I understand where some of you guys coming from. It is just that I absolutely do not like for anyone to try to take advantage of my generally respectful disposition, which is extremely disrespectful. Women in general are far more guilty of doing this type of shyt than men. So again to clarify, I can treat another man with a little bit of general respect like I always have, but I can no longer treat any woman (even a so-called good girl) with that same level of respect because she will see it as weakness.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Rejection is essentially a part of life in every area. So while it may seem painful to your ego (the fear of rejection and the perceived pain from it is ego-based), you should never let rejection and the fear of it get the best of you because you will miss out on a lot of potentially great experiences in life.
So Just before I'm ready to go get at her, I see her with a little boy, who I haven't seen her with the last few times I've seen her, little man looks like her so I had to assume that was her son. I had to pump the brakes on the operation 
what happen?
This is a safe place breh, drop the story
This was my main girl for the past 3 years. She rode for a nikka heavy back when i was dropping french fries. Cooked, cleaned, had no problems paying for meals, (would insist on at least tipping if i paid). Became a nikkas backbone and i made her the gf.
Then these lil situations started to come up and in hindsight i didnt handle them right. She went to the club one night and gave some dude her number. She told me about the next day and im looking like
i told her i wasnt cool with that shyt and she said it wouldnt happen again. I started to not trust her, i had that feeling we all get when something isnt right. Go thru her phone one night (
) and seen her texts with some dude, we argue bout the shyt and break up. For the next year or so we are on/off with each other. I was goin to her spot and still hitting, then we would argue not speak...rinse and repeat. Then one day we meet up after maybe 2 months of not speaking and she says she wants to get back together. Im like
im good on that. So we dont get back together but we start back kicking it and shyt. To make a long story short i fell back in love with her, told her how i felt and she hit me with "im not ready for a relationship" maybe 3 or 4 days later i see some pics on with her and some nikka all hugged up. Then shes like "yea im involved with someone 
"it just happened" "i still wanna be friends" just felt my soul burning 
But i fukked up because i was catering to her... Somewhere down the line i just let her use me, she called me about issues with other nikkas, stayed at my crib and we wernt fukking. I KNOWINGLY played the backup boyfriend and it disgusts me. Its over now but i just feel like a bytch about the entire situation, i have never let a chick play me like that before.
Beerus
Banned
ok
but what bout when you know gettin at her at that moment is a bad idea.
i.e. on a subway
i.e. on those traveler buses like greyhound(for in the suburbs)
man I seen this chick she nice but
i cant fukking holla cuz I know its a bad placelike as soon as I get the opportunity to holla ima holla.
I mean shyt give me the right place, at work, at school ima go holla.
but that bus/subway shyt is just i can't
I tried twice 3 years ago
one of them told me "I don't know" when I asked her name
other one was working for a law firm when I asked her if she was coming from school and had a boyfriend.
I mean I hollared at one chick on the bus last year, it was them normal buses and she was sitting next to me so I jumped. but it aint work out.
but like I said if the environment ain't right i just cant, cuz i know its a 90% chance of a failure
ok
but what bout when you know gettin at her at that moment is a bad idea.
i.e. on a subway
i.e. on those traveler buses like greyhound(for in the suburbs)
man I seen this chick she nice but
like as soon as I get the opportunity to holla ima holla.
I mean shyt give me the right place, at work, at school ima go holla.
but that bus/subway shyt is just i can't
I tried twice 3 years ago
one of them told me "I don't know" when I asked her name
other one was working for a law firm when I asked her if she was coming from school and had a boyfriend.
I mean I hollared at one chick on the bus last year, it was them normal buses and she was sitting next to me so I jumped. but it aint work out.
but like I said if the environment ain't right i just cant, cuz i know its a 90% chance of a failure
You sound like a new york nikka..lol...
When those females have those headphones on the train,its not even worth it.lol
This was my main girl for the past 3 years. She rode for a nikka heavy back when i was dropping french fries. Cooked, cleaned, had no problems paying for meals, (would insist on at least tipping if i paid). Became a nikkas backbone and i made her the gf.
Then these lil situations started to come up and in hindsight i didnt handle them right. She went to the club one night and gave some dude her number. She told me about the next day and im looking like
For the next year or so we are on/off with each other. I was goin to her spot and still hitting, then we would argue not speak...rinse and repeat. Then one day we meet up after maybe 2 months of not speaking and she says she wants to get back together. Im like
But i fukked up because i was catering to her... Somewhere down the line i just let her use me, she called me about issues with other nikkas, stayed at my crib and we wernt fukking. I KNOWINGLY played the backup boyfriend and it disgusts me. Its over now but i just feel like a bytch about the entire situation, i have never let a chick play me like that before.
we all been there breh,
thats why i laugh at dudes here, i dont care if imy girl goes clubbing i trust her.
and women will never tell you the truth, i remember i was talking to this broad, added her to fb then one day i see shes in a relationship with this other dude, i ask her didn't we just go out a few days whats going on?
and she told m dont worry "hes just a friend, he just broke up with his gf and its just to make her jealous"
Beerus
Banned
So i'm right?
