Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
Only deal with selfless women who never have a mean thing to say about someone and if they do they apologize before saying it.
unicorn status.where they do that at
Only deal with selfless women who never have a mean thing to say about someone and if they do they apologize before saying it.
Happiness is not external. You will not find happiness outside yourself as a testament look at all the rich celeb drug addicts like say Charlie Sheen that fukk dimes and live in chaos. A dime isnt gonna make you happy you'll make you happy.why does that matter? i just told you some real shyt
nikka you STILL won't be happy..you rollin over each morning just to see some walrus looking bytch laying next to you gotta be hell..
and you got control issues.."fully cooperating"??..
you betta find some asian bytch that haven't been exposed to american life yet then..
Though I just said I'm a pure student to the game and have been soakin up everything I've read because I desperately need to, I'm still going to attempt to contribute some wisdom to this great thread.
Basically, if ANYTHING is bothering you - whether it's a minor annoyance, something you feel is disrespectful, mixed signals, ANYTHING....attack that shyt and nip it at the bud immediately. The faster you get that shyt dealt with, the faster you will gain their respect and the less bullshyt you'll have to deal with from them in the future. Let them know ASAP what they can and CANNOT get away with.
Don't let ANYTHING that gets in the way of your overall happiness as a man go unaddressed if you can help it. This applies not only to potential girlfriends, wives, side girls, etc, but to family and friends(women or not) as well.
The primary thing to understand here is that if the person truly loves and respects you that they will be receptive to whatever problem you have with them. If they aren't? Charge it to the game. fukk em. You don't need anyone in your life who isn't going to respect and love you enough to listen to your grievances and adjust accordingly(as long as your grievances are fair).
Here is a perfect example. Yesterday I hit up my cousin and decided to hang out with her for the day. We are both going through similar things in life - heartbreak over ending things with a loved one, attachment issues, etc - and I figured as family it would be a good idea to link up and support each other you know? Not necessarily talk about the shyt, but just be a good distraction for each other - video games, tv, etc.
The minute I show up at her house she is CONSTANTLY looking at her phone and texting. We're gaming and she would put her controller down in the middle of it to text. We're watching TV and I'd point out something and she wouldn't even notice it because she's texting, etc, etc.
Now, the old me would've been a bytch ass nikka and not said anything, but not the new Versa. Not the Alpha male in training. I love my cousin with all my heart. She's like a sister to me, but who the fukk does she think she is wasting the time I put it aside SPECIFICALLY to chill with her by texting some nikkas all day and making me the secondary focus?
I told her the shyt was disrespectful as fukk and that it pissed me off greatly. She was caught off guard because I'm normally a chill ass dude(see here: bytch ass nikka), but she was receptive to what I told her and I can guarantee you she won't be doing the shyt again.
She actually tried to pull some shyt about me having done it before months ago when we were at the mall, but that's her fukking fault for not bringing it up then like I did with her yesterday. Don't ever let them guilt trip you or play the role of victim. Be focused and know what you want at all times.
You can't be afraid to nip disrespect and pretty much anything that annoys you at the bud. My cousin ain't going nowhere, and neither would a girlfriend, wife, whatever that's truly worth my time and energy. If anything you'll be more attractive to those girls you seek to fukk.
I don't let shyt fly with ANYONE anymore - my homies, my mother, my family, potential smashes, whatever. No one's happiness is being placed above my own anymore. If you're affecting my mood in a negative way you will certainly know about the shyt. How I look being low key salty about it and letting it continue to eat away at me while everything is all good at their end?
This is probably common sense for most people, but it wasn't for me, so I hope this helps somebody.
unicorn status.where they do that at
I've been a long time visitor/member of SOHH + The Coli and I have to say that no thread has been more valuable, informative and awe inspiring than this one for me.
I'm 22 years old and just broke things off with a girl I've been in love with since I was 12...absolutely in love brehs. The level of simping I had to do just for this girl to have sex with me is so embarrassing I can't even repeat it ya'll.
I messed up so bad with her in so many facets that it's pathetic, but with the rediscovering of my self worth, my personal goals and ambitions being my top priority again, AND THE GREAT INFORMATION IN THIS THREAD, I know I'm gonna bounce back. Things have been really tough for me and I admit I am still heartbroken and sad, but reading the 80+ pages of pure truth in this thread has ignited a fire in me. I'm ready to dominate. I'm ready to be an Alpha.
Outside of the "16 Rules of Poon" which is a must have for any male, I copied and pasted well over 40 pieces of advice and tips from you guys. Shamelessly got that shyt saved as a word document. I'm late to the party, but I'm finally truly beginning to understand the game, how to play, and most importantly HOW TO WIN.
God bless ya'll for this gem of a thread. This is the type of stuff that will change lives for the better. No exaggeration. Young nikkas need this type of thread - especially those with no father figures and/or friends who continuously give horrible advice.
Basically anyone who has some spare time or a desire to read a book should do themselves a huge favor and check out The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. That shyt is the true red pill. You'll never look at women the same way again.
What the book does is clearly and concisely expose the notion that women are "victims" and "powerless in a man's society" for what it is, the biggest fukking fraud in the history of humanity. It points out all the numerous privileges that women have and all the ways in which men are victimised. It completely smashes the feminist rhetoric to pieces.
That shyt was so etherous that to this day, 40 fukking years after the fact, that women is still recieving death threats. I literally cannot believe that a women wrote that book. They should have her face on every fukking bill in existence.
Here you can read a bit about the book:The Manipulated Man - Esther Vilar - Why are women never unmasked?
I reiterate: do yourself a huge favor and pick up this book ASAP. Knowing the truth about women will set you free from their grasp.
I have a woman like this. I do not say this to brag friend but i do say this to let you know that dreams do come true.
can i borrow her,friend
sharing is caring thats what friends do,friend
can i borrow her,friend
sharing is caring thats what friends do,friend
'Tis no fun if the brethren can't partake.