YungBlackFappa
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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T-K-G
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Im like that too but i aint gonna shyt on nikkas that aint like me.
you said you aint never had dem type of issues so of course you aint gonna relate to half the shyt nikkas talkin bout in here...
so just let them nikkas cook breh.
and some of these nikkas is droppin real gems as far as the marriage and long relationships shyt.
YungBlackFappa
Rookie
cosign.
Running through hos is nothing special, gasp some nikkas actually want a decent girl to build a relationship with.
What's your longest relationship
Captain Crunch
Veteran
Pro tip: Dead texting and leaving voicemails for females, because best believe they show those to their friends and other men.
call_me_step_daddy
Real nikkaz,beat bytches
5 years and still going
This thread isn't about 'pulling hoes.'
MenacingMonk
Tranquilo
It's sad how, by this thread, it seems you gotta take a course on how to pull women. shyt's disgusting. I'm not saying this thread is wack because there's A LOT of knowledge in here. I'm generalizing the world we live in.
Why are you so mad though?
You are the only "nikka" who sounds scorned over here. And you are not funny and witty in any way, typing like a 15 year old trash ghetto kid. Probably is.
fukk off, is what I am saying.
When it comes down to it, the pulling a woman really isn't all that difficult. Look fly, dress fly, and get in her ear with some conversation. What IS difficult is finding a woman here in America to roll with you for the long term and to start a family with. What really IS difficult is to ensure you are getting anywhere near equal value for the effort you are exerting while minimizing the change you get screwed over. For the eternal bachelor, this is the time to be in. for a man who wants to build a family without having to constantly watch his back, he has to watch his steps because there are landmines everywhere.
Let's be real here. What are most men REALLY getting from most of these women of today? If you are extra fly with it, a woman might cook or do a little cleaning for you every now and then, but how many men really get a woman cooking and cleaning for them everyday, no complaints, no questions asked? How many men got a woman that takes off his coat everyday when he gets home? Not many.
Now on the other hand, they are talking about a man needs to come off 3 months salary for a wedding ring, but these females aren't even taking a lot of these dudes last names. They are putting their last name and then a dash, and then the man's last name. Traditionally, the woman's family was supposed to pay for the wedding, but how many men are really privy to that? Most likely he and his family is going to be footing some of those bills.
These women want to talk about that equality stuff when it comes to cooking and cleaning, but who is most likely paying the majority of the bills? More times than not, it's the man. Who is the one that needs to make her 'feel safe'? That's right, the man. If she wants to take time off and go back to school or just be a stay at home wife, a lot of men will accommodate that, but let the man talk about how he's going to quit his job and go to school to get into photography. How likely is it that the woman will support the both of them on their income while he does that? Naw, all of a sudden this negro becomes a loser and somebody that needs to grow up. A negro got to 'stay about' what he was initially about, but a woman can get in the marriage, quit her job, go to school on the man's dime to explore other, much less lucrative career avenues, as well as just gain 200 lbs and a negro just supposed to be cool with that... say whaaattt?? But let a negro gain about 200 lbs and stop working and she'll be out with her bags on the Tamale Express.
A man is supposed to listen to his woman's problems and make her feel reassured... They want him to 'just listen', but not give advice and fix the problem so he can hear that same problem tomorrow, and the day after and the day after. A negro got to be funny to 'keep her entertained.' How often will she just come with these crazy nice jokes to have you rolling everyday? Then these women will talk about she wants a man to 'take control', but when he does, all of a sudden this negro is 'too controlling.' You need to listen to her problems, but you tell her yours and you are weak and need to 'man up.' As a man, you can't be just a normal, steady guy that handles business because that's boring. He has to be nonchalant and not be around too much and also argue with her to 'keep her interested'.
Then a negro got to deal with these idiotic tests so she can see whether she 'respects the guy' or not. She'll do some out of pocket nonsense to test if you're going to go for it. She KNOWS the answer, but she wants to see if she can run it by you. No, going to the club every weekend and staying out until 2 in the morning with 'your girls' isn't cool if you're in a relationship. No, having 'male friends' isn't cool if we're in a relationship. No, staying in contact and being 'friends with your ex isn't cool. No, going to dinner with a co-worker ain't cool. No, texting on the phone while we are out ain't cool." A lot of these women KNOW this is not proper behavior, but they want to pull it on a man to see if they can get away with it. Me, I don't got time to deal with it. She pulls that on me and I'm in the wind. I don't have time to be disciplining no female on basic manners like that. These women be quick trying to tell a man to man-up, but they don't know the first thing about being a woman.
