Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

@rapbeats posted this in another thread had me like

esp the bolded parts

whoo these are some cold ones. and since i'm on #2 myself. i can cosign some of the bs. now i didnt find my ex cheating. cause i always told her. when we were gf and bf. "dont cheat and think i wont find out. i know EVERYONE from L.A. to the valley." and i will find out. i said the worse thing you can do is be doing to much not even gettin ya cheat on and get found out lookin like you might be doing something. low and behold that happened. random occurence. a friend of mine is in vegas with his gf(now his wife). his gf sees my ex(we were together at the time but she's the ex now). his gf only seen her once. they didnt hang out, barely met. coincidence? NOPE. thats God sending me and the ex warning shots. the wife was seen walking up and talking to this other dude. I knew as well. told her, i know everyone. i wasnt joking. so the i give my ex the quiz. where did you go? she was supposed to be hanging out In the city with her family. while i was off some where(barely remember, but i wasnt doing dirt or having fun). she finally makes up some nonsense story about why she was out there. blah blah blah. i started laughing at her. she got pissed. i said guess who saw you? i told her who. and i just gave her the
i said ya know we had this talk a long time ago. so no reason to cop pleas with me. i dont know what ya doin or what you trying to do. but bad things happen to those who play with fire. i tried to hold it down for the sake of keeping it biblical and for once keeping a black man and woman together. my goodness that never happens. i did my part she didnt do hers. and bam. wrap city. i told her when we were bf and gf. she asked me a random question. "if we broke up what do you think our lives would be like". i told her. you would probably end up running into the wrong dude and getting knocked up and left with a baby or two to raise. she was pissed. i explained to her. its not cause i thought she was DUMB. but i knew she knew nothing about relationships since i was the only 2nd real bf she had ever had in her childhood to adult hood life.

i was like you are clueless to the wolves out there and because you have this fairytale mentality you will get swept up by the wrong dude most likely. i hope it wouldnt go like that but thats probably how it would work. well after me and her split. she ends up pregos, and of course dude is out of there cause he has a few babies with a few babies mamas that he doesnt take care of. thats what he do. shortly after the split we still somewhat would talk once or twice a year. cause i forgave the chick a long time ago. she had a hard upbringing. so at the end of the day i gave her the pass. she had a tough moms teaching her the wrong things. at the end of the day you can run from DNA but you cant hide. it will come back to get you. hopefully you're strong enough to fight it off. and usually you're not without that Jesus help.

The lesson is. its life bruhs. it might happen to you. you might be the victim. or you my be the the cheater. or both of yall might cheat on each other. or neither of you may never cheat.

its a toss up. nothing is guaranteed in a world filled with sin. you're out here just trying to make it thru life. if you find someone to roll with while your in the matrix thats cool. if not, thats cool to. but dont try to fool yourself into believing flying solo is better then being married. its not. neither way is better then the other. its different for different people.

and dont lie to yourself to think you can be with a chick for a long time, shacked up and what not. but not married so if she cheats on you. it wont feel that bad. nonsense. if you with her that long. yall have been in them sheets with no condom on, and no pill. so at some point odds are she will end up pregos. and you will be stuck to some degree. nothing changes that unless you dont have sex. thats fine to if thats your choice. just dont be touchin little boys on the side.

 

[MikelArteta]

More examples to show that when women cheat, they're just nasty hoes who just want to get a nut and nothing more:

Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: I love dirty sex with a bad lad

I CAN’T stop bedding our neighbour from hell.

He’s a vicious, miserable sod and everyone in the street complains about him.

No-one is allowed to park their car near his house or make any noise because he starts a row and complains to the council.

But there is something about him that I find utterly irresistible.

He’s not attractive, charming or kind and he never pays me any compliments or cares about my orgasms.

I’m well aware that he uses me as much for sex as I do him.

But the minute my husband is out of the way I get this urge to creep around to his place for some grubby, loveless action.

I get horny just imagining how my Mr Nasty will throw me on his unmade bed and get stuck in.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I hate myself for being so base and weak yet these illicit trysts are the sexy stuff of my fantasies. They’re what I live for.

Recently, I attended a residents’ meeting as the council wants to pedestrianise the local high street and everyone’s against it.

