Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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why does that matter? i just told you some real shyt




nikka you STILL won't be happy..you rollin over each morning just to see some walrus looking bytch laying next to you gotta be hell..

and you got control issues.."fully cooperating"??..:childplease::heh:

you betta find some asian bytch that haven't been exposed to american life yet then..
Happiness is not external. You will not find happiness outside yourself as a testament look at all the rich celeb drug addicts like say Charlie Sheen that fukk dimes and live in chaos. A dime isnt gonna make you happy you'll make you happy.
 

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Though I just said I'm a pure student to the game and have been soakin up everything I've read because I desperately need to, I'm still going to attempt to contribute some wisdom to this great thread.

Basically, if ANYTHING is bothering you - whether it's a minor annoyance, something you feel is disrespectful, mixed signals, ANYTHING....attack that shyt and nip it at the bud immediately. The faster you get that shyt dealt with, the faster you will gain their respect and the less bullshyt you'll have to deal with from them in the future. Let them know ASAP what they can and CANNOT get away with.

Don't let ANYTHING that gets in the way of your overall happiness as a man go unaddressed if you can help it. This applies not only to potential girlfriends, wives, side girls, etc, but to family and friends(women or not) as well.

The primary thing to understand here is that if the person truly loves and respects you that they will be receptive to whatever problem you have with them. If they aren't? Charge it to the game. fukk em. You don't need anyone in your life who isn't going to respect and love you enough to listen to your grievances and adjust accordingly(as long as your grievances are fair).

Here is a perfect example. Yesterday I hit up my cousin and decided to hang out with her for the day. We are both going through similar things in life - heartbreak over ending things with a loved one, attachment issues, etc - and I figured as family it would be a good idea to link up and support each other you know? Not necessarily talk about the shyt, but just be a good distraction for each other - video games, tv, etc.

The minute I show up at her house she is CONSTANTLY looking at her phone and texting. We're gaming and she would put her controller down in the middle of it to text. We're watching TV and I'd point out something and she wouldn't even notice it because she's texting, etc, etc.

Now, the old me would've been a bytch ass nikka and not said anything, but not the new Versa. Not the Alpha male in training. I love my cousin with all my heart. She's like a sister to me, but who the fukk does she think she is wasting the time I put it aside SPECIFICALLY to chill with her by texting some nikkas all day and making me the secondary focus?

I told her the shyt was disrespectful as fukk and that it pissed me off greatly. She was caught off guard because I'm normally a chill ass dude(see here: bytch ass nikka), but she was receptive to what I told her and I can guarantee you she won't be doing the shyt again.

She actually tried to pull some shyt about me having done it before months ago when we were at the mall, but that's her fukking fault for not bringing it up then like I did with her yesterday. Don't ever let them guilt trip you or play the role of victim. Be focused and know what you want at all times.

You can't be afraid to nip disrespect and pretty much anything that annoys you at the bud. My cousin ain't going nowhere, and neither would a girlfriend, wife, whatever that's truly worth my time and energy. If anything you'll be more attractive to those girls you seek to fukk.

I don't let shyt fly with ANYONE anymore - my homies, my mother, my family, potential smashes, whatever. No one's happiness is being placed above my own anymore. If you're affecting my mood in a negative way you will certainly know about the shyt. How I look being low key salty about it and letting it continue to eat away at me while everything is all good at their end?

This is probably common sense for most people, but it wasn't for me, so I hope this helps somebody.

You are really getting the hang of it. ALWAYS be a man of value. If the person you are dealing with isn't either trying to improve themselves and raise themselves to your level or to bring any value to the table, don't deal with them. One of the most powerful elements you have is choice. When you come to the realization that you don't NEED a woman, your decision making becomes much more powerful. Instead of accepting women just so you 'won't be lonely', you'll only accept women who are team players and bring something to the table. Very few things can disturb the tranquility in your life like bringing the wrong woman in, while the right one can greatly enhance it.

Sometimes it feels like dealing with some of these women is like dealing with a little kid. You come at them respectable, might take them to dinner, and they sit on that cell phone, just completely oblivious to having any manners. If they act like animals and keep on coming around without any respect, the simple solution is to stop dealing with them. If she ain't here to bring you joy, she ain't here to bring you anything.

