Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LebronsHairline]

My old heads used to always tell me to get with a woman who loves you more than you love her.

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IMO thats the only way for a relationship to truly last

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Brehs I got 4 girls to choose from and I think I wanna settle down.

How do I choose?

Like category wise?

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

How men and women cooperate


Get married brehs.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I would
One of my friends fine as hell this Romanian broad who I met on a mission trip a few years ago

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I met this romanian chick this week end but found out we work together

 

[Ohms Law]

Brehs I got 4 girls to choose from and I think I wanna settle down.

How do I choose?

Like category wise?

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

No I'm serious.

One is my ex the other 3 I've been dating simentaneously.

I'm sleeping with one of them tho.

I really do want to make a choice tho I just need some guidance from some older heads who probably got more knowledge then me.

 

[Ohms Law]

No I'm serious.

One is my ex the other 3 I've been dating simentaneously.

I'm sleeping with one of them tho.

I really do want to make a choice tho I just need some guidance from some older heads who probably got more knowledge then me.

Choosing a girl you haven't even slept with ?

 

[T-K-G]

im gonna find a pretty lesbian and we're gonna find a bi chick who's down with being with the both of us





*drake voice* and no one can stop me

 

[MikelArteta]

My old heads used to always tell me to get with a woman who loves you more than you love her.

When I was younger I never understood it because most of the girls who was feeling me more than I was feeling them, I wasn't attracted to them or there was no connection.

Maybe, it's because as men we love the chase, the challenge. We like to have the girl that everybody wants that none of them can get. And we get this girl, thinking she is the prize because of all the attention surrouding her. But in reality, we've dated a girl that chose us. We didn't choose her. She has all the options. We put in more effort to get her. She probably didn't put in any effort. Each and everyday we're thinking of ways to please her and make her happy, but is she really reciprocating? Probably not, because she doesn't have to. And if we fall short of her expectations, she will leave us and move on to her other options. Why do we put ourselves in these situations? We end up all anger and bitter because we feel like we wasted and invested all this time in her and got nothing to show for it. Whereas, she invested very little if anything. And even if she did like you, or even love you, she knew she had you wrapped around her finger and that you weren't going anywhere.

She didn't have to do anything for you, and it was okay. Sure, you would get mad and acknowledge that you're being taken advantage of, but if you spoke up about it, she would check you and possibly break up with you. It's a tiring process to keep thinking about ways to make or keep somebody happy. But this is inevitable when you date somebody who you love more than they love you.

Now, imagine a woman who just genuinely enjoys being with you. You don't have to do anything special, and she still enjoys your company. She finds everything about you cool, sophisticated, and sexy. She admires you. She's so into you and hangs onto your every word. She's loyal to you because she is decisive about where she wants to be. There are no unrealistic expectations. Now who wouldn't want a relationship like this? Now here's the kicker. I guarantee we all know a girl like this. But we didn't want her. And it's cool.... Maybe she's not attractive, maybe shes not your type. You can't really dwell on the past, but you can reflect.

There's more longterm value and the possibility of loyalty from a woman who is into you for who you are, not who you present yourself to be or what you can do for her. I appreciate women with a genuine interest in me. Now, I wouldn't force attraction because that's a recipe for disaster. But sometimes it's not about what you want, but what you need. If there's a mutual attraction and she treats me good, I'm going to go with the flow. But never again will I invest a woman who feels like I'm merely an option.

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[karim]

No I'm serious.

One is my ex the other 3 I've been dating simentaneously.

I'm sleeping with one of them tho.

I really do want to make a choice tho I just need some guidance from some older heads who probably got more knowledge then me.

Choosing a girl you haven't even slept with ?

this, plus, take the ex out of the equation, you never want to get back together with an ex.

as far as the rest of them goes

 

[MikelArteta]

anyone here have a successful story of getting back with a ex?...............


yeah thought so

 

[Youseenmywork]

Im change the subject for now ...I dont mean to hijack the thread but I gotta touch on somethings that I have been thinking about...Most of what I have to say pretains to the happines of a man(I havent meet a woman who actually cares about mine). This is kinda long so bare with me.

Women dont deserve respect just like they dont deserve love. 'Deserve' is just another word for 'entitled to this or that rather than the women proving her worth, earning your respect some "princess' bytches actually think they're owned love and they're not

Truly walking on eggshell is constantly fearing her reaction to every answer you giver and feeling like you have to be phony to keep her happy .

Guys gotta get that corny "If a women anit happy then nobody happy"- horseshyt out of their fukking minds! The truth is that a mans happines is the most important thing in his life- even more important than any woman he's with at that moment. Being phony/corny/chivalrous with a women is the dumbest thing you can do as a man. I say this cause women have killed chivary.

When a woman does that phony humbleness shes telling you shes got some kind of pathological entitlement that she uses because thats how she was rasied as a spoiled child.The point is that men need to recognize pathological behaviors in women like: emotional/cripple/frivolous emotions, entitlement (" Im a pricess/goddess')...Unreasonable materialistic expectations.