My neighbour wasn’t at the meeting so everyone felt free to vent their anger with him.

People with kids and dogs, both of which he hates, were slagging him off all around me.

At one point the old lady who lives opposite looked at me in a “I know-your-secret” kind of way and I fled.

Now I’m terrified that I’m going to be named and shamed. The weird thing is that this bloke is the opposite of my husband. My fella hasn’t got a nasty bone in his body and would be disgusted if he realised that I was playing away from home with the most loathed man in the street.

its disgusting and revolting when you think of it the WORSE you treat alot of women out there the more you have them all over you.

I remember a few years ago i was a rotten person i will admit inside and out, i was treating people like crap, i had this chick eaten out of my hand basically. She'd suck me off in her car, we'd have sex whenever i want, she'd buy me gifts, drive me places, drive a hour in the rain, snow to come see me. I never called her, never text her, i went away to jamaica for a week and she was calling me long distance every day. She went away to mexico i didn't even text her or ask her how her trip was going.

she'd try and make me jealous by saying she went clubbing, how a bunch of guys tried talking to her, how she got complimented on her ass and i was like thats cool hope you had fun :mandela:, i remember she invited me to her friends party at some bar i went, she told me that guy over there tried to dance with me, and im like why didnt you :playoffs: .

anyways i think she got a man or something cuz contact ceased for like 2 months then one day out of the blue she calls me telling me shes pregnant then shes like haha i was just joking, i mentioned this before i actually drove down to her work and hid in my car like 3 months later to verify that she was joking

but yeah I changed my number or she would still be hitting up my phone, but this is the WORSE ever in my life i ever treated a broad, I never complimented, never spent a buck, some days when i was over at her grandma condo on the weekends just the two of us she would rub my dikk begging for sex and id be like im tired.

years later it still amazes me i treated this chick like a dog, like vermin yet she always came back.

but the women i cared about and loved

 

[kevm3]

That's why I don't really feel sorry for a lot of these single mothers crying about their loser daddies on facebook. They KNEW what kind of loser he was, but they still spread their legs for him over and over again. You want to be equal and respected for your intellectual prowess, well then make the RIGHT judgment. You KNEW the guy had 4 or 5 baby mommas but still let him pop one in you and now you are slandering his name when you knew what he was. I'm still putting these women in the background because the longer I peep the whole game, the more I realize how utterly nonsensical it is.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's why I don't really feel sorry for a lot of these single mothers crying about their loser daddies on facebook. They KNEW what kind of loser he was, but they still spread their legs for him over and over again. You want to be equal and respected for your intellectual prowess, well then make the RIGHT judgment. You KNEW the guy had 4 or 5 baby mommas but still let him pop one in you and now you are slandering his name when you knew what he was. I'm still putting these women in the background because the longer I peep the whole game, the more I realize how utterly nonsensical it is.

yep the funny thing is rarely do you hear the guy changed once th ebaby was born, the guy changed when i found out i was pregnant.

the guy was a loser before, wasn't around before, was a cheater, was broke before, but something about him tingled her.


the only single moms i feel sorry for are widows,

 

[Two Stacks]

^^^^^the thing about those widows is some of them may try to compare you their lost one....

forever.

 

[CrossBones]

its disgusting and revolting when you think of it the WORSE you treat alot of women out there the more you have them all over you.

I remember a few years ago i was a rotten person i will admit inside and out, i was treating people like crap, i had this chick eaten out of my hand basically. She'd suck me off in her car, we'd have sex whenever i want, she'd buy me gifts, drive me places, drive a hour in the rain, snow to come see me. I never called her, never text her, i went away to jamaica for a week and she was calling me long distance every day. She went away to mexico i didn't even text her or ask her how her trip was going.

she'd try and make me jealous by saying she went clubbing, how a bunch of guys tried talking to her, how she got complimented on her ass and i was like thats cool hope you had fun :mandela:, i remember she invited me to her friends party at some bar i went, she told me that guy over there tried to dance with me, and im like why didnt you :playoffs: .

