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Look how many daps a post with this sentence got.

And you all wonder why everyone thinks of all of y'all in here as misogynist, bitter didues, and slightly sliding on the side of homosexuality. :skip:

Not to mention the "I thought you was the shyt so I holla'd at you, now you've rejected me and made me mad so now you're a loser and not shyt" mentality. :laff:

You can't make this stuff up. :dead:
maybe they agreed with other parts of that posts and disagreed with that part how do you know they dapped specifically because of that? I didn't mean it like "women a good for nothing but sex". What i meant is, a lot of chicks act like you should audition to get the puss. All her faith is put in that power-u (wu slang for the older heads :myman:) I actually have a female friend and i constantly tell her to be better than her p*ssy. cause if not, once she's gives it up, she's done. does she listen? that's a whole other subject...

Someone even made your point about me being bitter and i actually explained that i'm more disgusted at myself more than the woman because early on i'd put them on the pedestal. matter of fact, here's my exact answer regarding that.

lol, i fee what you,re saying but i'm not bitter at all. That's why i said if you find a good chick treat her accordingly as well (meaning treat her right). My post was just speaking on how amazed i am at their air of arrogance in general. It's not even that they said no that disgusts me. It's the ones that were acting all high and mighty but when i dug deeper, i saw how lame they were, their insecurities and how LOST they are and when they notice that i saw their lameness, they start to stick like glue. That's why i said a few pages ago that even my "wins" disgust me sometimes.

followed by this:
lol, if anything i'm more disgusted at myself for putting them on the pedestal early. They should neither be treated like scum or godesses. they are women, nothing more, nothing less. i just feel like we tend to put them on the pedestal when we dont know them. but i hear you though...

heck, how about quoting the whole post

chuch'

they might hate cause you say it in a brash way but it's nothing but truth. They walk around like their shyt doesn't stink like they are celebs. And like idiots we fall into their hype. But spend a few days talking to them and you realize how lost some of them are. They don't even know why they want what they want, no idea where they are going, they constantly wonder if what they are doing is cool/appropriate/nice and it's almost like they need confirmation from the outside that what they are doing is ok. almost like they are scared they'll get in trouble. IOW, a lot of them need a man to put a seal of approval on their actions cause if they don't have that, it makes them anxious. This is not all women but it is a lot of them. Heck it's becoming more and more men as well.

and that's not even talking about their other flaws that you mentioned. And yeah, guys are flawed too. but we don't act as entitled as them in general. In the "courting" stage, they offer sex and nothing else. But i take that power away from them (meaning i show them i'd like to fukk but if i don't it's no big deal) now what other power does she have over me? how else can she keep my attention? Some of them do have more to offer and when you find one, recognize and treat accordingly. but most of them are just messes. lipstick on a pig. and still act like they are prizes. treat accordingly as well. Most of them are LOSERS. They don't know how to find happiness on their own. They need someone to make it happen for them and they're buying it with sex. Eventually the dude wises up and charges more than sex for what he offers.
i honestly tried to answer your post in good faith. if you disagree, cool we can always continue and maybe one of us will realize he's wrong or maybe we're both partially right. I'm always open to the possibility that i could be wrong.




EDIT: in case you miss my point about chicks who have rejected me, i actually respect the ones that rejected me respectfully and kept it moving. it's the ones who rejected me but come back after and stick like glue after i notice their lameness and they notice me noticing it, THAT's when i'm disgusted. Makes you feel like a loser for even fukking these chicks who fronted on you but ain't shyt themselves. Makes me realize how much of a slave we can all be to puss and affection when we don't have our egos in check (hence "even my wins disgust me sometimes...")
 

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This is exactly why you don't wife up club rats and hoes. Ma was at the club with her 'homegirl' and they went home with two guys and she ended up having sex with 2 strangers that night. I guess she 'regretted it' later and had her boyfriend beat up the guy she willingly hooked up with by telling him he raped her. Then she went to file false rape charges on this guy. Thank God for technology eh? Guy got off because he recorded the encounter. This also serves as a warning to guys on the other side of the equation who are doing the pick-up thing. You see how easily a situation can flip? Although the percentage may not be high, if you DO get caught up in a situation like this, it will throw your life in a ringer. Be careful out there.

