Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ineedsleep212]

I can forever listen to Patrice Oneal talk about anything.

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW9ySaJO4K4[/ame]

*realized I just stole this post from a recent thread *

 

[bigbadbossup2012]

So many men just have a massive ego and they believe that weak game chicks ran on them, so they actually think they are being 'insecure' when they check what their woman is doing. "Nah man, I got that swag. I don't need to worry about my woman is doing because I'm CONFIDENT in myself and I lay it down RIGHT. I don't trip at letting my girl go to the club because I'm not trying to handcuff her!" I can go on and on, but cats think they have this unbelievable game that just has their woman entranced, but they end up looking on her facebook or twitter one day out of sheer curiosity and find out a whole different story.

Real talk. People get insecurity mixed up with wisdom and being intelligent. Aint no bytch of mine going to no club PERIOD. Not cause i'm shook,but what's the point. At clubs,people drink ,dance and holla. Why does my woman need to be bumping and grinding with some nikka. If that's what she wants,we might as well be friends wit benefits. nikkaz gotta use common sense. nikkas be letting they girl have male friends.... I've been the male friend before,my bytch dont need no male friends.


nikkas dont understand that a bytch can cheat for various reasons:

She could be a outright cum freak/slut
She could be getting totally shytted on or ignored by her significant other/dissatisfied even if he means well
Or she could be so weak where as some nikka could actually intimidate/peer pressure her into coming off that head/p*ssy. She could have a good relationship,be happy etc and be in certain circumstances that allow this to happen. She might regret it etc,but it still would have happened. Game is that real.
All a nikka can really do is be as smart as possible and turn a blinds eye to nothing. Understand how things connect. understand your bytch's perception of you and ya'll relationship. And your assessment cant be ego based. It has to be like an outside surveyor of the game as a whole. Her life,stature,history etc and yours. But you need real wisdom to have a realistic perception of this.

Like ten years ago i worked with this fat white chic. We were in our early 20's. She had a 3 yr old and was married to some out of shape white boy,whom was already 50% bald in his late 20's. The kid was not his. She used to be at work walking past caressing a nikka and we sat right next to each other. Now i never pursued her cause i didnt see any value in her.
But my point is he thinks she agreed to marry him cause it was love and they had a beautiful thing. But really he was just the simp,there to help her raise the kid. Deep down she wanted a young fly nikka to fukk her,she aint wanna settle for him. But business is business.
My point is nikkas gotta always peep a bytch motives. And only get in relationships based off a bytch jocking THEM and putting in consistent effort to make a nikka happy,then maybe they let the ho be down. BUT NEVER SWEAT A HO AND MAKE THE NOTION OF HAVING HER,BE SOME TYPE OF GOAL.

 

[Kartel13]

Brehs, Lets say you found the perfect woman for you but then you found out that she got raped by 2 men a few years back. Would you charge her to the game because she got raped?

You'll probably have the best sex in your life. But be cautious. I dealt with a chick that hinted of being abused. First time we had sex, she started crying talking about she's not like that. Hell, she wanted to give me head the second time we went out.

But her emotional baggage started to show up afterwards.

My advice, if you want to know how mentally stable she, go out for some drinks and get her buzzed. You'll see how stable she is. That's how I found out the girl I was dealing with was a mess. She'd act crazy when she's drunk and always bring up her ex.

 

[kevm3]

Real talk. People get insecurity mixed up with wisdom and being intelligent. Aint no bytch of mine going to no club PERIOD. Not cause i'm shook,but what's the point. At clubs,people drink ,dance and holla. Why does my woman need to be bumping and grinding with some nikka. If that's what she wants,we might as well be friends wit benefits. nikkaz gotta use common sense. nikkas be letting they girl have male friends.... I've been the male friend before,my bytch dont need no male friends.


nikkas dont understand that a bytch can cheat for various reasons:

She could be a outright cum freak/slut
She could be getting totally shytted on or ignored by her significant other/dissatisfied even if he means well
Or she could be so weak where as some nikka could actually intimidate/peer pressure her into coming off that head/p*ssy. She could have a good relationship,be happy etc and be in certain circumstances that allow this to happen. She might regret it etc,but it still would have happened. Game is that real.
All a nikka can really do is be as smart as possible and turn a blinds eye to nothing. Understand how things connect. understand your bytch's perception of you and ya'll relationship. And your assessment cant be ego based. It has to be like an outside surveyor of the game as a whole. Her life,stature,history etc and yours. But you need real wisdom to have a realistic perception of this.

Like ten years ago i worked with this fat white chic. We were in our early 20's. She had a 3 yr old and was married to some out of shape white boy,whom was already 50% bald in his late 20's. The kid was not his. She used to be at work walking past caressing a nikka and we sat right next to each other. Now i never pursued her cause i didnt see any value in her.
But my point is he thinks she agreed to marry him cause it was love and they had a beautiful thing. But really he was just the simp,there to help her raise the kid. Deep down she wanted a young fly nikka to fukk her,she aint wanna settle for him. But business is business.
My point is nikkas gotta always peep a bytch motives. And only get in relationships based off a bytch jocking THEM and putting in consistent effort to make a nikka happy,then maybe they let the ho be down. BUT NEVER SWEAT A HO AND MAKE THE NOTION OF HAVING HER,BE SOME TYPE OF GOAL.

