Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Uffie]

You made the right choice in cutting him. People bring out that 'insecure' label when they are doing something wrong and expect you to go for the drama. If you are going to do something, go in there to do it the right way. I don't understand why people go in relationships and try to do everything other than make it work. Why join the football team if you are never going to show up for practice, learn the plays and give 100% effort on the field? Don't be surprised you fail to perform and you get cut. Same thing with relationships.

These types just want to be out there doing dirt, but then have emotional security and a warm body to come home to after it's all said and done... and they will try to psychologically manipulate you into buying your drag. THEY aren't doing wrong, but rather it's some kind of emotional flaw on your part. You're bitter, you're insecure, etc...

Once you been there and done that, you recognize these games real quick. Come around playing games and it'll be game over. Respect makes relationships go so much smoother and I'm too old to accept anything less than a mutually beneficial relationship. High standards = high quality. You get in a relationship and let everything slide, then that relationship is going to be garbage. Two respectful people who are trustworthy and serious about each other = a beautiful thing. Got to pull the weeds and water the fruitful plans when order to eventually reap proper rewards down the line.

i asked him why he asked me to be with him seriously if this was what it was to come to? and his response was that he did want to be with me but i was controlling him and asking for too much. everything i complained about was stupid and that i was jealous of the girls he'd dance with, and see behind my back. he was very immature. honestly i dont think he was ready for a relationship. dont think he dated any girls seriously before me. this is the same guy that told me MUCH LATER that he slept with an older, fat lady in order for her to buy him shoes and dinner for all his friends. he had many issues. i just wish i had gotten to know him a lot more before i jumped in a relationship with him. i honestly moved too fast with him (for personal reasons--stupid, i know) and it's a lesson learned for sure.

back to the thread though.... *no derailement*
: )

 

[MikelArteta]

Stop trying to fix people

Men and women alike

 

[sixsixtwo]

■There’s no soul mate. There’s no infatuation. There’s no love. There’s just a biological need to mate with good genes. Use that as your template for women, and you’ll never be disappointed.

■A woman’s true currency is her youth and femininity. Both of which are being devalued at an alarming rate in the West.

■If you haven’t fukked her (preferably twice, thrice or more), you mean nothing to her and she should mean nothing to you.


■There’s a big difference between persistence and desperation. Learn the difference and pack an important arsenal in your toolbox.

■Stay true to the bro code. A good friendship with a guy is much more important than a random fukk with his chick.

■“A man truly matures around the age of 40,” Eastern/Central European proverb.

■Being hungry and horny get you rewarded more often than not.

■Never be ashamed of escalating quickly in the interaction. You’re sexual and she’s being weird for not reciprocating.

■Hint as soon as possible that there’s a good chance you’ll be fukking her soon.

■Drop the aloof bullshyt when seducing non-American(ized) girls.

■When you find yourself constantly thinking about a girl, make absolutely sure that she is spending even more time thinking about you.

■There’s no universal game.

■When trying to fukk an American(ized) girl, things follow a predictable set of right and wrong steps, with little room for error. With non-Americans, there’s a lot of grey areas.

■During seduction, a girl will give you a small window of opportunity to take charge and escalate. Miss the window, and you’re finished.

■Easy come, easy go.

■There’s no perfect approach.

■A typical conversation with an American(ized) girl is 50% sarcasm, 50% teasing, 0% authenticity, avoiding silent pauses like the plague. A typical conversation with a non-American girl is 20% verbal seduction, 80% non-verbal seduction, treasuring silent pauses like gold.

■To best way to keep a girl is to indirectly make her realize that your life continues as before, even with her in it. Meanwhile, keep fukking her like it’s your last, every single time.

■Pickup was invented in USA to counteract the evolution of a new species of women who no longer go by their emotions, but instead follow what the media tells them to do.

■You can’t seduce American women because of their lack of emotional intelligence.

■Woman’s natural state is when she’s not in control and is led by a strong man.

■A man settles down when he finds a suitable mother for his children, and when he begins to focus on the accumulation of wealth and assets instead of accumulation of notches.

■A 32 year old American girl who considers herself "picky" will never make you happy.

■To fukk an American(ized) girl, tease her with complete abandon, ignore anything she’s telling you, and treat her like an abandoned dog in the poor neighborhood; to fukk a non-American girl, seduce her.

■Never, ever listen to a woman for what she likes in a man, or wants out of a relationship, etc.

■Never, ever take relationship advice from a woman.

 

[The Message]

During seduction, a girl will give you a small window of opportunity to take charge and escalate. Miss the window, and you’re finished.