Sex video clears men accused of rape - Crime - The Sacramento Bee

Sex video clears men accused of rape
afurillo@sacbee.com

PUBLISHED TUESDAY, JUL. 09, 2013


The hookup got hot and wild, and one of the two men whipped out his cellphone to shoot a video of the room-to-room romp with the woman they'd just met that night.

The sex video may have been the only thing that saved the two from prison.

The woman accused them of rape. The video showed otherwise, police and prosecutors said. What happened that night led to the vicious beating of one of the men two days later.

Last Friday, a Sacramento Superior Court jury convicted Jasmine Levanna Kurre of felony assault likely to produce great bodily injury and of another count of felony battery.

Jurors acquitted Kurre of the misdemeanor filing of a false police report and of another felony count of robbing the beating victim of his cellphone.

Unfortunately for Kurre, 27, the man's friend shot the video, showing her laughing and carrying on with the two alleged rapists – hence, the lack of charges against them and the lodging of the misdemeanor false-report accusation.

"This is great stuff," Citrus Heights Police Detective Ron Pfleger told the man who shot the video, according to a transcript of his interview five days after the Feb. 17, 2011, beating of his friend, outside the assault victim's apartment. "This is exactly what you guys are hoping for."

Had it not been for the video, the chances were likely that Kurre's rape accusation against the two men would have been given more credibility by police and prosecutors.

Instead, it turned the tables on Kurre, who now is looking at the possibility of four years behind bars.

"The case was complicated and emotionally charged," Deputy District Attorney Erin Blake said in a statement. "The jury worked hard, and ultimately justice was served."

Assistant Public Defender Crystal Lamb declined to comment on the case, and Kurre, who was remanded into custody, turned down an interview at the downtown jail.

According to transcripts of police interviews with the participants, the two men met a girlfriend of Kurre's on Jan. 20, 2011, at a Citrus Heights club called Liquid. The Bee is not identifying the two men because the attackers remain at large.

That night, one of the men exchanged phone numbers with Kurre's girlfriend, and a few weeks later they all agreed to go out.

They met at the second man's apartment on Feb. 15, 2011, went out to the Glass Turtle in Roseville, then returned to his place.

The first man told police that Kurre "ended up kissing me," before they ended up having sex in the bathroom. It was then that he made the video.

They went upstairs to a bedroom for more sex-on-tape. Later, Kurre turned her affections on the other man and went to a bedroom with him, according to the first man. He said she then bounced back to him and they spent the night together.

There didn't appear to be any animosity among the parties when they woke up in the morning, according to the transcripts.

A day later, the second man said Kurre called him because she forgot her driver's license in his apartment, as well as a hair extension that came off. She said she'd be by at 6 p.m. to pick them up. When she showed up, he met her outside with her driver's license and hair, according to the transcripts.

He told police that Kurre stood with her arms folded when he walked toward her. Somebody grabbed him from behind and somebody else punched him. "Then the guy that was holding me hits me and then they continued to hit me and hit me."

It lasted five to seven minutes, he said, estimating that he absorbed 55 to 60 punches and kicks and wound up with fractured ribs and a bad bruise behind is ear.

"You think you can rape my girl?" one of the attackers screamed, the victim told police.

"I didn't rape your girl," he said he told the man.

He called police.

She went to police the next day and offered her version of what happened in the apartment.

At first, "We went into (his) house and everyone was just chit-chatting," Kurre said, "and I was talking about my boyfriend, and I was talking about him and his work and everything."

He "made us drinks, and we first took a shot, and then he made us these pink drinks," she said.

Then, "I was getting bored," and the two men "took pictures of the women, fully clothed, "because me and (her girlfriend) looked really cute."

Kurre said they went to the Glass Turtle and stayed there about five minutes before they returned to the apartment, "when all the bad stuff started happening."