Even in your dealing with your cousin, you did the right thing. Sometimes the other person doesn't know, so you have to tell them. Now after you've told them and they keep doing it, it shows a disregard for your time, and as a man of value, you do not deal with those who do not value you.
 

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I've been a long time visitor/member of SOHH + The Coli and I have to say that no thread has been more valuable, informative and awe inspiring than this one for me.

I'm 22 years old and just broke things off with a girl I've been in love with since I was 12...absolutely in love brehs. The level of simping I had to do just for this girl to have sex with me is so embarrassing I can't even repeat it ya'll.

I messed up so bad with her in so many facets that it's pathetic, but with the rediscovering of my self worth, my personal goals and ambitions being my top priority again, AND THE GREAT INFORMATION IN THIS THREAD, I know I'm gonna bounce back. Things have been really tough for me and I admit I am still heartbroken and sad, but reading the 80+ pages of pure truth in this thread has ignited a fire in me. I'm ready to dominate. I'm ready to be an Alpha.

Outside of the "16 Rules of Poon" which is a must have for any male, I copied and pasted well over 40 pieces of advice and tips from you guys. Shamelessly got that shyt saved as a word document. I'm late to the party, but I'm finally truly beginning to understand the game, how to play, and most importantly HOW TO WIN.

God bless ya'll for this gem of a thread. This is the type of stuff that will change lives for the better. No exaggeration. Young nikkas need this type of thread - especially those with no father figures and/or friends who continuously give horrible advice.

daps breh :lawd:


btw I am not a alpha male

i'm a anti social person who could live like a recluse or hermit cut off from society if need be. I'm just a person who no longer cares how a woman views me, I wear what I want, drive what I want and do what I want. I don't waste my money on material things anymore, I don't club or bar hop or drink alcohol or smoke.

Yet I've had more experience with women of all different cultures and nationalities than most people, i've been engaged, I've been the nice guy doormat, i've been the a$$hole, i've been the a$$hole with the nice guy vibe inside. I've slept with models, I've slept with chubbies :flabbynsick:, i've been cheated on, i've simped, i've had girls cried and poured out their heart to me how they "love me" only to be cold and unemotionally. I've gained my wisdom and experience through life lessons, reading countless books, essays, blogs, listening, talking to other men, other women, reading relationship forums, soaking up information. I've even dated girls just to see how being a pos a$$hole would take me and it took me far :why:

I can literally read any women, and I know what they are going to do before they do it at this point, smf the funny thing is once i stopped caring to impress any chick that's when they come out the woodwork, i don't give women attention, i don't care how "beautiful" they are. I could make 10 bucks a hour ( i dont i make more, just saying) and be happy and live comfortably for the rest of my life and be happy, i'll keep my corolla till its rusty and doesn't work anymore, I don't care about buying a new car ( i can) just to impress some chicks.

A few years ago i was messing with this dime, but she did not liked that i was unavailable on saturdays and sundays due to college football, church and nfl, well you know what i chose?

The funny thing is i've been labeled as bitter, a troll, when nope, this is how I am, and women are always shocked when they read my views and then see how I look, expecting some fat smelly man who can't get laid.

Women can't seem to fathom that I could be happy without being in a relationship, or having them in my life, but oh yes I am. Now do I hate women? nope, am I gay? nope

There are great quality women out there, but they are so few and rare. And if I am not blessed with one of them, I am perfectly content living this way till I die.
 

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Basically anyone who has some spare time or a desire to read a book should do themselves a huge favor and check out The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. That shyt is the true red pill. You'll never look at women the same way again.

What the book does is clearly and concisely expose the notion that women are "victims" and "powerless in a man's society" for what it is, the biggest fukking fraud in the history of humanity. It points out all the numerous privileges that women have and all the ways in which men are victimised. It completely smashes the feminist rhetoric to pieces.

That shyt was so etherous that to this day, 40 fukking years after the fact, that woman is still recieving death threats. I literally cannot believe that a woman wrote that book. They should have her face on every fukking bill in existence.

Here you can read a bit about the book:The Manipulated Man - Esther Vilar - Why are women never unmasked?

I reiterate: do yourself a huge favor and pick up this book ASAP. Knowing the truth about women will set you free from their grasp.
 

