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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Thought I'd type this out on my phone before I head out the hotel. Not a biggie, but had my first bullshyt experience out here on the DR. Women are a trip. A couple of days ago, I was having lunch at this table that seats four people, just eating and minding my own business. Anyway, one of the waiters sat this woman on my table who couldn't find a seat. So she asked if anyone else was gonna be joining me at the table and I said no one else will be sitting down so she sat down on the other side. I didn't say anything else to her and vice versa, we both just ate our meals like strangers in silence. The thought of striking up convo did cross my mind for a fleeting moment, but I didn't bother in the end. I just finished my meal and bounced.

So yesterday after coming back from this outback safari trip, I went for a much needed swim at the beach. After about 10 minutes or so, I see the same woman who sat at my table the previous day from a little distance getting into the water too. She didn't swim though, she just got her legs wet. Anyway, I took a break from swimming and made my way over to my deck chair to do some reading. She saw me from a distance and came over to say hi and that she recognised me from the previous day at lunch. She then said "I wasn't too sure whether I should have said something over the table cos you didn't say anything." I just laughed it off and said I was gonna say something a first too, but it was no prob.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, we chatted for about 20 minutes or so about ourselves and she said she was out on vacation on her own and is here for two weeks and I told her its the same with me, but I leave next week a couple of days before her. She was clearly enjoying our conversation and seemed interested. I decided to take the initiative and ask if she waned to meet up for dinner at the main restaurant later that evening so we could just kick it. She said she was gonna meet up with a few people she met from Switzerland at dinner but that we can meet up at the bar for about 10pm and watch the regular show the hotel does. I agreed, but I could sense a tiny little bit of hesitancy. Anyway, later on that night I saw her coming into the main hall just as was leaving out as I already had my dinner. She asked me where I was sitting, but I told her I had just finished my meal just then her pals she was talking about waved to her, so I asked if we were still on for 10pm and she said yes.

So later, I head to the bar and she was a no show. I didn't really think much of it since I watch the lives shows there at nights and chop it up with folk anyway. She didn't turn at all, so I just KIM, hung out in the lounge checking my emails then bounced back to my room.

Saw her at breakfast earlier and she didn't say why she didn't show or even ask to sit together even though we both pretty much came in at the same time. Obviously I wasn't gonna press the matter, she jus said "see you around" and that was it.

These broads, man...one minute they're so keen and eager, initiating contact and shyt, then they just do a 180 like you did something wrong. Anyways......

:snoop: @ me feeling a little bit of a way about it but oh well, bout to head out to the complex and kick it with some locals.

She may have been married, was planning on cheating then got cold feet :patrice:
 

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going off the resort in a third world country is a very bad idea unless you're with an entourage of people.

that's what the resorts tell you to keep you in there and have you spend all your money with them.

i wouldn't suggest walking around drunk with lots of money or other valuable items on you, but other than that, the dr is pretty safe. people will try to con you, but that is about it. try to adapt, be respectful and don't draw too much attention to yourself and you're good.
 

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Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs :snoop:)

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:beli: Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs :blessed: :usure:
 

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Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs :snoop:)

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:beli: Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs :blessed: :usure:

Still :dead: at these hoes always having sons every single time ! :dead:

how old is the son btw?

and yeah I have come across broads like the one you mentioned before....it amazes me the brashness they have about how they admit they aren't worth anything....

that whole "testing guys" bullshyt pisses me off.......like they got a mental illness or something.....how do you act like shyt to someone in order to "test them".....

I notice more and more broads are doing this nowadays and they playing Russian roulette and they gonna fukk up eventually and see its too late to make amends.....

don't get me started on those bytches who shyt on certain guys and talk about how they "wanna be kept in check" ....like they got some mental issues ....

if the person you don't vibe with or they are not being the "man" in the relationship....then just move on without all the extra drama of talking shyt behind their back or emasculating them behind their back .....

and sticking with the dude just cause your attention hoe.....

treating everything like a spectacle......

not saying your that type of dude man.....just saying I cant stand that shyt they do.....

watch her get with some other dude......and start doing the SAME shyt she says she is sorry for and say something like @HabitualLineSteppa did a better job of keeping me in check bytch nikka!!!
























im telling you broads like that have some mental issues...... :salute: to dropping her though....cant keep these poisonous Rihanna type hoes in your business
 
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Still :dead: at these hoes always having sons every single time ! :dead:

how old is the son btw?

and yeah I have come across broads like the one you mentioned before....it amazes me the brashness they have about how they admit they aren't worth anything....

that whole "testing guys" bullshyt pisses me off.......like they got a mental illness or something.....how do you act like shyt to someone in order to "test them".....

I notice more and more broads are doing this nowadays and they playing Russian roulette and they gonna fukk up eventually and see its too late to make amends.....

don't get me started on those bytches who shyt on certain guys and talk about how they "wanna be kept in check" ....like they got some mental issues ....

if the person you don't vibe with or they are not being the "man" in the relationship....then just move on without all the extra drama of talking shyt behind their back or emasculating them behind their back .....

and sticking with the dude just cause your attention hoe.....

treating everything like a spectacle......

not saying your that type of dude man.....just saying I cant stand that shyt they do.....

watch her get with some other dude......and start doing the SAME shyt she says she is sorry for and say something like @HabitualLineSteppa did a better job of keeping me in check bytch nikka!!!
























im telling you broads like that have some mental issues...... :salute: to dropping her though....cant keep these poisonous Rihanna type hoes in your business
The son is 11...

Breh, you literally described this chick to damn near a T! :lawd: All that "man" talk, the drama, and the cherry on top: The blind justification of her actions and words used as ammunition to fire at me when things don't go her way. Funny thing is those bullets are blank...Loud bang but it's up to the man to realize he hasn't been shot ya know?