She said she went to the bathroom to use it when one of the men broke in and raped her. She said the man who lived in the house also raped her.

But after reviewing the video, the authorities didn't believe her.

She now is scheduled to be sentenced July 25 by Judge Steve White.
 

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This is exactly why you don't wife up club rats and hoes. Ma was at the club with her 'homegirl' and they went home with two guys and she ended up having sex with 2 strangers that night. I guess she 'regretted it' later and had her boyfriend beat up the guy she willingly hooked up with by telling him he raped her. Then she went to file false rape charges on this guy. Thank God for technology eh? Guy got off because he recorded the encounter. This also serves as a warning to guys on the other side of the equation who are doing the pick-up thing. You see how easily a situation can flip? Although the percentage may not be high, if you DO get caught up in a situation like this, it will throw your life in a ringer. Be careful out there.

shyt like this genuinely makes me angry. Women need to have more repurcussions for this kind of bullshyt :damn:
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lol that negro is straight simping. Funny how she was busy for the flower bringer, but rushed out with shaq... but she was acting like she was all down to go out with him. "OH I'd LOVE to go out with you." He calls later, "Well, I'm busy... sorry, can we reschedule?" That same day, millionaire man calls and it's, "I'll be ready in 5 minutes!"

That's why we say if these broads do that flaking, you better keep it pushing. After she gets hit and quit by Shaq and a few other rich stars and gets to complaining about how men are dogs, then maybe she'll spend a little time with the average joes.
 

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lol that negro is straight simping. Funny how she was busy for the flower bringer, but rushed out with shaq... but she was acting like she was all down to go out with him. "OH I'd LOVE to go out with you." He calls later, "Well, I'm busy... sorry, can we reschedule?" That same day, millionaire man calls and it's, "I'll be ready in 5 minutes!"

That's why we say if these broads do that flaking, you better keep it pushing. After she gets hit and quit by Shaq and a few other rich stars and gets to complaining about how men are dogs, then maybe she'll spend a little time with the average joes.
exactly. that's what i meant by "the will smith factor". meaning when a chick flakes or says she's too busy or whatever and you get that weird feeling like something isn't right, always ask yourself "would she have been too busy for ______(insert popular celeb here)?"
 

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Been doing a lot of thinking after my situation and it really just hit me yesterday.

"These hoes are not going anywhere"
 

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Been doing a lot of thinking after my situation and it really just hit me yesterday.

"These hoes are not going anywhere"

Pretty much man. They'll always be around. That's why I'm much more focused on broadening my skillset instead of worrying about what women are doing. They'll be there.
 

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exactly. that's what i meant by "the will smith factor". meaning when a chick flakes or says she's too busy or whatever and you get that weird feeling like something isn't right, always ask yourself "would she have been too busy for ______(insert popular celeb here)?"

Always trust your gut. Sometimes you can apply logic to something involving emotions.

I learned the hard way.
 

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The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.

"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."

But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"

And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply :heh:.

Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.

The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.


I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.
 
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The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.

"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."

But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"

And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply :heh:.

Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.

The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.


I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.


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The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.

"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."

But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"

And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply :heh:.

Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.

The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.


I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.

i honestly just delete numbers once i find out theyre not interested :heh: works like a charm so even if im tempted i cant. though i probably dont need to anymore since i have more self control now, and i get that random text from them a month later "how ya been havent seen ya in awhile" and just delete and ignore it
 
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i honestly just delete numbers once i find out theyre not interested :heh: works like a charm so even if im tempted i cant. though i probably dont need to anymore since i have more self control now, and i get that random text from them a month later "how ya been havent seen ya in awhile" and just delete and ignore it

Sometimes it isnt even about them not being interested though fam. Sometimes you can be a little bit too zealous and if the girl is immature she'll look at it as "thirst" and then youre lowered on the depth chart. This happened with me recently after bagging a Nigerian chick that I menttioned in this thread earlier.