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Basically anyone who has some spare time or a desire to read a book should do themselves a huge favor and check out The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. That shyt is the true red pill. You'll never look at women the same way again.

What the book does is clearly and concisely expose the notion that women are "victims" and "powerless in a man's society" for what it is, the biggest fukking fraud in the history of humanity. It points out all the numerous privileges that women have and all the ways in which men are victimised. It completely smashes the feminist rhetoric to pieces.

That shyt was so etherous that to this day, 40 fukking years after the fact, that women is still recieving death threats. I literally cannot believe that a women wrote that book. They should have her face on every fukking bill in existence.

Here you can read a bit about the book:The Manipulated Man - Esther Vilar - Why are women never unmasked?

I reiterate: do yourself a huge favor and pick up this book ASAP. Knowing the truth about women will set you free from their grasp.


yep

as well the predatory female
pdf
http://www.revolucionantifeminista..../06/lawrence-shannon-the-predatory-female.pdf

pdf of manipulated man
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf



both these books opened my eyes immensely
 

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can i borrow her,friend






sharing is caring thats what friends do,friend :bryan:

Now you're being disrespectful and i dont like that. No you cant borrow her. She is mine. It is difficult to find an woman in America who cooks, cleans, obeys and is attractive to me. I am blessed and hopefully one day, you can be blessed too, friend.

The problem with being young is your mind is focused on the conquest of sex and this one track mind will often lead you into peril with women. You will merge with a woman, you will develop affections for her and then you will attempt to squeeze water out of a rock by attempting to have her obey, cook and clean for you. Women are not Koolaid packets so you cannot add water, stir and expect an enjoyable sugary beverage friend. You have to look at the ingredients on the package before you open it up because you never know what flavor you are going to get. Its so demonic, friend. :sitdown:
 

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'Tis no fun if the brethren can't partake.:youngsabo:

Do you know who said that lyric, Nate Dogg. Did you know that Nate Dogg was lying, friend? You should really stop using rappers as your reference point to reality. This is a folly that many friends think in their minds but have trouble actually incorporating into reality, because it isnt natural. Let me share an editorial with you about the man you quote so passionately, friend.

Nate Dogg, a vocalist who brought g-funk harmonies to West Coast gangsta rap, was arrested Saturday on suspicion of kidnapping, abusing and making terrorist threats against his 26-year-old girlfriend, as well as burning her car.

The incident, which ended with a confrontation with the Los Angeles County SWAT team, was one of two recent situations in which members of the Up in Smoke rap tour tangled with police.

One day earlier, a passenger on a tour bus, reportedly belonging to rapper Snoop Dogg, was cited for marijuana possession by border-patrol officers in Temecula, Calif. Authorities did not cite the rapper, who was not on the bus, according to Sgt. Perri Feinstein-Portales of the Riverside County Sheriff's Department.

Nate Dogg (born Nathaniel Dwayne Hale) was released Sunday night after posting $1 million in bail, according to Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department spokesperson Deputy Rick Martinez. Monday afternoon, a spokesperson for the Los Angeles District Attorney's Office, who asked not to be named, said no information was available about a court date for Nate Dogg.

The 30-year-old has been performing with his cousin Snoop Dogg and associate Dr. Dre on the Up in Smoke tour.

A publicist at MSO, which handles press for the tour, declined to comment. The series is scheduled to stop Monday (June 19) in San Jose.

Judges often ask suspects in such cases to remain within the county, so it's possible that Nate Dogg will be prohibited from traveling with the rappers, Martinez said.

According to police and newspaper reports, the charges stem from a confrontation between Nate Dogg and his girlfriend, whose name has been withheld by police.

Police say that at about 2 a.m. Saturday, Nate Dogg kidnapped the woman from a Lakewood, Calif., residence and drove her to another residence in downtown Los Angeles, according to Lt. Joe Impellizero from the Lakewood station of the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department.

During that trip, the couple quarreled and the singer threatened to burn the woman's mother's house, said Impellizero. Later Saturday morning, the woman, 26, contacted police from a Los Angeles house. Police found her car burned outside of her mother's house.

Saturday morning, a SWAT team coaxed Nate Dogg from his house in a posh Pomona, Calif., neighborhood. The rapper surrendered to police without incident, Impellizero said.

