Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thought I'd type this out on my phone before I head out the hotel. Not a biggie, but had my first bullshyt experience out here on the DR. Women are a trip. A couple of days ago, I was having lunch at this table that seats four people, just eating and minding my own business. Anyway, one of the waiters sat this woman on my table who couldn't find a seat. So she asked if anyone else was gonna be joining me at the table and I said no one else will be sitting down so she sat down on the other side. I didn't say anything else to her and vice versa, we both just ate our meals like strangers in silence. The thought of striking up convo did cross my mind for a fleeting moment, but I didn't bother in the end. I just finished my meal and bounced.

So yesterday after coming back from this outback safari trip, I went for a much needed swim at the beach. After about 10 minutes or so, I see the same woman who sat at my table the previous day from a little distance getting into the water too. She didn't swim though, she just got her legs wet. Anyway, I took a break from swimming and made my way over to my deck chair to do some reading. She saw me from a distance and came over to say hi and that she recognised me from the previous day at lunch. She then said "I wasn't too sure whether I should have said something over the table cos you didn't say anything." I just laughed it off and said I was gonna say something a first too, but it was no prob.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, we chatted for about 20 minutes or so about ourselves and she said she was out on vacation on her own and is here for two weeks and I told her its the same with me, but I leave next week a couple of days before her. She was clearly enjoying our conversation and seemed interested. I decided to take the initiative and ask if she waned to meet up for dinner at the main restaurant later that evening so we could just kick it. She said she was gonna meet up with a few people she met from Switzerland at dinner but that we can meet up at the bar for about 10pm and watch the regular show the hotel does. I agreed, but I could sense a tiny little bit of hesitancy. Anyway, later on that night I saw her coming into the main hall just as was leaving out as I already had my dinner. She asked me where I was sitting, but I told her I had just finished my meal just then her pals she was talking about waved to her, so I asked if we were still on for 10pm and she said yes.

So later, I head to the bar and she was a no show. I didn't really think much of it since I watch the lives shows there at nights and chop it up with folk anyway. She didn't turn at all, so I just KIM, hung out in the lounge checking my emails then bounced back to my room.

Saw her at breakfast earlier and she didn't say why she didn't show or even ask to sit together even though we both pretty much came in at the same time. Obviously I wasn't gonna press the matter, she jus said "see you around" and that was it.

These broads, man...one minute they're so keen and eager, initiating contact and shyt, then they just do a 180 like you did something wrong. Anyways......

:snoop: @ me feeling a little bit of a way about it but oh well, bout to head out to the complex and kick it with some locals.

was she fucckable? i get the impression she wanted u to invite her to your room. a woman vacationing by her self usually means a woman who wants to have wild anonymous sex. someone else was more aggressive than u and got to her before u did. she acted strange cause she got her fill (of another man) from the night before.
 

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You probably just came off desperate and lonely. With a lot of women they can come onto you and you can ask them out first time and they'll say yes then ditch you. She stays at your hotel no reason to ask her ass out to dinner like you gotta wine and dine her especially in the DR. I would of just kept it casual, especially when you in the DR, you over there trying to take resort hoes who kick it with random Swiss's to dinner and shyt. Could of kept your ass home and met random hoes at Starbucks if that were the case.
 

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Thought I'd type this out on my phone before I head out the hotel. Not a biggie, but had my first bullshyt experience out here on the DR. Women are a trip. A couple of days ago, I was having lunch at this table that seats four people, just eating and minding my own business. Anyway, one of the waiters sat this woman on my table who couldn't find a seat. So she asked if anyone else was gonna be joining me at the table and I said no one else will be sitting down so she sat down on the other side. I didn't say anything else to her and vice versa, we both just ate our meals like strangers in silence. The thought of striking up convo did cross my mind for a fleeting moment, but I didn't bother in the end. I just finished my meal and bounced.

So yesterday after coming back from this outback safari trip, I went for a much needed swim at the beach. After about 10 minutes or so, I see the same woman who sat at my table the previous day from a little distance getting into the water too. She didn't swim though, she just got her legs wet. Anyway, I took a break from swimming and made my way over to my deck chair to do some reading. She saw me from a distance and came over to say hi and that she recognised me from the previous day at lunch. She then said "I wasn't too sure whether I should have said something over the table cos you didn't say anything." I just laughed it off and said I was gonna say something a first too, but it was no prob.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, we chatted for about 20 minutes or so about ourselves and she said she was out on vacation on her own and is here for two weeks and I told her its the same with me, but I leave next week a couple of days before her. She was clearly enjoying our conversation and seemed interested. I decided to take the initiative and ask if she waned to meet up for dinner at the main restaurant later that evening so we could just kick it. She said she was gonna meet up with a few people she met from Switzerland at dinner but that we can meet up at the bar for about 10pm and watch the regular show the hotel does. I agreed, but I could sense a tiny little bit of hesitancy. Anyway, later on that night I saw her coming into the main hall just as was leaving out as I already had my dinner. She asked me where I was sitting, but I told her I had just finished my meal just then her pals she was talking about waved to her, so I asked if we were still on for 10pm and she said yes.

So later, I head to the bar and she was a no show. I didn't really think much of it since I watch the lives shows there at nights and chop it up with folk anyway. She didn't turn at all, so I just KIM, hung out in the lounge checking my emails then bounced back to my room.

