RealAssanova
Vagitarian
This thread is essentially a haven for me to host the Ls I've taken. The post about not mentioning sex too early, and being subtle with a woman in the early stages reminded me of something I experienced about 2 1/2 weeks ago.
I took a summer class with this girl, and after the class ended, I've been running into her a lot more in public settings. Seeing her at various bars and shyt. She's kind of fidgety, though. Has this feverish, flustered swag to her. Me and her had a group presentation to do at the end of the summer session, and she was OD stressing on the day of it. That shyt carried over to our encounters in public. What should just be a "hi & bye" would have this awkward, little, sense of uncertainty at the end of the greeting. She'd be on this "um, bye" giggle, giggle shyt. I'm probably not describing this accurately enough, but I'm sure that some of you guys have had convos with women where the air highly suggests that you ask for the number or ask to hang out or whatever. That's how our encounters went about 3 times. The 4th time, at a bar, I say fukk it and ask if she wants to hang out. She was extra with it. She tells me sure, proceeds to give me her number, and also told me her work schedule and shyt.
Here's the part where I was probably too forward, at least by the standards of this dating culture:
I text her one day and ask if I can "borrow her." She states that she's on the way to work. Normally, I would just dead it right there, but I said fukk it and suggested a "post-work borrow session." She was down. She mentioned not having any prior plans and then asked what I had in mind. A lot of women around this way like to dawn this "I'm not that kind of girl" attitude, and with good reason, so I figured that I wouldn't be able to just say "come to the crib." This girl would probably want to go out to a bar and play darts or pool for 2-3 hours and then MAYBE, something would pop off.
A nigguh did not want to spend money, though. A nigguh did not feel like being on the scene that evening. I initially suggested some bar options, and then, in the very next text message, I suggested discussing/watching obscure films & having a "massage contest" instead, on the basis of her being too tired from work.
I didn't get a response
aye bruh, nothin to be ashamed about.
you a n!gga wit a d!ck right? There ain't no need to tip-toe around shyt just because you worried about how she or any other broad for that matter gonna react or feel towards you being so direct.
Look at it this way, her not responding saved you time, energy and money. Whereas, imagine you had taken her out to a bar or some place else, spent money and was left blue-balled at da end of da night? Or even worst, imagine turnin into a simp and bein led on for days, weeks and even months on out?
just a heads up for next time, warm da broad up a bit more then hit her wid da movie line text cuz you may have went in somewhat cold on this h0e.
next, I always say you should thank chicks who reject you, you never know what they may be going through, in a abusive relationship, a stalking ex, cheater tendacies, could be carrying a std, going through depression etc.
, anyways i googled her email and it led me to hear blog where she was talking about how depressed she was, and the type of medication she was on like damn i dodged a bullet i ddint know then
