Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Now this is something important. STOP basing your self-worth on whether a woman accepts your advances or not. Stop looking at her rejection as a loss and her rewarding you with her time as a win. If she ain't feeling you, "Oh well, there is one out there that will" should be your mentality... and not, "Dude, what awesome technique did I miss out on that caused me not to win her over?" Now there are things you can do from a fundamental basis to improve your 'success' when dealing with women, but more important than that is to come to the attitude that any particular woman is not really that important or crucial in your mind unless she has shown the willingness to take you on and get down for you by doing things such as showing up on time, listening to you, respecting who you are as a man, etc. When you learn to deal with women that like you, you don't have to worry about flaking and all that nonsense half as much. An added benefit of having such a nonchalant attitude is that it makes women a lot more attracted to you in general. Get your weight up , don't see these women as a huge deal and focus on those that really take to you and things will go a whole lot smoother.
 
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Now this is something important. STOP basing your self-worth on whether a woman accepts your advances or not. Stop looking at her rejection as a loss and her rewarding you with her time as a win. If she ain't feeling you, "Oh well, there is one out there that will" should be your mentality... and not, "Dude, what awesome technique did I miss out on that caused me not to win her over?" Now there are things you can do from a fundamental basis to improve your 'success' when dealing with women, but more important than that is to come to the attitude that any particular woman is not really that important or crucial in your mind unless she has shown the willingness to take you on and get down for you by doing things such as showing up on time, listening to you, respecting who you are as a man, etc. When you learn to deal with women that like you, you don't have to worry about flaking and all that nonsense half as much. An added benefit of having such a nonchalant attitude is that it makes women a lot more attracted to you in general. Get your weight up , don't see these women as a huge deal and focus on those that really take to you and things will go a whole lot smoother.


I cosign this, i use to be this type of guy a few years back, when something didnt advance like I wanted or I never had a second date with a chick or she just didnt want to give me her number, i would super analyze and things of that nature. Now I am the complete opposite I shrug it off and move on.
 

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gone head and list your complaints then


you emo ass dudes are so weak man

i have no complaints, but you're bragging about banging single mothers. of course they are easy, how do you think they became single mothers? and now that they have kids their market value dropped, so on top of being easy, they became desperate.
 

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i have no complaints, but you're bragging about banging single mothers. of course they are easy, how do you think they became single mothers? and now that they have kids their market value dropped, so on top of being easy, they became desperate.
p*ssy is p*ssy
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I cosign this, i use to be this type of guy a few years back, when something didnt advance like I wanted or I never had a second date with a chick or she just didnt want to give me her number, i would super analyze and things of that nature. Now I am the complete opposite I shrug it off and move on.

we've all been there, rejection sucks. Which ties back into what ive said over and over again that some people may scoff or laughed at, but dump a hout girl once in your life, it builds up that immunity. I can honestly say dumping a hot chick has helped tremendously in life, when chicks arent feeling me, or when i would sit back and analyze ish i just think back to when i dumped a hot chick and its :obama: next, I always say you should thank chicks who reject you, you never know what they may be going through, in a abusive relationship, a stalking ex, cheater tendacies, could be carrying a std, going through depression etc.


like i mentioend before last year i was messing with this chick went on two dates, after the second date she never replied back to my texts she just dissappeared, i was like :damn:, anyways i googled her email and it led me to hear blog where she was talking about how depressed she was, and the type of medication she was on like damn i dodged a bullet i ddint know then
 

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PLEASE lets not turn this thread in to a religious one. Whatever you believe is your business, there's other threads that deal with that subject matter :ufdup:

eh i see no issue with talking about what you want in a broad, im religious myself, and i know i could not date someone who is not religious, I have in the past and well there is stuff that each party doesnt agree with.


example, i don't curse, club, drink alcohol, sundays church, wed bible studies, as well I live a celibate life.

for me to date a non religious person we would clash immensely, now im not judging or putting down but we would be incompatible.

not turning this into a religious thread, but i understand why a athiest would want to date a atheist etc.
 

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aye bruh, nothin to be ashamed about.

you a n!gga wit a d!ck right? There ain't no need to tip-toe around shyt just because you worried about how she or any other broad for that matter gonna react or feel towards you being so direct.

Look at it this way, her not responding saved you time, energy and money. Whereas, imagine you had taken her out to a bar or some place else, spent money and was left blue-balled at da end of da night? Or even worst, imagine turnin into a simp and bein led on for days, weeks and even months on out? :birdman:

just a heads up for next time, warm da broad up a bit more then hit her wid da movie line text cuz you may have went in somewhat cold on this h0e.:manny:


there is a quote that goes "he who hesitates masturbates"

as a man its better to let your intentions known early and not waste your time, life is short as hell, im 28 and wow its amazing how fast time is flying by.
 

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I dont know what I want in life..

A large part of me wants to settle and build but a small part of me is in "wolf"mode...

Im just tired of the casual flings that end..But I could use one right now:upsetfavre:

As been suggested,I need hobbies...

But work really drains me out:sadcam:
 

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PLEASE lets not turn this thread in to a religious one. Whatever you believe is your business, there's other threads that deal with that subject matter :ufdup:
eh i see no issue with talking about what you want in a broad, im religious myself, and i know i could not date someone who is not religious, I have in the past and well there is stuff that each party doesnt agree with.


example, i don't curse, club, drink alcohol, sundays church, wed bible studies, as well I live a celibate life.

for me to date a non religious person we would clash immensely, now im not judging or putting down but we would be incompatible.

not turning this into a religious thread, but i understand why a athiest would want to date a atheist etc.

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