Saw her at breakfast earlier and she didn't say why she didn't show or even ask to sit together even though we both pretty much came in at the same time. Obviously I wasn't gonna press the matter, she jus said "see you around" and that was it.

These broads, man...one minute they're so keen and eager, initiating contact and shyt, then they just do a 180 like you did something wrong. Anyways......

:snoop: @ me feeling a little bit of a way about it but oh well, bout to head out to the complex and kick it with some locals.

DaRealness, have you gone off the resort and hung out with any of the local women yet?
 

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You probably just came off desperate and lonely. With a lot of women they can come onto you and you can ask them out first time and they'll say yes then ditch you. She stays at your hotel no reason to ask her ass out to dinner like you gotta wine and dine her especially in the DR. I would of just kept it casual, especially when you in the DR, you over there trying to take resort hoes who kick it with random Swiss's to dinner and shyt. Could of kept your ass home and met random hoes at Starbucks if that were the case.

lol that was kinda harsh.

to the dude though. when ur far away from home like that, its ok to be bolder. its ok to take lots of chances cause the embarrassment (if there is one) will be shortlived...since ur not from around there.
 

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why would you feed that shyt? these types of woman are a nightmare. the best thing you can do is have them test somebody else.

I personally wouldn't/haven't. But apparently this sort of thing is really common, especially amongst black females so I gather.:ld:
 

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Man after 3 days of not hearing from my gf ( i only called her once and text her once), she calls me this morning(i set her number to go straight to voicemail) her first voicemail is her pretending like nothing happening talking about did I see the spurs game last night. The second vm is her asking why i didnt answer the phone. Lately she has been pulling this stunt, she will ignore me for 2-3 days and act like everything is ok, but when it happens to her she wants to play the victim talking about she could have been dead

I was browsing POF and saw 5 chicks that caught my eye, im going to make a profile and see what I can get into, start my back up plan if we cant solve these issue we have right now, summer is coming, plus my bday
 

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Man after 3 days of not hearing from my gf ( i only called her once and text her once), she calls me this morning(i set her number to go straight to voicemail) her first voicemail is her pretending like nothing happening talking about did I see the spurs game last night. The second vm is her asking why i didnt answer the phone. Lately she has been pulling this stunt, she will ignore me for 2-3 days and act like everything is ok, but when it happens to her she wants to play the victim talking about she could have been dead

I was browsing POF and saw 5 chicks that caught my eye, im going to make a profile and see what I can get into, start my back up plan if we cant solve these issue we have right now, summer is coming, plus my bday

your a troll but anyways shes emotionally detaching which is what women do before they drop them thangs on you.

ive done what you are planning to do before, i felt the dsitance and that she was going to ask for space or needing that talk aka breakup, so i just continued to play dumb, created a profile on a dating site, and when she finally dropped them thangs i was like :ehh: as i had options
 

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your a troll but anyways shes emotionally detaching which is what women do before they drop them thangs on you.

ive done what you are planning to do before, i felt the dsitance and that she was going to ask for space or needing that talk aka breakup, so i just continued to play dumb, created a profile on a dating site, and when she finally dropped them thangs i was like :ehh: as i had options

the only thing i troll is the catfishin thread other than that everything i post is legit:yeshrug:

anyways, more than likely you are right, which is why im not really sweatin' it:win:, if by some chance i strike out with all these chicks on POF that caught my eye, then I lay low for a little bit and get back into the swing of things

i have been w/ my girl for almost 2 yrs, honestly my girl can act like a brat and she is almost a decade older than me, but i blame her mother because she spoils her kids way too damn much. You look at the way my girl and her brother act sometime and you would think they were still 12 or something:what:
 

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Man after 3 days of not hearing from my gf ( i only called her once and text her once), she calls me this morning(i set her number to go straight to voicemail) her first voicemail is her pretending like nothing happening talking about did I see the spurs game last night. The second vm is her asking why i didnt answer the phone. Lately she has been pulling this stunt, she will ignore me for 2-3 days and act like everything is ok, but when it happens to her she wants to play the victim talking about she could have been dead

I was browsing POF and saw 5 chicks that caught my eye, im going to make a profile and see what I can get into, start my back up plan if we cant solve these issue we have right now, summer is coming, plus my bday

if you're going days without talking to your girl, she aint your girl.
 

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Man after 3 days of not hearing from my gf ( i only called her once and text her once), she calls me this morning(i set her number to go straight to voicemail) her first voicemail is her pretending like nothing happening talking about did I see the spurs game last night. The second vm is her asking why i didnt answer the phone. Lately she has been pulling this stunt, she will ignore me for 2-3 days and act like everything is ok, but when it happens to her she wants to play the victim talking about she could have been dead

I was browsing POF and saw 5 chicks that caught my eye, im going to make a profile and see what I can get into, start my back up plan if we cant solve these issue we have right now, summer is coming, plus my bday

Doesn't sound good, my dude. And you said you were together for 2 years? Not good at all.
 

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going off the resort in a third world country is a very bad idea unless you're with an entourage of people.

not everywhere
i was off by myself in cuba, walking the streets in havana at like 2am pissy drunk, same as in varadero and i was carrying a 600 dollar camera and no one bothered me. People only stopped me asking if i needed a ride, and im like im good.


dr is different those tremonthustler types will rob u blind
 
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