Cuz man i've been beating myself cuz of it..
when i perfectly know if it was in any other type of environment i'd jump on it asap
Ur absolutely right...lol
I dunno what boro u from,but wherever ur shopping spots are,that's the best place to go...but its mostly ratchet city..lol
The train and bus is usually where the odds are better if you wanted to meet a female who might actually be worth something..at that point,if you see she staring,just come out with gunz blazing...lol...
If she eating,use that as a crutch,but basically ask when we setting up a date to hang out and go from there
philmonroe
Superstar
You sound bitter bruh in some parts don't be that way it's not worth it. If a chick don't wont you fukk it and move on. I and you shouldn't have time to hope for these chicks downfall. If you a awesome dude somebody going to recognize it but those that don't it is what it is esp since we all probably done turned down a chick that wasnt what we wanted/needed at the time that turned it around. Just saying as an Internet friend it ain't worth it for you or anybody else to be upset about a chick saying no as long as she respectful about it.
ok
but what bout when you know gettin at her at that moment is a bad idea.
i.e. on a subway
i.e. on those traveler buses like greyhound(for in the suburbs)
man I seen this chick she nice but
like as soon as I get the opportunity to holla ima holla.
I mean shyt give me the right place, at work, at school ima go holla.
but that bus/subway shyt is just i can't
I tried twice 3 years ago
one of them told me "I don't know" when I asked her name
other one was working for a law firm when I asked her if she was coming from school and had a boyfriend.
I mean I hollared at one chick on the bus last year, it was them normal buses and she was sitting next to me so I jumped. but it aint work out.
but like I said if the environment ain't right i just cant, cuz i know its a 90% chance of a failure
the Bus/train >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Subway kinda tough cause its so busy..i've tried once and pretty much failed.
one time I was waiting for my greyhound (Go Bus for canadian heads) to come and it started pouring. Me and this one chick were in a bus shelter and she didnt have an umbrella (but I did
). She looked kinda angry about the rain so i said something like, "You don't look too impressed right now." She laughed and we continued talking. Fine ass bytch, I literally would've hit it but I had to go to work and shyt . No Lie and I havent got a chance since and she ignores my messages now lol.Anyways, the bus came and then I asked if she wanted to get under the umbrella. I told her there was one condition though - that she had to sit beside me on the bus. So we get on the bus and everything was cool. I had to make a call but tell me how this girl puts her earphones in her ear when Im on the phone for no more than a minute
. So I think to myself, do I abort the mission or continue after already doing the hard part...I chose the second option 
. I go on my evernote app and write, "That was very rude of you." And show it to her. She laughs...asks why I didnt just say that out loud and I told her something about how she looked like she was vibing and I didnt want to interrupt. yada yada...got the number and all that but she lives too far. Its weird. In my division of my employer though I get American Holidays due to the clients i represent. On a Canadian holiday she was tryna chill and shyt but I had to work. 
Worst luck lately brehs.
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I have a novel coming out in a few weeks
"Dear Women I Haven't Slept With"
Home
I have to shout out this thread, because it helped me with some of the concepts in this book. I found a way to put the Coli in the book too
And now I'm no longer an anonymous person on the internet
And you can download the first 3 chapters of the book on the site for free, as well as listen to my Hot 97 appearance on the Lisa Evers show.
Had to dap this post cause sometimes I can get VERY frustrated on some "fukk these hoes shyt"
but it shouldnt get that serious. jUst try to forget about it and hope you land better next time. I spoke about it earlier:the environment is definitely key though. Not sure if I've said this before but my main thing is to make it seem like its a coincidence that we're in one another's presence. My number one rule overall is otn force it. The whole walking over and introducing yourself thing doesnt work for me personally. But if a girl "just happens" to have an empty seat beside her, if I "just happens" to be in the same aisle as her in a grocery store, if she "just happens" to be standing beside me at a party then its all game.
It's really been great for me just putting my mind into other avenues. I've been reading a lot about the schooling system, about philosophy, reading the Bible, getting my workouts on, etc. Real talk, don't ever let a woman degrade your concept of life. Don't make them put a bubble of hate in your heart to where you start acting vindictive or just have this negative wave about you. Whenever you start feeling like that for whatever reason, back up out of the game, do something you really enjoy and just keep that positive energy about yourself. You should never let anyone steal your joy. If a woman ain't acting right, just back up off of her and keep it pushing and just enjoy all the other things in life you enjoy instead of harboring seeds of hatred for her in your heart and filling your minds with thoughts of vengeance. Life is way too short for all of that.