Now, if you get married, you better hope she's loyal. If she's not, she still can walk away with the kids, more than half of the assets, most of which probably came from YOU, AND you'll have to treat her with some nice child support and alimony. Have fun dressing her up so she can bring another negro in a house you're still paying a mortgage on but not living in and going on trips with that negro. Oh yeah, she had a kid by another man and you found out a year late but signed the birth certificate? Have fun paying child support for the next 18 years on a kid that isn't yours.
Being a real negro ain't going to protect you against that... or I guess Mike Tyson ain't real when that ol gal sent him to prison and Robin Givens and other women broke his bank account down. Or Pac getting sent to prison on false rape allegations. That ol gal trying to get Kobe locked up... Kobe having to buy his wife a million dollar ring and baby his wife up so she won't walk out with tens of millions of dollars of his money despite her doing little more than enjoying the life of luxury he provided her. You get tired of paying all of that child support and you stop paying? Have fun in jail. Look at superplayer Antonio Cromartie... Terrell Owens... spent their whole lives working hard and sacrificing to go to the NFL and them negroes end up broke because they are sending all kinds of that money to their baby mommas. Look at Evander Holyfield... making millions, but still having to jump in the ring and get his brain knocked around so he can pay off all them baby mommas he got.
Let's couple that with the fact that a lot of these females aren't appreciative. You do something nice for them and they look at it as them coming up using their seduction and look at you as some kind of trick to be used. Negroes that pay for their girl's college, 9 times out of 10, he will get cheated on. A negro that constantly lets a girl push his car, will most likely have another negro riding around in it or get that joint crashed. A negro that listens to too many of his woman's problems and lingers around too long will be looked at as boring and as a 'resource provider' while the outside negro who ain't doing nothing but popping in every so often is getting all the benefits. I can go on and on and on.
Fine broads ain't special either. they got the same thing between their legs as the rest of the population and fineness doesn't last forever... but that stank attitude just might. What I look like playing a role and making a new personality just because some gal looks fine? She ain't that important. Either she likes me and gets down right or she doesn't. You don't even need to have no money to have a pretty woman feeling you. Either she likes what you are about or she doesn't. That's just the bottom line... but just because she's a little prettier than the rest doesn't entitle her to be catered to
When it really comes down to it, what in the world is a man really getting from these women? The opportunity at some sex? You mean the sex she'll give to a negro just for looking nie at the club and hitting her with some game? what else? A little conversation? I will tell ya'll what ya'll are getting and that's hustled.
This thread ain't really got nothing to do with no 'pulling hoes'. It's about being a man of value and making sure you are getting your due. It's about telling a broad that feels entitled to all these benefits despite bringing little herself to save that drama for her mama. it's about avoiding getting your butt thrown in jail or getting locked up in financial slavery because you were a little too generous in spreading your seeds. Ultimately, it's about saying no to anything less than a quality woman, which is harder to find than Carmen San Diego these days.
Let's be real here. What are most men REALLY getting from most of these women of today? If you are extra fly with it, a woman might cook or do a little cleaning for you every now and then, but how many men really get a woman cooking and cleaning for them everyday, no complaints, no questions asked? How many men got a woman that takes off his coat everyday when he gets home? Not many.
Now on the other hand, they are talking about a man needs to come off 3 months salary for a wedding ring, but these females aren't even taking a lot of these dudes last names. They are putting their last name and then a dash, and then the man's last name. Traditionally, the woman's family was supposed to pay for the wedding, but how many men are really privy to that? Most likely he and his family is going to be footing some of those bills.
These women want to talk about that equality stuff when it comes to cooking and cleaning, but who is most likely paying the majority of the bills? More times than not, it's the man. Who is the one that needs to make her 'feel safe'? That's right, the man. If she wants to take time off and go back to school or just be a stay at home wife, a lot of men will accommodate that, but let the man talk about how he's going to quit his job and go to school to get into photography. How likely is it that the woman will support the both of them on their income while he does that? Naw, all of a sudden this negro becomes a loser and somebody that needs to grow up. A negro got to 'stay about' what he was initially about, but a woman can get in the marriage, quit her job, go to school on the man's dime to explore other, much less lucrative career avenues, as well as just gain 200 lbs and a negro just supposed to be cool with that... say whaaattt?? But let a negro gain about 200 lbs and stop working and she'll be out with her bags on the Tamale Express.