Truth. Some girls you cant take it slow, put that shyt in overdrive. If you miss it - you you'll never hear from them again. lol I learned the hard way years ago....I ran into a chick at the club a few months after we kicked it....

Her: Hey you.
Me: What up doe.
Her: So when we kicked it, why didnt you try to get up in this dussy???
Me:
Her: I was ready to give it up, you just seemed like you didnt want me.
Me:

 

[winb83]

■A man settles down when he finds a suitable mother for his children, and when he begins to focus on the accumulation of wealth and assets instead of accumulation of notches.

i think honestly most men settle because in the back of their mind they think the girl they settle for is the best they can do. once they feel like this is the best it gets they lock that in. i also feel this is why so many people cheat. they're not really happy with what they have and its either just a relationship of convenience or the best they can do and then something else that looks interesting comes along.

■There’s no soul mate. There’s no infatuation. There’s no love. There’s just a biological need to mate with good genes. Use that as your template for women, and you’ll never be disappointed.

you are right that there is no soulmate but infatuation and love are both real. romantic love between a man and a woman is one of the most worthless emotions there is. it mostly causes you to overlook important things rationalize non-sense and clouds your judgment in favor of a fantasy you hope becomes reality.

there's nothing special about love. people constantly idealize and rationalize about it but given the right amount of time and pleasantries anyone can fall in love with anyone because ultimately love is just an attachment to someone.

See a person long enough you know you bound to get fly with em care for em, be more than high and bye with em - Joe Budden

 

[Nintendough]

not sure if this has been mentioned in the 97 pages BUT...

if your girlfriend is expected to be home by 2 am and she gets home at 4 am ...doesnt mean shes out sucking another dikk or fukking some dude behind your back. sometimes we do other things that end up taking more time... and if we text we'll be late, chill out and TRUST us. ; )

2am? I wouldn't have have a relationship with somebody who is running the streets all night.

 

[Nintendough]

You have to be nonchalant and show poise when you are getting tested. The minute you seem annoyed, you've lost. Point out the disrespect but brush it off as if you view it as a joke. When you're disrespected, it has to be dismissed and trivialized.

 

[Sharp]

Women are less likely to apologize for mishaps in the relationship because they are conditioned to believe that everything that goes wrong is the man's fault. ie... I did this because you made me react this way. If a woman is caught cheating. Instead of apologizing she will say, "I cheated because you didn't show me any attention." Then the stupid man will sit there and apologize when she was the culprit. Stop being brainwashed.

Think about it: Men are always saying sorry and begging for forgiveness while women purposely do fukked up things to us. So the first time your woman makes a big mistake and doesn't apologize, cut her off. I know it sounds harsh, but responsible adults take ownership of their mistakes. If she won't apologize for being late when you had a scheduled engagement to attend, then she won't apologize for cheating on you or anything other foul thing she does. Why? Because she did it intentionally.

It all goes back to checking her early on anything she does that is not cool to you. If she fights with you on it and doesn't apologize, pink slip that broad.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"First, ask yourself why do you want to get married?

Social norms = p*ssy answer.

Scarcity mentality = p*ssy answer.

To not grow old and die alone = p*ssy answer.

"It's time", or some version of "I give up" = p*ssy answer.

Because I love her = p*ssy answer.

Because I want to be with her forever = p*ssy answer.

I want a child = only acceptable answer.

Men need to STOP trying to find good wives and start vetting for good mothers. The latter will take care of the former.

That being said, if you must marry for the sake of procreation, find yourself a woman from the most family-friendly country you can find.

And brother, it ain't here."

 

[MikelArteta]

Never ever get revenge

Women can't stand to see you happy and moved on

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes I wonder if as man we really love the person or if we just love vagina

 

[Red Omega]

Sometimes I wonder if as man we really love the person or if we just love vagina

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

ok, so under what circumstances should you take a woman back? how can you tell if she's really sincere and learned from her mistakes?

this is not a question at the beginning stage (flaking or not responded), but for a relationship situation...

Giving a woman who dumped you a second chance is like giving her another bullet to put in her gun because she grazed you the first time... Don't do it, speaking from experience.... It gave two women a second bullet each.... It hurts worst and longer the second time they shoot.

 

[MikelArteta]

Giving a woman who dumped you a second chance is like giving her another bullet to put in her gun because she grazed you the first time... Don't do it, speaking from experience.... It gave two women a second bullet each.... It hurts worst and longer the second time they shoot.

Like I said only in the movies

Hell people married with kids even try an give it another go and still fail

Don't do it brehs

 

[The Message]

Death is certain, love isn't.