Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So what do the brehs think when it comes to going out on dates?

I think it's fine if the man sets up and pays for the first date, but after the first date, we should wait and see what the female offers to do for the next time. If she's really interested, she will come out of pocket for whatever activity next time.

I used to spend mad money going on multiple dates with a chick, paying for everything and still not ending up with her in the end. Those days are over for me man.
 

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So what do the brehs think when it comes to going out on dates?

I think it's fine if the man sets up and pays for the first date, but after the first date, we should wait and see what the female offers to do for the next time. If she's really interested, she will come out of pocket for whatever activity next time.

I used to spend mad money going on multiple dates with a chick, paying for everything and still not ending up with her in the end. Those days are over for me man.
first date should be somewhere low key like a coffee house or walk in the park.

first dinner date you should pay. after that its all variable. i try to arrange something like she'll pay for the movie and i'll pay for the drinks.

lately i been on some "i'll cook this time and you can cook next time" type shyt.​
 

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So what do the brehs think when it comes to going out on dates?

I think it's fine if the man sets up and pays for the first date, but after the first date, we should wait and see what the female offers to do for the next time. If she's really interested, she will come out of pocket for whatever activity next time.

I used to spend mad money going on multiple dates with a chick, paying for everything and still not ending up with her in the end. Those days are over for me man.

I'm different, i think first date do something like sit and talk By the waterfront. If its something that does cost money do something you enjoy whether it be golfing or bowling then if even if you even never Dee that broad again you enjoyed youeself .

Secondly on paying for dates nope.I'll pay for a date when we are in a relationship before hand nope.

That's why women have 3 dates a week and ish, knowing they don't have to spend a penny.

nikkas doing a movie and dinner spending like 60 bucks getting a hug at the end of the night and a your a great guy i just dont think we are compatible text the next morning



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I'm different, i think first date do something like sit and talk By the waterfront. If its something that does cost money do something you enjoy whether it be golfing or bowling then if even if you even never Dee that broad again you enjoyed youeself .

Secondly on paying for dates nope.I'll pay for a date when we are in a relationship before hand nope.

That's why women have 3 dates a week and ish, knowing they don't have to spend a penny.

nikkas doing a movie and dinner spending like 60 bucks getting a hug at the end of the night and a your a great guy i just dont think we are compatible text the next morning



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Word. I used to take them to Starbucks, but that got boring. Now for first dates, I meet them at the Riverfront downtown and take a stroll, kick it, see where her heads at. Nice, serene atmosphere, good convo, other couples are there - it's kinda "romantic". lol The breezies love it, plus it's free.

I only spend money on a chick only after I qualify her and after I hit it. Before that, it's musems, jazz clubs, happy hour for drinks - shyt like that may not cost much or anything at all especially if you do your homework.

What I look like taking a broad to Cheesecake Factory on a date, I get a peck on the cheek while she gets home and calls up another dude to tear that thang up?
 

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I disagree on that last part. They always come back. Whether its a girl to a guy, guy to a girl, that emotional bond will always be there and one way or another, moving on is very difficult to do.

What you're telling us is to be cold. Like someone said, women are wired cold and men aren't. The only way us dudes become cold is when we get fukked over which opens our eyes and snaps us in reality. Believe me, we all will soon learn the hard way.

Im not sayin be a colt,ruthless jerk.Im sayin its a cold world out there.Put your emotions,share you heart and all that will end up coming back and haunting you.Dont be cold,be careless when it comes to women.The more you care,the more you get hurt.If you call and she doesnt pick up.....*bushes* she ignores your text for days *bushes*. She doesnt show on a date *bushes*. Dont second guess anything.Lke I said its like a job.Once they fire you,lay you off they dont call you back months later saying "We want you back".Yes with women its emotional,but once you cut the tie it should be a wrap.
 

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So what do the brehs think when it comes to going out on dates?

I think it's fine if the man sets up and pays for the first date, but after the first date, we should wait and see what the female offers to do for the next time. If she's really interested, she will come out of pocket for whatever activity next time.

I used to spend mad money going on multiple dates with a chick, paying for everything and still not ending up with her in the end. Those days are over for me man.

I disagree in the if she is interested she will come out of pocket part. Some girls need to feel wanted and even if they are interested they aren't going to go out of pocket

What I generally do though is first date or two is something free like walk in the park and/or something not expensive at all, just like getting coffee, which you should pay. Then pay for a dinner date or something, then after that switch it up and go half and half or something, don't be paying for everything all the time.
 

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Most women do not even know what love is, blurting it off after a few good dates, or after sex etc.

I've probably had like 10 women in my life tell me they loved me, I remember getting texts after first dates how they never felt this way before and two weeks in professing their love.

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