A man is supposed to listen to his woman's problems and make her feel reassured... They want him to 'just listen', but not give advice and fix the problem so he can hear that same problem tomorrow, and the day after and the day after. A negro got to be funny to 'keep her entertained.' How often will she just come with these crazy nice jokes to have you rolling everyday? Then these women will talk about she wants a man to 'take control', but when he does, all of a sudden this negro is 'too controlling.' You need to listen to her problems, but you tell her yours and you are weak and need to 'man up.' As a man, you can't be just a normal, steady guy that handles business because that's boring. He has to be nonchalant and not be around too much and also argue with her to 'keep her interested'.
Then a negro got to deal with these idiotic tests so she can see whether she 'respects the guy' or not. She'll do some out of pocket nonsense to test if you're going to go for it. She KNOWS the answer, but she wants to see if she can run it by you. No, going to the club every weekend and staying out until 2 in the morning with 'your girls' isn't cool if you're in a relationship. No, having 'male friends' isn't cool if we're in a relationship. No, staying in contact and being 'friends with your ex isn't cool. No, going to dinner with a co-worker ain't cool. No, texting on the phone while we are out ain't cool." A lot of these women KNOW this is not proper behavior, but they want to pull it on a man to see if they can get away with it. Me, I don't got time to deal with it. She pulls that on me and I'm in the wind. I don't have time to be disciplining no female on basic manners like that. These women be quick trying to tell a man to man-up, but they don't know the first thing about being a woman.
Now, if you get married, you better hope she's loyal. If she's not, she still can walk away with the kids, more than half of the assets, most of which probably came from YOU, AND you'll have to treat her with some nice child support and alimony. Have fun dressing her up so she can bring another negro in a house you're still paying a mortgage on but not living in and going on trips with that negro. Oh yeah, she had a kid by another man and you found out a year late but signed the birth certificate? Have fun paying child support for the next 18 years on a kid that isn't yours.
Being a real negro ain't going to protect you against that... or I guess Mike Tyson ain't real when that ol gal sent him to prison and Robin Givens and other women broke his bank account down. Or Pac getting sent to prison on false rape allegations. That ol gal trying to get Kobe locked up... Kobe having to buy his wife a million dollar ring and baby his wife up so she won't walk out with tens of millions of dollars of his money despite her doing little more than enjoying the life of luxury he provided her. You get tired of paying all of that child support and you stop paying? Have fun in jail. Look at superplayer Antonio Cromartie... Terrell Owens... spent their whole lives working hard and sacrificing to go to the NFL and them negroes end up broke because they are sending all kinds of that money to their baby mommas. Look at Evander Holyfield... making millions, but still having to jump in the ring and get his brain knocked around so he can pay off all them baby mommas he got.
Let's couple that with the fact that a lot of these females aren't appreciative. You do something nice for them and they look at it as them coming up using their seduction and look at you as some kind of trick to be used. Negroes that pay for their girl's college, 9 times out of 10, he will get cheated on. A negro that constantly lets a girl push his car, will most likely have another negro riding around in it or get that joint crashed. A negro that listens to too many of his woman's problems and lingers around too long will be looked at as boring and as a 'resource provider' while the outside negro who ain't doing nothing but popping in every so often is getting all the benefits. I can go on and on and on.
Fine broads ain't special either. they got the same thing between their legs as the rest of the population and fineness doesn't last forever... but that stank attitude just might. What I look like playing a role and making a new personality just because some gal looks fine? She ain't that important. Either she likes me and gets down right or she doesn't. You don't even need to have no money to have a pretty woman feeling you. Either she likes what you are about or she doesn't. That's just the bottom line... but just because she's a little prettier than the rest doesn't entitle her to be catered to
When it really comes down to it, what in the world is a man really getting from these women? The opportunity at some sex? You mean the sex she'll give to a negro just for looking nie at the club and hitting her with some game? what else? A little conversation? I will tell ya'll what ya'll are getting and that's hustled.
This thread ain't really got nothing to do with no 'pulling hoes'. It's about being a man of value and making sure you are getting your due. It's about telling a broad that feels entitled to all these benefits despite bringing little herself to save that drama for her mama. it's about avoiding getting your butt thrown in jail or getting locked up in financial slavery because you were a little too generous in spreading your seeds. Ultimately, it's about saying no to anything less than a quality woman, which is harder to find than Carmen San Diego these days.