Exactly... fellas be out here letting a female convince them about something and following behind it thinking that that's game. Occasionally checking up on what your woman is doing is VERY SECURE, contrary to what a sneaky woman will tell you, because you realize you are way too fly to be giving your exclusivity and the benefits thereof to some broad that isn't being exclusive back.

As a man of value, your exclusivity should have VALUE. Cats allow the broad to be of higher value than them, which is why they accept relationships with women that are into the club, with 10,000 male homies and all that other nonsense. They are willing to keep that woman around by any means necessary.

Something that needs to be understood is a man has to get the type of woman that at least understands where he is coming from. The only criteria most men have before trying to wrap a woman up is that she is fine... they mistakenly believe that once they got her attention, they can just remold her and make her stop going to the club and all that other nonsense. As they say, you can't turn a ho into a housewife. You got to go get you a woman that's BUILT for being a housewife. Sure, you can knock some corners off here and there and give her knowledge of how you want her to handle things, but she has to have that desire of wanting to hold down her man down exclusively. Cats be out here trying to mold Mugsy Bogues or Nate Robinson into an NBA center. It won't work. They aren't built for that role. You got to find you a woman built for what role you have for her, and in order to see what she is about, you HAVE to get an impression of what she is doing when you are not around.

 

[Malikthegod]

This sums up perfectly what the homies kev and bbboss are talking about.

http://ia700703.us.archive.org/27/items/MackLessonsRadio389/macklessons389.mp3

 

[HarlemsOwn]

i been gettin bytches nikka

smashing nikkas hoes and all that

no fukks given

 

[MikelArteta]

Real talk. People get insecurity mixed up with wisdom and being intelligent. Aint no bytch of mine going to no club PERIOD. Not cause i'm shook,but what's the point. At clubs,people drink ,dance and holla. Why does my woman need to be bumping and grinding with some nikka. If that's what she wants,we might as well be friends wit benefits. nikkaz gotta use common sense. nikkas be letting they girl have male friends.... I've been the male friend before,my bytch dont need no male friends.


nikkas dont understand that a bytch can cheat for various reasons:

She could be a outright cum freak/slut
She could be getting totally shytted on or ignored by her significant other/dissatisfied even if he means well
Or she could be so weak where as some nikka could actually intimidate/peer pressure her into coming off that head/p*ssy. She could have a good relationship,be happy etc and be in certain circumstances that allow this to happen. She might regret it etc,but it still would have happened. Game is that real.
All a nikka can really do is be as smart as possible and turn a blinds eye to nothing. Understand how things connect. understand your bytch's perception of you and ya'll relationship. And your assessment cant be ego based. It has to be like an outside surveyor of the game as a whole. Her life,stature,history etc and yours. But you need real wisdom to have a realistic perception of this.

Like ten years ago i worked with this fat white chic. We were in our early 20's. She had a 3 yr old and was married to some out of shape white boy,whom was already 50% bald in his late 20's. The kid was not his. She used to be at work walking past caressing a nikka and we sat right next to each other. Now i never pursued her cause i didnt see any value in her.
But my point is he thinks she agreed to marry him cause it was love and they had a beautiful thing. But really he was just the simp,there to help her raise the kid. Deep down she wanted a young fly nikka to fukk her,she aint wanna settle for him. But business is business.
My point is nikkas gotta always peep a bytch motives. And only get in relationships based off a bytch jocking THEM and putting in consistent effort to make a nikka happy,then maybe they let the ho be down. BUT NEVER SWEAT A HO AND MAKE THE NOTION OF HAVING HER,BE SOME TYPE OF GOAL.

men letting their women go to bars, or to clubs etc. HELL NO., its like men these days are to scared to lay down the law incase their chick leaves

 

[Medio]

The other day I seen this baaad chick yo. I always see her around school but was always intimated to talk to her , probably like a lot of guys are. This chick is white I guess, from georgia (the country), perfect fat ass, perfect big t*ts, crazy body,crazy face, nice and thick. She seems like one of those girls that just go for rappers or ballplayers or something. I dubbed her the hottest girl on my campus a while ago. Anyways I seen her just chillin in a longue area at school and I was like yo just go talk to her, stop being a little bytch. So I manned up and just introduced myself, she was pretty cool, this chick had a 3.8gpa and was studying for the MCAT's, smart as hell and sexy as hell. It's funny cause from the outside view she seems so serious and intimidating. I made her converse and laugh a little and shyt, when to ask for her number but she said she had a boyfriend. It was whatever, I didn't care, that shyt was incredibly good for my confidence, she was the hottest chick I ever approached. There was other nikkas around grilling her too but too scared to talk to her unlike me.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

First of all if you dont want a woman who goes to the club,find a woman who isnt into the club.There is a fine line with this one fellas.Suppose you meet the one and if she had a bachelorette party and you found out,its gonna most likely mess with your physche (some wont admit it on here but yall know im speaking the truth).In other words if your girl wants to go to the club,either break up with her,or let her hang with her friends.Cause its gonna be a major issue down road especially if she is the one.There is a catch 22 with this one.Oh once they bring up the two magic words "double standard" your relatonship is a wrap. "Oh but you go out with your friends to the sports bar" etc. That women hanging with their girlfriends thing will cause you your relatonship and your marriage.How to avoid this is one simple word "timing".If babygirl comes back by 10 PM and is callin you every second while she is out with her friends she probably didnt enjoy herself.If she comes back by 2-3 in morning,its time to move on.Brothas if we use our minds more...and not flip we can win.

