Let's get on a little more of this real talk here. Let's talk about life trajectories. This is especially important if you are a younger cat. You can sit around and spend all your time chasing women while foregoing your future, or you can build your foundation and have women chasing you.
If you take the former path, you will end up buying all of these clothes, all of this jewelry, all these colognes, buy some flashy car, etc. You will get a ton of attention from women for a short while, but as we said before, you won't own any of those vaginas. As soon as you get older and a new, young cat is on the scene flossing and getting all the attention, you're going to sit around with a bunch of old clothes, depreciating assets (old car) and items that vanished into the thin air (colognes). Where will all of those women go? They will disappear just like your money did. They will either be dating some other guy or get knocked up by some other fellow and you won't see them anymore. Or they will be chasing after the young dude who is shining and grinding, leaving you in the dust. You will have given up all of your money in exchange for 5 to 10 years of a fun time. When the fun is over, you will be in a sort of financial wasteland.
That isn't to say not to enjoy yourself and buy colognes here and there and a decent car, but do it all in MODERATION and make sure you live below your means. If you take the smart path, you will set a limit to how much you buy in clothes and colognes, you won't spend an excessive amount on jewelry, you won't buy an expensive car, etc. Why? Because most people don't realize how much money is going down the drain due to debt and a factor called compounding interest. You don't want to sit around being a wage slave with the bill man all over your back. You want to set your life up so you can life financially free. You can still pull top flight women as if you had taken the first choice, and it will benefit you in the long-run since you will have your business straight.
Stop trying to be a lil 'flash daddy' and spend all your money and resources trying to shine on everyone and to obtain a resource that you will never own-- aka that honeypot between a woman's legs. Have a stronger mind than that and be on your P's and Q's about your business, morals, principles, love for God, etc., and the women will come to you.
If you take the former path, you will end up buying all of these clothes, all of this jewelry, all these colognes, buy some flashy car, etc. You will get a ton of attention from women for a short while, but as we said before, you won't own any of those vaginas. As soon as you get older and a new, young cat is on the scene flossing and getting all the attention, you're going to sit around with a bunch of old clothes, depreciating assets (old car) and items that vanished into the thin air (colognes). Where will all of those women go? They will disappear just like your money did. They will either be dating some other guy or get knocked up by some other fellow and you won't see them anymore. Or they will be chasing after the young dude who is shining and grinding, leaving you in the dust. You will have given up all of your money in exchange for 5 to 10 years of a fun time. When the fun is over, you will be in a sort of financial wasteland.
That isn't to say not to enjoy yourself and buy colognes here and there and a decent car, but do it all in MODERATION and make sure you live below your means. If you take the smart path, you will set a limit to how much you buy in clothes and colognes, you won't spend an excessive amount on jewelry, you won't buy an expensive car, etc. Why? Because most people don't realize how much money is going down the drain due to debt and a factor called compounding interest. You don't want to sit around being a wage slave with the bill man all over your back. You want to set your life up so you can life financially free. You can still pull top flight women as if you had taken the first choice, and it will benefit you in the long-run since you will have your business straight.
Stop trying to be a lil 'flash daddy' and spend all your money and resources trying to shine on everyone and to obtain a resource that you will never own-- aka that honeypot between a woman's legs. Have a stronger mind than that and be on your P's and Q's about your business, morals, principles, love for God, etc., and the women will come to you.
I wouldnt recommend it. now I dont know the situation but its usually better to stay away from her and clear your head first. dont fall in the same trap twice 