Many family members and friends alike always ask me why havent I EVER been in love
ME: ...Cause what I did for those women... maybe they didnt do that for me

 

[DeuceZ]

let me add to this again, its like a job breh, your not thinking of getting fired or laid off, you show up on time, even do more than you should work hard, but then called in to the office and told things are changing in the workplace and to save costs we have to let you go.


you've done nothing wrong you've been a great employee, but things change. just like in relationships even if you got such a great women.

i was at my company for 6 years last year when i got pulled into a meeting and they told me my position would be gone in 3 months, luckily i was redeployed, some other oflks were not so lucky and took a package.

just like in relationships, you can date someone for 3 years, 6 years, everything is going great then suddenly one day we need to talk and your relationship is terminated. Of course there are women out there who can be faithful, of course there are grat women out there, key is most are gone out of the game at a good age, its just like what i said about say pof etc. the only good women there sign up and delte their account in a week.

most of the good women i know are married, and have been married for years, snatched up at a young age.

have realer words been spoken?

I been out of this thread for 2 months or so but glad that brethren still dropping piff here....1

 

[kevm3]

Im change the subject for now ...I dont mean to hijack the thread but I gotta touch on somethings that I have been thinking about...Most of what I have to say pretains to the happines of a man(I havent meet a woman who actually cares about mine). This is kinda long so bare with me.

Women dont deserve respect just like they dont deserve love. 'Deserve' is just another word for 'entitled to this or that rather than the women proving her worth, earning your respect some "princess' bytches actually think they're owned love and they're not

Truly walking on eggshell is constantly fearing her reaction to every answer you giver and feeling like you have to be phony to keep her happy .

Guys gotta get that corny "If a women anit happy then nobody happy"- horseshyt out of their fukking minds! The truth is that a mans happines is the most important thing in his life- even more important than any woman he's with at that moment. Being phony/corny/chivalrous with a women is the dumbest thing you can do as a man. I say this cause women have killed chivary.

When a woman does that phony humbleness shes telling you shes got some kind of pathological entitlement that she uses because thats how she was rasied as a spoiled child.The point is that men need to recognize pathological behaviors in women like: emotional/cripple/frivolous emotions, entitlement (" Im a pricess/goddess')...Unreasonable materialistic expectations.

Many family members and friends alike always ask me why havent I EVER been in love
ME: ...Cause what I did for those women... maybe they didnt do that for me

Pretty much. I don't have the time to sit around here catering to what I think some broad will like... walking on eggshells with some fake personality. Ain't nothing a woman brings to the table that makes her 'bigger' than me to where I need to seek her approval with my actions. I'm about 'both' the woman and me being happy, but I'm not going to go out of my way to make her happy and cater to her. A woman either likes you or she doesn't, and the only way for her to like you is for you to be yourself. The reason a lot of women act so badly is because men allow it. They allow women to scream on them, pop them upside the head and all kinds of nonsense. They keep paying women attention no matter what they do or no matter how little she brings to the table, and yet they wonder why things don't ever change. Men don't put any punitive measures or offer any real incentives for women to change their behavior. It's kind of like going to a store, getting a shoddy product, complaining about the store, but continuing to go back there and spend your money. The store won't change because they have no incentive to.

What we have in this day and age is a woman bubble... sort of like a stock market bubble or a housing bubble. The price men are paying for the attention of a woman in terms of time, effort, the level of nonsense and disrespect they accept and money is way inflated compared to the actual worth of what the average woman is bringing to the table. People are paying these exorbitant prices in terms of the aforementioned currency 'just cuz.' One thing a smart man will do is learn the art of nonparticipation. If you want to lose money in the stock market, always buy stocks 'just cuz.' Never assess their value. If you want to win, you have to assess value and learn that there are periods when values are way inflated in comparison to the reasonable value for that item. If the selling price is way more than the reasonable value, then you simply do not buy. It's the same thing with women. If what she is bringing to the table is way out of line of what she is demanding in return, simply decline her offer and do not deal with her. A woman will never change her behavior if she is getting her 'currency', aka attention. A man must know when to 'back up off the market,' or in other words, not deal with this or that particular woman if things are getting to hectic and her asking price is too high in comparison to the value she is bringing to the table... and the key way to do that is to choose the right moments to participate and not participate... when you take her on and when you leave her alone.

 

[Sharp]

anyone here have a successful story of getting back with a ex?...............


yeah thought so

I'm really cool with many of my exes. We attributed our relationship failures to youth.

I've smashed exes, but I've never seriously gotten back with any of them. The reason is that you quickly come to remember why you broke up with them in the first place as soon as you try to rekindle an emotional connection with them.

Distance allows you to see things much clearer. Have you like "Why did I date her in the first place. She wasn't good for me."