 

[Sharp]

Once you stop caring about what a woman thinks about you and want a woman wants, you will free yourself from the matrix.

The end result: To be you and to know that any woman that enters your circle genuinely loves and respects you for who you are

They feed us all this bullshyt about how we are supposed to cater to our women and make them happy. I don't jump through hoops for no woman. My only obligation to her is to keep it 100 with her and remain respectful.

It saddens me when I see dudes who's life and relationships revolve around a woman. If everything you do is for women, then what are you doing for yourself? What are you doing for yourself that makes you happy? If keeping a company of women is the only thing that makes you happy, then you have a bigger problem.

Make your own path and let these chicks follow you because chasing behind a woman is the same as allowing her to lead.... no bueno

 

[kevm3]

Cats that end up trying to please women always lose in the end. For one, you can never please a woman by appeasing her and giving her what she wants. She will always demand more and look down on you. Secondly, women just have some kind of sense. I don't know how they do it... but from what I noticed, women come in bunches. Right as I said I'm not going to think too much about women but will focus on improving different aspects of my life, they come into my life on some really feeling me tip. When you remove your focus from women is when they start to move their focus on you. The goal is not to please a woman, it's to lead a woman... the right woman that is.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Main key is to be yourself.Its like job interviews,people give the answers to the person interviewing based on what they think they want to hear. Cats act like that when it comes to women.They tell them what they want to hear instead of being themselves.Women arent rocket science.They either lke you for you or not at all.If they do good,if not forget em.

 

[DaRealness]

It's funny, in the club or wherever else it may be, you get like a hundred dudes sweating a chick like flies buzzing around a carcass, meanwhile she's looking over at the nonchalant dude on the other side who she knows sees her but couldn't really care less....all the while wondering what's wrong with her why this dude isn't thirsty like all the rest lol.

I don't know, but the more I see guys sweat a chick, the less likely I am to express any interest in her....and it's not even on some reverse psychology shyt either, it just puts me off the chick when I see it whether it's her fault or not.

 

[MikelArteta]

Cats that end up trying to please women always lose in the end. For one, you can never please a woman by appeasing her and giving her what she wants. She will always demand more and look down on you. Secondly, women just have some kind of sense. I don't know how they do it... but from what I noticed, women come in bunches. Right as I said I'm not going to think too much about women but will focus on improving different aspects of my life, they come into my life on some really feeling me tip. When you remove your focus from women is when they start to move their focus on you. The goal is not to please a woman, it's to lead a woman... the right woman that is.

its the same as when your looking for a job months go by and nothing then finally you get one interview then you get like 5 back to back, or you get aj ob offer and like 4 other job offers, the same with women your alone no one is checking for you, you suddenly dont care giving up dating for awhile etc. focusing on you, then poof suddenly a chick gets interested in you then a few more voila.

I've also noticed the same with exes, when you are finally over them and no longer care thats when they hit you up.

 

[DaRealness]

More examples to show that when women cheat, they're just nasty hoes who just want to get a nut and nothing more:

Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: I love dirty sex with a bad lad

I CAN’T stop bedding our neighbour from hell.

He’s a vicious, miserable sod and everyone in the street complains about him.

No-one is allowed to park their car near his house or make any noise because he starts a row and complains to the council.

But there is something about him that I find utterly irresistible.

He’s not attractive, charming or kind and he never pays me any compliments or cares about my orgasms.

I’m well aware that he uses me as much for sex as I do him.

But the minute my husband is out of the way I get this urge to creep around to his place for some grubby, loveless action.

I get horny just imagining how my Mr Nasty will throw me on his unmade bed and get stuck in.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I hate myself for being so base and weak yet these illicit trysts are the sexy stuff of my fantasies. They’re what I live for.

Recently, I attended a residents’ meeting as the council wants to pedestrianise the local high street and everyone’s against it.

My neighbour wasn’t at the meeting so everyone felt free to vent their anger with him.

People with kids and dogs, both of which he hates, were slagging him off all around me.

At one point the old lady who lives opposite looked at me in a “I know-your-secret” kind of way and I fled.

Now I’m terrified that I’m going to be named and shamed. The weird thing is that this bloke is the opposite of my husband. My fella hasn’t got a nasty bone in his body and would be disgusted if he realised that I was playing away from home with the most loathed man in the street.