:salute:
 
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Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs :snoop:)

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:beli: Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs :blessed: :usure:
Lol you over there sounding bitter as fukk, you gotta be more stern man. Basically when she's asking why are you still talking to me it means "I fukked up, I don't deserve you, and I know I did you wrong." Which essentially means she dont respect your ass, she's just gonna try you again until you put her in check. Good thing is that the chick was dumb enough to admit that she wasn't shyt, but think of it this way she could of said "babe I see a lot in you too.." And you would of went around and around in the same cycle cause she has your emotions. Next time a girl asks that question either be brutally honest or just drop her because if you let her know that you see potential in her she gonna try and take advantage of you cause she has your emotions. Good thing you won this situation, but next time you're in one like this think logically and not emotionally cause when you gotta explain yourself to a bytch then you already got your emotions in a bunch.
Should of been like
She:why do you still with me?
You:Lalala I care about you (whatever you said)
She:but I ain't shyt
You:word, I'm out. Peace.
 

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Women have always had their 'nature' to deal with, but at least in the past, you at least were going to get SOMETHING to put up with their 'quirks.' You had to deal with that emotional stuff, but at one point they were taught to respect a man as the head of the household, and they could cook extremely well, kept the house clean, had a meal read for you when you came home, could sew, would iron your clothes... basically someone that really enhanced your life. They didn't have multiple tattoos everywhere, hair all the colors of the rainbow, 3 or 4 kids by different babydaddies, etc.

Pretty much the only thing you get NOW is hopefully someone that looks pretty for a few years and MAYBE someone that will cook and clean for you if are that high of a status in her mind. Some guys luck out and get that gem, but for those who don't, man, its rough. Now, you will also get someone who you will have to 'handle' and control because otherwise you will be looked at as weak... but all the while you are trying to control her, she will be resisting and testing you all the while. You will be having to deal with all of that emotionalism and nagging without any of the benefits. It's really just a headache man. I just find out how much more enjoyable life is just sitting back and playing a videogame in my freetime. I turn it on, enjoy myself, turn it off when I'm done and that's it. None of that nagging, complaining, playing these little games, etc.

Have you noticed we don't have a 'how to deal with friends gems' thread? You know why? Because dealing with friends is simple and it makes sense if you are of decent character. Come together, chill, roll to a few spots, get on that ps3, then be on your way. If you have a true friend, when the going gets tough, you got their back and they got yours, etc. It's simple and makes sense.

The fact that we have to have all of these pages for something that SHOULD be simple tells you everything you need to know. I'm not surprised seeing a lot more cats with a lot less tolerance for the nonsense.
 
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Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

i dont know the back story but it almost sounds like she was asking for your validation or mercy like she was trying to put the ball in your court with that comment. basically acknowledging it and asking you to save her in a sly way. like she was trying to give you a little opening to dictate your terms

thats actually a good thing if im interpreting it right even if it seems arrogant the way she tried to phrase it.
 

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to that habitual line stepper dude. when women ask u "why are you even with me?". that shoulda been strike infinity...if she has been a problem ever since yall got together.

when women say that they're pretty much telling u you're being taken for granted. i'm sure she cheated on u too. but i'm not too sure u have it in you to keep up this "i'm done with u" thing u got going on now.
 

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Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt :hmm:"

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs :snoop:)

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:beli: Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs :blessed: :usure:

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Was in the midst of arranging a Starbucks meeting with this female. Thoughts of my coli brehs and "relationship rules" invaded my mind when she said she had class at 3:30.

I got conflicted. :merchant: I'm sitting here like "Do I ask when her class ends? Do I just tell her when we're going to meet up?"

I asked when her class ended. Then I started thinking that I fukked up. "Will she not respect me now? :to:"

She tells me when her class ends and then I'm thinking, "should I put the ball in her court? Ask which time she would prefer?"

Then I thought, this is fukking stupid. If a question, or a statement, will dictate our dynamic then it ain't even worth it. I told her that it'd be smart for us to link up for coffee before her class starts, since she'll need an upsurge in energy. Instantly told myself that it doesn't matter if she's with it or not, because if ain't meant to go down, then it's not.

She responded positively.

Just felt like sharing, y'all.
 

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Was in the midst of arranging a Starbucks meeting with this female. Thoughts of my coli brehs and "relationship rules" invaded my mind when she said she had class at 3:30.

I got conflicted. :merchant: I'm sitting here like "Do I ask when her class ends? Do I just tell her when we're going to meet up?"

I asked when her class ended. Then I started thinking that I fukked up. "Will she not respect me now? :to:"

She tells me when her class ends and then I'm thinking, "should I put the ball in her court? Ask which time she would prefer?"

Then I thought, this is fukking stupid. If a question, or a statement, will dictate our dynamic then it ain't even worth it. I told her that it'd be smart for us to link up for coffee before her class starts, since she'll need an upsurge in energy. Instantly told myself that it doesn't matter if she's with it or not, because if ain't meant to go down, then it's not.

She responded positively.

Just felt like sharing, y'all.

Exactly. That's all there is to it. Trying to 'read what's on her mind' is a complete waste of time and there's nothing that she's offering that is so special that you have to concoct some exact strategy as to when to meet up with her that will 'please her' and 'win her over.' If she's digging you, you offer her a time and she will get with it and ya'll will roll from there. If she can't make it that early, she will tell you another time. If she's not feeling you, she will beat around the bush and play little games, which will give you the sign it's time to move on.
 

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sometimes persistence by a woman is nice... just seeing one that really wants to kick it with you

It's nice and there are a few other women interested but I may just hang with the older woman because all the others want a long term relationship and I'm not really feeling that right now. She won't tell me how old she is but she looks really good for someone in her I'm guessing mid to late 40s

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