You ever feel like taking a dude aside and just putting him on game? had a weird moment the other day. This chick is considered the hottest chick at work or whatever and everyone is trying to put their bid in.
Meanwhile I barely pay her any mind (dont get me wrong, she's cute but just not my type). You already know where this is going. Chick talks to me, is cool with me, etc. Now the scene yesterday was, i was turned sideways to her and she was asking me questions about whatever.
meanwhile dude who was trying to spit game at her had his phone out and made up some excuse to get her number or whatever. now dude was standing behind her and trying to speak while she was speaking to me
I dont even know if she heard him or not but she didn't acknowledge him. after two attempts at speaking dude got pissed and addresses me and says "is there anything i can help you with?" thinking i was the one who was trying to entertain a convo with her. and i just smirked at him and said "naw man, i'm good". Dude was very irritated but the funny thing is i'm actually kinda rooting for all of them cause she's a slight tease. I'd kinda like to talk to dude and put him on some game. Give these chicks space and they'll want some of your energy. unfortunately, i can't real talk some realness to dude cause his ego might be an obstacle.
this whole thing is like fishing. you put your fishing pole in the water with your worm on it. and stay coooool... the fish gets close you don't pull right away or you'll scare it off. don't act out of character, stay cool calm and collected. wait for the fish to actually bite and REALLY compromise itself to the point where it can't deny the reality that the worm is in it's mouth and then you SWIFTLY pull. Pull too early and the fish swims away. pull too late and the fish already at your worm and moved on. But see, no fisherman is trying to catch a specific fish. you just put it in the water and see what bites. if the fish you pull out is not satisfactory, you just throw it back in the water and try again.
clumsy/cliché analogy but y'all get the point.