Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yo Fellas I been doing some thinking and it's not society that fails us men but it's our ownselves... We often everyday let women decide our worth by seeking their favor and their approval and thirsting for their acknowledgement. But why??? What's the point??? We determine our own worth by our actions... You act like a Respectable man, You'll be respected. In this day and age these women looking at us men like accessories and resources more than human beings. Never taking our feelings and emotions into consideration before they interact with us... Look at this GIF brehs





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That's ASAP rocky slapping a thirsty female fan(which i'm not condoning) for trying to kiss him. Look how he can do this and the sistah will still go home thirsting for him and respecting him more but there's probably a simp negro blowing up her phone who wouldn't dare be so bold and would simp, trick his hard earned money, and degrade his manhood for a chance at her lips... It's time we start to see ourselves as valuable leaders more than simp soldiers marching to the beat of these females who don't even know what they want and only begin to want you when she thinks she shouldn't have you... Wake up brehs don't let these females play you anymore. Focus on your grind and your craft and your faith. Not a woman who's whimsical personality changes like the wind...:salute:
 

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Yo Fellas I been doing some thinking and it's not society that fails us men but it's our ownselves... We often everyday let women decide our worth by seeking their favor and their approval and thirsting for their acknowledgement. But why??? What's the point??? We determine our own worth by our actions... You act like a Respectable man, You'll be respected. In this day and age these women looking at us men like accessories and resources more than human beings. Never taking our feelings and emotions into consideration before they interact with us... Look at this GIF brehs





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That's ASAP rocky slapping a thirsty female fan(which i'm not condoning) for trying to kiss him. Look how he can do this and the sistah will still go home thirsting for him and respecting him more but there's probably a simp negro blowing up her phone who wouldn't dare be so bold and would simp, trick his hard earned money, and degrade his manhood for a chance at her lips... It's time we start to see ourselves as valuable leaders more than simp soldiers marching to the beat of these females who don't even know what they want and only begin to want you when she thinks she shouldn't have you... Wake up brehs don't let these females play you anymore. Focus on your grind and your craft and your faith. Not a woman who's whimsical personality changes like the wind...:salute:

Pretty much. The problem with that ASAP rocky situation is how females can completely flip. She was cool while she was in the moment and he was doing it, but if some other female gets in her ear and tells her she was assaulted or she decides she wants a pay-out... that friendly and fun gesture that she was smiling about can have her appearing in court bawling. You got to be very careful with females, especially if you're famous or have a lot of money.

I agree, it's way more important for men to focus on manhood and defining their own manhood with a much broader scope than what will get the chicks. There's so much more to life than that and there is a point where you have to realize that many guys are actually 'selling their souls' for the approval of a woman... meaning that they are changing their inner essence and turning into people they aren't and engaging in negative behavior to get the attention of women, and that's sad. I feel it's more important for me to follow Jesus more closely than ever and to focus on living a PRINCIPLED life, meaning to live life in a fashion of respectable behavior, even if I'm not rewarded for it.
 

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Such a great thread, still haven't even read half the sh1t.

Kev you've dropped pure jewellery in here, props my man
 

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Stop worrying about females happiness.If she doesnt have happiness by the time two of you enter the relationship she NEVER will.Remember no foundation no house!
 

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Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs :snoop:)

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:beli: Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs :blessed: :usure:
You did the right thing. You have to drop certain females immediately.

In that situation? Dropped

You are "friends" with a female you really want to take things further with and she gets a BF? Peace

Don't have to be an a$$hole about it, but just clear and firm. No games
 

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Im change the subject for now ...I dont mean to hijack the thread but I gotta touch on somethings that I have been thinking about...Most of what I have to say pretains to the happines of a man(I havent meet a woman who actually cares about mine). This is kinda long so bare with me.

Women dont deserve respect just like they dont deserve love. 'Deserve' is just another word for 'entitled to this or that rather than the women proving her worth, earning your respect some "princess' bytches actually think they're owned love and they're not

Truly walking on eggshell is constantly fearing her reaction to every answer you giver and feeling like you have to be phony to keep her happy .

Guys gotta get that corny "If a women anit happy then nobody happy"- horseshyt out of their fukking minds! The truth is that a mans happines is the most important thing in his life- even more important than any woman he's with at that moment. Being phony/corny/chivalrous with a women is the dumbest thing you can do as a man. I say this cause women have killed chivary.

When a woman does that phony humbleness shes telling you shes got some kind of pathological entitlement that she uses because thats how she was rasied as a spoiled child.The point is that men need to recognize pathological behaviors in women like: emotional/cripple/frivolous emotions, entitlement (" Im a pricess/goddess')...Unreasonable materialistic expectations.