anyways i think she got a man or something cuz contact ceased for like 2 months then one day out of the blue she calls me telling me shes pregnant then shes like haha i was just joking, i mentioned this before i actually drove down to her work and hid in my car like 3 months later to verify that she was joking

but yeah I changed my number or she would still be hitting up my phone, but this is the WORSE ever in my life i ever treated a broad, I never complimented, never spent a buck, some days when i was over at her grandma condo on the weekends just the two of us she would rub my dikk begging for sex and id be like im tired.

years later it still amazes me i treated this chick like a dog, like vermin yet she always came back.

but the women i cared about and loved

one fukked up thing I noticed with these messed up women out here, is that when men dog them, disrespect them, and pretty much just use these females - those chicks will come back. they will look for you and want that old thing back, especially when you barely give a fukk. the worse you are, the more they want it. you see even battered women try to find their abuser to "make it work"

you treat a woman decently, she may or may not try to come back to you afterwards. she may or may not be good or bad about the whole situation. you just never know.

you treat her like shes the end all be all, you simp, and she will come back ... but only to light your ass up. these women will seek the money, the kids, and to embarass this man. she will slide with someone close to him. talk all sorts of gossip about him. Ive seen trampy women really try to dog decent, hard working, SIMPIN men. I mean, they really come back with a wrath simps get it the hardest. women come back trying to bury those men, because they see them as weak. men, never forget that.

 

[kevm3]

Yep, women come to destroy the weak.

 

[CrossBones]

men, please stay out of the thirst traps. stay away from kissing ass online, stop gassing up every women with your facebook likes and instagram comments etc. if you really want to stand out, you approach women more directly anyway. like youre not impressed and putting her up higher than you. you dont go around the shyt and compliment her, thinking she will notice you and your goofy pick up/simping lines and bump you up to boyfriend status. if you want her, you get at her. not her pics.

dudes who sweat a woman, have the woman feeling like shes already "figured out this guy." she loses interest, its like she already conquered you. the thirst trap just eliminated another potential candidate, but it does lead to a new possible simp in her midst ...

when you dont pay them too much attention, give out excessive compliments, offer to buy her things and kiss her ass, she is more likely to wonder about you. be curious what youre about. have her be interested in you. its just game.

you follow her, youre going nowhere. you have her following you and thinking about you, you can change the whole face of the game. remember that. stay out of the thirst traps, my friends.

 

[CrossBones]

Yep, women come to destroy the weak.

that whole situation is disgusting. you see hard working men who made their life revolve around a woman trip up and eventually fail. they end up getting her full attention only when its from her anger.

women RESENT a weak man. they instinctively try to test and push men down just to see if they can. men, understand that they see the goodie two shoes, soft as butter, hopelessly in love man as a weakling. a tool to use. typically once a woman knows that shes not worth all that extra treatment, she starts to hate this man whos coming off as just too good for her. thats why she starts looking for the losers out there to just give it to her ass and to treat her like whatever.

like its in her blood to just shyt on the nicer man in order to wake him up and prove that shes no good. to show men to grow a spine and to protect his more cautiously. by now everybody needs to get the message, before we have more men snapping and breaking something hella bad on his s/o and the kids because shes trying to step on him and once more foil his attempts.

 

[Jason B]

@His Excellence Reincar, CrossBones: So much truth in your guys' posts. Now at this point in my life, I feel like I have an incentive to treat women poorly, I mean straight dogging them out with no remorse/conscience. The worse a dude treats a woman, the more respect he will get from her. Treating a woman with some decency, which is different from simping, is STILL equal to simping in the minds of women, which is the very same reason I am very dismissive of women complaining about certain guys treating them poorly because they have consistently shown that they love that type of treatment.

 

[Two Stacks]

this thread has taken me completely in the right direction. thanks breh...

i login FB to laugh now...at one female in particular. i dont comment on shyt no more i just look or read and go on with my day.

 

[Jason B]

Brehs, Lets say you found the perfect woman for you but then you found out that she got raped by 2 men a few years back. Would you charge her to the game because she got raped?

I absolutely would head the other direction. That is type of female that will kill a man while in a rage on some Jodi Arias shyt.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

We not sayin go and disrespect women. Cause on the otherhand there are some Jodi Arias and i forgot the name of the woman who was with Steve McNair that night.Got to be careful dealing with emotions,cause some women are downright ruthless.

