breath and make the important changes. If your job is boring, look for something else.

Or consider retraining and adult education.

With a better job may come the opportunity to rent or even buy a place of your own. You’ve got to make these things happen.

Come right out of your comfort zone and end things with your girlfriend too.

Clearly you and she are simply going through the motions and no longer have any respect for one another.

Find new mates and keep telling yourself that you’re worth more than this.

I’m not pretending any of this is going to be easy, but your life is in your hands. By all means learn from the mistakes you made in the past, but don’t dwell on them.

My suspicion is that you lack confidence, so look at sports or activities that will bring you out of yourself so you can finally fly.
 

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Anyone have a problem with throwing girls to the bushes to quickly? if i feel no sign of progression i immediately delete their number :manny:


But my roster is depleted right now and school is coming up and I'll be studying for grad school exams but I cant have any distractions, but I want to smash consistently :sadcam: I'm the type of nikka that gets easily sidetracked and distracted by new p*ssy, my grades went up last semester while I was focusing on school and no new bytches :wow: But i'm 21 so my testosterone is going nuts (pause)
Any more help from my coli brehs? Having no bytches while focused on school sucks, my dikk be like :wow: and my nikkas be like :usure:with a depleted roster




focus on the books and if they need to be thrown in the bushes leave them in the bushes. either one (or a couple) will accept the role of no-drama cut buddy or you'll simply have no chicks and be able to focus on the books. Either way you win :myman:
That's the problem, girls can't just stay fukk buddies with me, they catch feelings.
 

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Women come and go everyone has dry spells .

Look I'm not even on dating sites, social sites, I never approach women or holla at em. yet when I want my baskets are always full

Stop thinking about it and it'll happen
 

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What's good brothers? I haven't been on here for a minute... promoting my book

I'm starting to realize that it is in our best interest to only deal with women who believe in and respect the traditional roles of the household. These modern women are not built for the type of relationships most men desire, and will result in frustration and failed relationships. If she wants to be the breadwinner, and values her career over being a good wife/mother, you might not want to build a family with her. Independent women are great if you want to just sleep with them, but they are not conducive to positive and successful relationships in which men and women have clearly defined roles.
 
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