The Ontario, Calif., Inland Valley Daily Bulletin reported that Nate Dogg allegedly beat the woman and used a gun to kidnap her. The newspaper also reported that the woman has an emergency restraining order against Nate Dogg.

Those and other details surrounding the incident are unclear, Impellizero said. "That aspect is a little muddied," he said.

The woman also gave police conflicting versions of her ordeal, Impellizero said.

She told an ABC affiliate TV station that she recently broke up with Nate Dogg after a seven-year relationship, the Daily Bulletin reported.

"I knew that the day that he actually realized it was over, that he was gonna hurt me," the woman told the TV station.

The Up in Smoke tour, billed as an N.W.A reunion, features many artists who are relatives or close friends of Dr. Dre and Snoop Dogg. The lineup includes former N.W.A members Ice Cube and M.C. Ren, Snoop collaborator Xzibit, Dr. Dre's half-brother Warren G and Dr. Dre protégé Eminem.

Nate Dogg has appeared on several West Coast rap hits, including "Regulate" (RealAudio excerpt) from Warren G's 1994 album Regulate ... G Funk Era and "All Bout U" from Tupac Shakur's 1996 album All Eyez on Me. The Los Angeles native's solo recording, G-Funk Classics, Vol. 1 &2, was released in 1998. "Xxplosive" (RealAudio excerpt), a cut from Dr. Dre's Dr. Dre 2001 that features Hitman, Kurupt, Nate Dogg and Six-Two, was at #57 last week on Billboard's Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Singles & Tracks chart.

During the border patrol incident Friday, Guillermo Stopani was arrested 85 miles outside Los Angeles and was issued a citation. He admitted that the 300 grams of marijuana the border patrol discovered during a routine search belonged to him, Portales said.

The Nate Dogg and tour bus incidents are the latest in a spate of legal problems for artists on the tour.

Eminem must routinely check in with Michigan authorities because he is awaiting trial for two unrelated incidents.

On June 4, police say the rapper pistol-whipped a man who kissed his wife outside a suburban Detroit bar. The Motor City rapper (born Marshall Bruce Mathers III) also faces weapons charges linked to an argument he had hours earlier with an associate of a rival rap group. Eminem's second major-label album, The Marshall Mathers LP, sold 1.76 million copies in its first week, a first for a solo artist and a rapper.




We dont love um though, friend? :leon:
 

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When I was a youngster, in my late teens, early 20s, I used to hang with some pimp dudes who gave me mad game and understanding how to deal with woman. For the mostpart, in my early 20s, I was drama free. I may have come across a few crazy girlfriends but I managed to keep them chicks in check. The reason I was able to do this was because I never allowed myself to love a chick more than I loved myself and I never allowed my vision to get cloudy.

But something happened, as I got closer to my 30s I started to realize that I didn't have any meaningful long term relationships. As much as I enjoyed the lifestyle I lived and my principles kept me out of trouble, I thought something was wrong with me. My partners were getting married while I had difficulties keeping a long term girlfriend. Yeah, I had bit*ches, but they had women who loved them (or I thought). From the outside looking in, other people's relationships look perfect, and makes you think this is something that you want.

I started to say "hey maybe my standards are too high, I'm being hard on these women, or maybe i'm just being an as*hole" So I switched it up, and developed some simp behaviors. You know, being very expressive emotionally and actually attempting to be the man that my woman wanted. In doing this I was able to have longer relationships and even got married, but there was a bigger price to pay.

Becoming unhappy in the process of making somebody else happy. These principles were put in place for us to keep our sanity and value our happiness over everybody elses. My wife mistook my niceness for a weakness overtime and started to push the envelope. And in due time, I snapped out of the simp zone and went back to the principles. And when I started pushing back becoming the alpha male that I was in my early 20s, my wife was upset claiming that I changed on her. See, because I was acting like a simp when I met her, the type of woman I attracted was one who would take advantage of me. She didn't like the new old me, and in a few months we separated. Luckily I was only married for 2 years before I saw the light. Some dues stay in bad relationships forever and never have the balls to leave because she has them in her purse.

So when I look back at all the women I discarded, I feel no regret. They didn't stay because they didn't meet the standards. Nowadays, I stick firmly to the principles and now I am confident that all of the women that are in my circle are supposed to be there.

Never ever simp. It only provides immediate gratification, but long term problems.
 
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