Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I saw a chick I met at work at happy hours on friday we had a cool convo , im sitting on a a stool with my legs open she gets closer to the point were she keeps rubbing her ass on my leg we keep filrting the she tells me her sob story about how her boyfriend doesnt like to take her out and would rater stay at home and play video games, they had a kid together and his parents gave them the down payment to buy a house :patrice: before she left she gave me her number :demonic:
 
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This thread is essentially a haven for me to host the Ls I've taken. The post about not mentioning sex too early, and being subtle with a woman in the early stages reminded me of something I experienced about 2 1/2 weeks ago.

I took a summer class with this girl, and after the class ended, I've been running into her a lot more in public settings. Seeing her at various bars and shyt. She's kind of fidgety, though. Has this feverish, flustered swag to her. Me and her had a group presentation to do at the end of the summer session, and she was OD stressing on the day of it. That shyt carried over to our encounters in public. What should just be a "hi & bye" would have this awkward, little, sense of uncertainty at the end of the greeting. She'd be on this "um, bye" giggle, giggle shyt. I'm probably not describing this accurately enough, but I'm sure that some of you guys have had convos with women where the air highly suggests that you ask for the number or ask to hang out or whatever. That's how our encounters went about 3 times. The 4th time, at a bar, I say fukk it and ask if she wants to hang out. She was extra with it. She tells me sure, proceeds to give me her number, and also told me her work schedule and shyt.

Here's the part where I was probably too forward, at least by the standards of this dating culture:

I text her one day and ask if I can "borrow her." She states that she's on the way to work. Normally, I would just dead it right there, but I said fukk it and suggested a "post-work borrow session." She was down. She mentioned not having any prior plans and then asked what I had in mind. A lot of women around this way like to dawn this "I'm not that kind of girl" attitude, and with good reason, so I figured that I wouldn't be able to just say "come to the crib." This girl would probably want to go out to a bar and play darts or pool for 2-3 hours and then MAYBE, something would pop off.

A nigguh did not want to spend money, though. A nigguh did not feel like being on the scene that evening. I initially suggested some bar options, and then, in the very next text message, I suggested discussing/watching obscure films & having a "massage contest" instead, on the basis of her being too tired from work.

I didn't get a response :snoop: :laugh:
 
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young3000 said:
:why: why do so many women smoke these days.... I can't stand to kiss em or touch em with that smoke smell on them.

Could any of you date an atheist?
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Nah I couldn't mess with a smoker because of how much those cigarettes stink. I can be cool on a friends basis with an atheist, but I probably wouldn't be too interested in dating her. We would just have hugely diverging paths in and philosophies on life and it would cause conflicts down the road, especially if kids came into the equation.
 
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BreezyH said:
Damn near threw up reading this smh: I cheated, husband left, need guidance to prove I'm sorry
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Woman was living in a fantasy world. I doubt he could have said one word to her that would have made her calm down about the relationship with the other woman with the way she is sounding telling the story. A lot of mental problems. At the same time as a husband it's your duty to make your wife as comfortable in the relationship as you possibly can. He should have made it clear the woman is only a work relationship, if he didn't already. It sounds like both could have done things a lot better.

When you find a wife you have to make sure that she knows that she is the only woman who can fill "that" relational void. Not saying it will keep them from cheating, but it will give you the best opportunity for the best possible outcome. Nobody can predict what will happen in the future.
 
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YouGot14BricksRightThere? said:
This thread is essentially a haven for me to host the Ls I've taken. The post about not mentioning sex too early, and being subtle with a woman in the early stages reminded me of something I experienced about 2 1/2 weeks ago.

I took a summer class with this girl, and after the class ended, I've been running into her a lot more in public settings. Seeing her at various bars and shyt. She's kind of fidgety, though. Has this feverish, flustered swag to her. Me and her had a group presentation to do at the end of the summer session, and she was OD stressing on the day of it. That shyt carried over to our encounters in public. What should just be a "hi & bye" would have this awkward, little, sense of uncertainty at the end of the greeting. She'd be on this "um, bye" giggle, giggle shyt. I'm probably not describing this accurately enough, but I'm sure that some of you guys have had convos with women where the air highly suggests that you ask for the number or ask to hang out or whatever. That's how our encounters went about 3 times. The 4th time, at a bar, I say fukk it and ask if she wants to hang out. She was extra with it. She tells me sure, proceeds to give me her number, and also told me her work schedule and shyt.