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Man that cripple shyt is the worst. One minute the world is about to end, the next minute they ready to go party at the club. When I see that crap I just give the :comeon:
 

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anyone here have a successful story of getting back with a ex?...............


yeah thought so

I've seen one. Girl's dude cheated on her years back. They broke up and eventually got back together. They seem happily married now. But that's just what I see on the outside.

But I never see any negative posts from her on FB and stuff.
 

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Stop worrying about females happiness.If she doesnt have happiness by the time two of you enter the relationship she NEVER will.Remember no foundation no house!



Most people's fear of being alone overwhelms all else. It's mostly females, though. It can be downright scary. I remember meeting some girl a few weeks ago at a bar who was married for 2 years and has kids with them. I asked her if she was happy and with no hesitation, she said "no". She was still in love with her first husband. :demonic:

I always thought that you should be down right ecstatic when 2 people first get together.
 

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Carné Asada;4720467 said:
Most people's fear of being alone overwhelms all else. It's mostly females, though. It can be downright scary. I remember meeting some girl a few weeks ago at a bar who was married for 2 years and has kids with them. I asked her if she was happy and with no hesitation, she said "no". She was still in love with her first husband. :demonic:

I always thought that you should be down right ecstatic when 2 people first get together.

This right here is one of the keys to dealing with not just women, but PEOPLE period. I think the roots of this go all the way back to childhood. I'm so thankful I had BOTH a mother and a father who love me dearly and great siblings. If your family has shown you more than enough love, then you don't need it from anyone else. Self respect is more important than anyone's love, as a man you should DEMAND respect :smugdraper:

and be :manny: about Love

Your self respect>>>Anybody's Love

That's why I've never been punked by a woman and I'm never gonna be punked by one, I have more than enough people who love me, love is nice, but a woman that doesn't respect you will be a thorn in your side. Every girl I've ever been with respects me, their friends may hate me or think I'm an a$$hole, but the girls themselves respect me and that to me>>>their love

My momma loves me. My daddy loves me. My brother and sisters love me. Everybody else can go f*ck themselves :smugbiden:
 

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This right here is one of the keys to dealing with not just women, but PEOPLE period. I think the roots of this go all the way back to childhood. I'm so thankful I had BOTH a mother and a father who love me dearly and great siblings. If your family has shown you more than enough love, then you don't need it from anyone else. Self respect is more important than anyone's love, as a man you should DEMAND respect :smugdraper:

and be :manny: about Love

Your self respect>>>Anybody's Love

That's why I've never been punked and I'm never gonna be punked, I have more than enough people who love me, love is nice, but a woman that doesn't respect you will be a thorn in your side. Every girl I've ever been with respects me, their friends may hate me or think I'm an a$$hole, but the girls themselves respect me and that to me>>>their love

My momma loves me. My daddy loves me. My brother and sisters love me. Everybody else can go f*ck themselves :smugbiden:

Family helps but emotional baggage has a lot to do with it too. THe last girl I dealt with couldn't tell me straight out that she was happy with her current dude. And I asked her about 10 times and even explained to her and she refused to answer the question.

This girl was cheated on and had dude put his hands on her in her 5 year relationship that ended 2 years ago. I really don't know how long she's been alone because I come to find out she was dealing with a dude for a year before dealing with me and eventually dealing with another dude right after me.
 

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Carné Asada;4720467 said:
Most people's fear of being alone overwhelms all else. It's mostly females, though. It can be downright scary. I remember meeting some girl a few weeks ago at a bar who was married for 2 years and has kids with them. I asked her if she was happy and with no hesitation, she said "no". She was still in love with her first husband. :demonic:

I always thought that you should be down right ecstatic when 2 people first get together.

Honestly most people are probably afraid of being alone.Some women choose to use relationships for status.Brag to their friends etc... as they get older they fear being alone.Between 21-25 there not thinking long term because simps will always be there for them.By time they reach 27-30 ish they start to worry cause younger women are out there,they may see a gray hair or two.They start to gain weight.People love to be single but after a while,they get that itch to get into a relationship.
 

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One of the biggest things to learn is to tell a woman no. A lot of women just seriously get off on trying to manipulate men to do things that are out of line... they seriously get a kick out of it. You do it for them and they won't appreciate it. They will giggle in their mind how they used you like a sucker and then escalate the behavior. Just say no and learn to completely not care how she reacts. Something a lot of men can't tolerate is having a broad shame them or throw a little tantrum, so they always give in. You got to be a man that knows how to rise above that. You don't owe no woman any favors or a free dinner. That's something you choose to give her at her discretion. If she tries to shame you by saying you're selfish, just get her away from you. Having highly manipulative women around you is just a recipe for getting played. Why would you seriously want someone around you who is there to manipulate your emotions to get a free ride?
 
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