My girlfriend and I broke up cause she switched schools so I was getting back in the game. I bagged like 4 chicks in one week. This one right here was feeling me ...good ass conversations and such but then one conversation I kept it a little too real (discussing why I dont club). After that I think she thought I was too serious..maybe figured I might be boring so she wasnt giving me as much play. I got frustrated and addressed it...:smh: and got put in the bushes.

The thing that sucks was literally 2 days after I bagged it she moved to Calgary just for the summer. Like a fool my roster was depleted so during rebuilding process and got a little too thirsty with it (in the eyes of a female). I had nobody to talk to and what not so I'd be texting this girl like once or twice a week when I KNEW I would be better off not contacting her til she hollaed after the initial couple convos. I knew better...but them friday nights had me bored as fukk. :snoop: haha I even deleted the number but my memory is kinda photographic so I memorize peoples numbers with once glance really.

Cause lord knows if she was still in my hometown and we linked up in person she woulda been on my dikk. It never fails.
 

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Been doing a lot of thinking after my situation and it really just hit me yesterday.

"These hoes are not going anywhere"

its true, and a lot of times when we rush or try too hard to get with these women, we end up with a lot that we didnt even want to deal with. and thats just extra on our plate. we're not even moving 100 in our own lives and got our shyt together, and we're trying to force all this relationship shyt and whatever into our lives.

:shaq2:

with women, a lot of times they revolve their entire lives around men and what they can get from them. they dont want to have periods in their lives when theyre without a man, or not looking for one. for some reason, a lot of females cant live like that. men are what makes their world go round. their children, careers, or goals in life dont really ever get their full attention, and instead, they look for a man to bring that meaning and true stability in their lives.


men fall in this trap too when dealing with women, and in turn feel like they need to have a women in their lives, at ALL times. or theyre less of a man or slacking on their pimpin or whatever. what I believe that mindframe does, is it makes a relationship more of a personal crutch for a person. they cant function or walk on their own two. not without feeling some sort of way about it. a lot of folks cant live without having someone carry them, be by them, and hold their hand along the way. instead of being able to stand on your own two, and your partner being the same, a relationship turns into one side trying to save the other one .... from their own selves.


youre there only to stop her boredom, :rudy: give her a child, :umad: buy her things and take her out, :merchant: make her feel "wanted" :patrice: commit to her before she gets too old :deadmanny: etc

those can all be someone's very short termed and not well though out problems, and they become your problem too when you hook up with someone like that. your woman might be highly self absorbed, and looking for you to give her what she thinks shes missing in her own life and goals. people get pressured into doing all of these things for their S/O just because their female has some kind of issue within herself or she cant find out what they really wants to be doing.

:krs:


when you start to notice how important, and how much a relationship validates people, you begin to see what the problem is.


how many women (or men) get heartbroken, and most noticably starts talking about how bad they feel because "no one wants me" or "now Im all alone"


:leostare:


no one wants to walk their road and find their path, so theyre quick to ride alone with someone else, regardless of where theyre going, or how theyre going about it. emotional needs, and sexual needs only push that feeling further and make us jump into serious long term relationships with people who arent necessarily suited for us.

plenty of single parent mothers and older women are finding themselves lonely and NEEDING a man, because they cant stand to be alone, or to do their own thing and live off the consequences of their choices. they have no life, and no real self worth unless someone else gives them time and affection. its women like that who end up, literally, going nowhere. its like you said. if someone doesnt have their own goals and are going about them, their value is mostly placed on who theyre attached to and seeing

if people learned to gain personal stability and growth on their own first, then theyd be more ready to find someone who matches them on different levels. when we rush to find a fit for us, and we feel like we "need" to have someone just because, thats when we chose poorly and rush our decisions.

plus, if these hoes go off and disappear, every year theres a new batch of 18 year olds being made. and in turn, more women who are just around your age are coming up. more fish in the sea. dont get stuck on a few that didnt work out. women are always coming and going. so yeah, these hoes really arent going anywhere. the only thing that should be moving is you towards your goals :whoo:
 
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