Here's the part where I was probably too forward, at least by the standards of this dating culture:

I text her one day and ask if I can "borrow her." She states that she's on the way to work. Normally, I would just dead it right there, but I said fukk it and suggested a "post-work borrow session." She was down. She mentioned not having any prior plans and then asked what I had in mind. A lot of women around this way like to dawn this "I'm not that kind of girl" attitude, and with good reason, so I figured that I wouldn't be able to just say "come to the crib." This girl would probably want to go out to a bar and play darts or pool for 2-3 hours and then MAYBE, something would pop off.

A nigguh did not want to spend money, though. A nigguh did not feel like being on the scene that evening. I initially suggested some bar options, and then, in the very next text message, I suggested discussing/watching obscure films & having a "massage contest" instead, on the basis of her being too tired from work.

I didn't get a response :snoop: :laugh:
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LMAO, all good, B. Like I said, every sensual suggestion should be in the way you touch and look at her, don't be creepy about it but women experience a form of cognitive dissonance when you don't verbally say anything sexual. Even if they know in the back of their minds that you're aiming to hit that, they can ignore it because you haven't come out and said it. Dirty talk/overly explicit innuendos should be saved for after you've already had sex with her and she's comfortable with you in that manner.
 
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YouGot14BricksRightThere? said:
This thread is essentially a haven for me to host the Ls I've taken. The post about not mentioning sex too early, and being subtle with a woman in the early stages reminded me of something I experienced about 2 1/2 weeks ago.

I took a summer class with this girl, and after the class ended, I've been running into her a lot more in public settings. Seeing her at various bars and shyt. She's kind of fidgety, though. Has this feverish, flustered swag to her. Me and her had a group presentation to do at the end of the summer session, and she was OD stressing on the day of it. That shyt carried over to our encounters in public. What should just be a "hi & bye" would have this awkward, little, sense of uncertainty at the end of the greeting. She'd be on this "um, bye" giggle, giggle shyt. I'm probably not describing this accurately enough, but I'm sure that some of you guys have had convos with women where the air highly suggests that you ask for the number or ask to hang out or whatever. That's how our encounters went about 3 times. The 4th time, at a bar, I say fukk it and ask if she wants to hang out. She was extra with it. She tells me sure, proceeds to give me her number, and also told me her work schedule and shyt.

Here's the part where I was probably too forward, at least by the standards of this dating culture:

I text her one day and ask if I can "borrow her." She states that she's on the way to work. Normally, I would just dead it right there, but I said fukk it and suggested a "post-work borrow session." She was down. She mentioned not having any prior plans and then asked what I had in mind. A lot of women around this way like to dawn this "I'm not that kind of girl" attitude, and with good reason, so I figured that I wouldn't be able to just say "come to the crib." This girl would probably want to go out to a bar and play darts or pool for 2-3 hours and then MAYBE, something would pop off.

A nigguh did not want to spend money, though. A nigguh did not feel like being on the scene that evening. I initially suggested some bar options, and then, in the very next text message, I suggested discussing/watching obscure films & having a "massage contest" instead, on the basis of her being too tired from work.

I didn't get a response :snoop: :laugh:
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Lol, did ya'll go on any dates before you offered the massage contest?
 
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That divorce story is classic case of providerman vs thrillerman
 
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Lol, did ya'll go on any dates before you offered the massage contest?
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Haha, nah. That's where I screwed up. The subtlety concept that's been talked about in here is one I know about, and knew about when texting her, but I still decided to go against that module. Mostly in part because, during that time, my sex drive was higher than usual and I was in "just want to smash" mode. I didn't want to deal with that routine. I didn't want to sit through meaningless conversations while chugging PBRs and struggling at darts. But, realistically, for me to have gotten what I wanted from this girl, I was going to have to do that. From seeing this girl on the scene so much, I sensed that she isn't exactly a homebody. I wanted to stay true to myself, though. No regrets. I think the type of forwardness I displayed is better suited for a marquee athlete or a celebrity, though, haha.
 
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