Be masculine
When it comes down to it, the more of a man you are, the better off your life will be and the more females you will attract and retain as a byproduct.
For some reason or another, a lot of men picked up feminine characteristics as time passed on... Whether it was societal brainwashing, overly protecting parents, being raised without a father figure, etc., a lot of men simply didn't have a definition or pattern of manhood to aspire to. It became alright for boys to be soft, emotional and to constantly shed tears. It became alright for a man to not stand up for anything. Men were given the okey doke to let the women take the reigns and lead while they sat back asking, "Baby, what do you want to do?"
The old school image of a man was more gruff, rough around the edges, took pride in being able to handle problems, didn't back down, didn't cry, was the dominant figure in the relationship and had the ability to make those around them feel safe. They were ones who weren't afraid to take risks and make choices, actively pursued that which they sought and they maintained a cool face in the midst of pressure. This new image of men is a sensitive man who cries, wears tight, form-fitting jeans, constantly avoids problems instead of handling them, may paint their fingernails and toe nails, always defers and agrees with a woman, etc. God created life with ORDER. You disobey that order and you get punished. This new societally pushed role of a man simply is not the proper order given to a man. If you embody the characterisitics of a naive, confused, nervous boy, you will be treated as one and bear those consequences. You live up to masculinity and manhood, and you will thus reap those rewards.
Masculinity is not unrestrained machismo and unthinking aggression... but rather machismo and aggression are tempered with common sense and wisdom to produce a man who is able to handle whatever problem comes his way. He does not willingly create problems. For instance, a man does not go around 'demonstrating his manhood' and picking fights, beating people up, etc... but rather he goes about his day to day affairs, while maintaining a composure that he is not to be messed with if one does choose to start something with him.
I will continue this soon, but for now other business calls.
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exactly!!!