I find it hard to believe that you never consult with your friends in real life about women issues. Anyway, people are different and haven't had the experiences that you had. It's actually disgusting that you want to come in here and put people down. Keep that crab in the barrel mentality out of here bro. You're not contributing anything positive. You're just trying to portray yourself as if you're better than the rest of us.
I've been married... so when you get to that point in your life, then you chop it up with me about women. I've been in the game for a long time, and even I'm humble enough to listen to good advice when I hear it.
I can tell when people skim and don't read. A majority of this thread isn't about how to pull a chick. It is about establishing self-worth and to prevent yourself from being manipulated by women.
Malikthegod
opposite of mediocre
MrFantastic
Pro
While i do give most of the posts in this thread the 
status.., some of the information is becoming repeatitive. Me personally, got down the basics on how to get , interact, question, look for red flags in my dealings with women. I would like to see, and maybe this is too much, how do I protect myself financially if I decide to marry? Keep the whole dont do it to yourself. I want to have more kids, what are some tips on protecting my assets from child support?
This thread could use some more advanced strategies on how to deal with women we already in relationships with as it to pertain to protecting ourselves financially.
status.., some of the information is becoming repeatitive. Me personally, got down the basics on how to get , interact, question, look for red flags in my dealings with women. I would like to see, and maybe this is too much, how do I protect myself financially if I decide to marry? Keep the whole dont do it to yourself. I want to have more kids, what are some tips on protecting my assets from child support? This thread could use some more advanced strategies on how to deal with women we already in relationships with as it to pertain to protecting ourselves financially.
The Message
Lex with tv sets the minimum
KevM came in and laid a heat rash on this thread. lol
It always kills me when nikkas is on some I dont need no game, yall weak for tryin to learn about women. These are the same cats who end up getting murked over a broad. Wise ones understand that you should never stop learning about anything. Life is infinite and so is knowledge. Stay out the thread -the game is not for you.
He did mention one thing in passing which piqued my interest. And that is humor. I've always been witty, bordering on a$$hole, by nature. But I learned to use it as a weapon also. It breaks the ice. It disarms people. People warm up to you if it's done wisely. I've used it in job interviews, airports, weddings, etc. But with the ladies, it gets them to be comfortable and loose themselves when their with me. If you get them laughing here and there - you got them. Now I'm not on no clown, buckdancing, c00nery shyt. None of that. Use it strategically, dont be a one-trick pony. When you can make them laugh, become emotional, challenge them intellectually, smile, get them sexually aroused all in one conversation - without even having hit it yet - you know how to use that mouthpiece! haha
The difference is to be able to turn it off at the drop of the hat to let them know it aint all peaches and cream if any disrespect is brought to the forefront. lol
It always kills me when nikkas is on some I dont need no game, yall weak for tryin to learn about women. These are the same cats who end up getting murked over a broad. Wise ones understand that you should never stop learning about anything. Life is infinite and so is knowledge. Stay out the thread -the game is not for you.
He did mention one thing in passing which piqued my interest. And that is humor. I've always been witty, bordering on a$$hole, by nature. But I learned to use it as a weapon also. It breaks the ice. It disarms people. People warm up to you if it's done wisely. I've used it in job interviews, airports, weddings, etc. But with the ladies, it gets them to be comfortable and loose themselves when their with me. If you get them laughing here and there - you got them. Now I'm not on no clown, buckdancing, c00nery shyt. None of that. Use it strategically, dont be a one-trick pony. When you can make them laugh, become emotional, challenge them intellectually, smile, get them sexually aroused all in one conversation - without even having hit it yet - you know how to use that mouthpiece! haha
The difference is to be able to turn it off at the drop of the hat to let them know it aint all peaches and cream if any disrespect is brought to the forefront. lol
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
A woman doesnt care about your hopes and dreams.Real talk I use to know a young woman, Her bf quit his full time job to pursue a career as a comedian FULL TIME.He lived in a 1 room apartment off of getting paid as an amateur comedian.After he made a little name for himself in the south,he moves to NYC and performs at same club Eddie Murphy and Chris Rock use to go. Long story short...ol girl dogged him out to me.Saying "Its ok to have dreams but he wont make it,he isnt that funny and he made a big mistake" etc all types of stuff, Yet she would go on his FB Page saying she supports him and how he is the next Kevin Hart etc.Eventually they broke up. This is why I said the Dollar and Dream days are long gone.Like Kevm said Let a man quit his job and study photography and ol girl will leave him. Thats the truth