 

[Jason B]

We not sayin go and disrespect women. Cause on the otherhand there are some Jodi Arias and i forgot the name of the woman who was with Steve McNair that night.Got to be careful dealing with emotions,cause some women are downright ruthless.

I get what you are saying about women who are possibly deranged mentally and emotionally. But respect is everything to me. In the past when I believed in treating men and women alike with decency/respect, women, moreso than men, would try to give shyt to me as well as any other dude who had this disposition while noticing that they showed a lot of respect all across the board to dudes who would flat out disrespect them. In my mind, I thought it was crazy but as years went on, I realized that it wasn't because I learned the hard way that women view men who exhibit any positive/respectful/decent towards them and others as weak/simpish even when a man is not weak/simpish.

So now, I look at things with the mindset of what is going to earn me the upmost respect from people, women especially. And I have come to the conclusion that treating women foul will garner that respect from them. Not saying it is morally right, but then again you will notice the most grimy, foul, disrespectful individuals are usually the most respected as opposed to those who try their best to do what is morally right by default. Therefore, it makes no sense for me to conduct myself in a manner that has proven to counterproductive in terms of garnering respect from women. Honestly, I feel that I will most likely have this mindset for the rest of my life based on all of the craziness I have seen so far and I cannot shake the feelings I have about this particular issue.

 

[CrossBones]

@His Excellence Reincar, CrossBones: So much truth in your guys' posts. Now at this point in my life, I feel like I have an incentive to treat women poorly, I mean straight dogging them out. The worse a dude treats a woman, the more respect he will get from her. Treating a woman with some decency is equal to simping. This is also the very same reason why I am very dismissive of women complaining about certain guys treating them poorly.

there is a difference between being decent to women, and to simp a woman (kissing her ass, letting her lead, buying her shyt just because or just because she asks you do). decency and simping arent the same thing. with some women I know thats not the case however, and they see a decent man as a weakling. someone to take advantage of. those are the biggest sluts, the loneliest women, the biggest losers in life, and the worse companions you can ever have. you just have to know them when you see them, and you can move accordingly. once you see what a womans about, its so much easier to treat them how they should be.

I would say that if you arent serious about being in a relationship (as she may have disqualified herself from being taken seriously), then all you have to do is let her know youre not with that shyt. youre not her man, youre not here to look out for her, you dont take her out, and whatever whatever. being upfront is the best way to be. and these women love it when a man calls his own shots.



see personally my thing now, is to access what a womans worth is to me is as I get to know her. if I know shes not about shyt, her life choices have been terrible, shes a slut, she cant keep up with me, or maybe shes always into excuses, then I will not be taking her serious at all. as men, we can never be courteous or nice to a woman of low value and who displays these come and go ways. no, not at all. learn to have a short patience and a strong upper hand. we lose that when we give it up and accept below standard behaviors.

also, all men have to fight that urge to prop up a rag doll. caping is dead.


if a woman can be fair, sensible, follow the lead and not play games, then I will continue to lead her and show her I am about what I say I am. I have standards that she has to be living up to, and those standards cannot break for anyone. she needs to be consistent with her good behavior so I can be the same for her.

its just that you learn in this game a woman of genuinely good qualities like that is rare, and you can never make a woman into that. she needs to have those qualities off top when you meet her, have her life together, and you need to be able to recognize those things when they show up.


what makes a man truly take control of his life is when he knows that no one can make him do what he doesnt want to do. now since a good woman is so hard to find, it makes you believe that you can never be good to any women. I would say just treat them like how they want to be treated. youre in charge, so remember that you wont play yourself out of pocket and treat the wrong girl the right way. once you see what she is and what she likes, you have the key to take it to the next level or to just dead it. thats control and that is power.


I know personally that I cant put a girl first and over me, I cant be playing their games, I cant trust without verification, I cant wife a slut, and Im not going to do shyt for no ho. women put themselves in the appropriate box all the time, its just us men who try to rewrite whats happening and make it what its not, that get tripped up. identifying who they are is the first step in avoiding their games.

I just make sure that I lead the way with my rules, and they either follow or fall off.