Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandeezy
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I need some help brehs. So ive never had a gf, dated, fukked, etc. and im 23 turning 24 at the end of the year so i want to try and form some type of relationship b4 my bday. What makes it hard is that I work 50+ hrs a week and don't have a lot of freetime outside of work. On top of that I have no friends so its not like I can ask for a hook up. Ive tried all the online dating sites and failed at that too. I need help brehs 
Brehs, I know that this is going off the current subject but I need some advice.
For the last year and a half, I been working on myself with improving my confidence, social and leadership skills. I have joined my company's Toastmasters club, taking on more of a leadership role with my team at work, change my workout rountine and most importanely, improve my social skills with women. But for some reason, everytime I chatting or kicking it up with a female, I keep getting the nice/good guy label.
It doesn't matter how much flirting, trash or sweet talking that I do, it seem that these women can just sense it in me and toss me to the side. For example, when I went out to the bar last night, this chic that is a regular there was wasted and her "ride" was with her dude. I told her that I would take her home if needed and she said "I know you would, you are a good guy
" Also, this chic that I was chatting it up with outside, told her girl that she should hook up with me because I seem like a good guy. Plus with the fact that when I had my date last week and even she said that I was a nice guy. What do I got to do to get these chics to see me as a legit option? Do I need to whip it out, smack them on the ass or talk dirty from the get go (sarcarism)? I not trying to look for wifely or a relationship right now, but a brother wanted to be taken seriously by these females. Any tips on how to approach women w/o looking like a nice/simpish/thirsty fool would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
For the last year and a half, I been working on myself with improving my confidence, social and leadership skills. I have joined my company's Toastmasters club, taking on more of a leadership role with my team at work, change my workout rountine and most importanely, improve my social skills with women. But for some reason, everytime I chatting or kicking it up with a female, I keep getting the nice/good guy label.
It doesn't matter how much flirting, trash or sweet talking that I do, it seem that these women can just sense it in me and toss me to the side. For example, when I went out to the bar last night, this chic that is a regular there was wasted and her "ride" was with her dude. I told her that I would take her home if needed and she said "I know you would, you are a good guy
" Also, this chic that I was chatting it up with outside, told her girl that she should hook up with me because I seem like a good guy. Plus with the fact that when I had my date last week and even she said that I was a nice guy. What do I got to do to get these chics to see me as a legit option? Do I need to whip it out, smack them on the ass or talk dirty from the get go (sarcarism)? I not trying to look for wifely or a relationship right now, but a brother wanted to be taken seriously by these females. Any tips on how to approach women w/o looking like a nice/simpish/thirsty fool would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
I don't want to generalize people. I think that's unfair. I do enjoy equality, but I must agree, the feminism movement is starting to look like a joke. Especially the tumblr feminists and the young feminists in college.
A large portion of these feminists just want to be babied and coddled. kev & OrangeSoda brought up some great points in regard to the majority of these feminists. They don't want to be held accountable, and they aren't for full equality, they're really only looking for ways to avoid criticism.
These women are in love with the idea of sexual liberation, but are too mentally weak to handle it. I've dealt with chicks like this. One moment they feel empowered because they can participate in premarital sex with multiple partners with no commitment, the next moment they're crying their eyes out because they don't feel like guys like them beyond sex.
Shout outs to the fantasy land comment too, that is so damn true man. I've had broads tell me some of the most asinine, illogical shyt, but the instant I calmly challenge the statement, I get viewed as "mean", and "judgmental". Ain't nobody judging you! Just acknowledge the fact that we're all humanistic, and that the tendency to change exists, and we'll be gucci. Instead, we have women who want to be sheltered by "feminism". I.E., "let me fukk up, but don't say anything about it, because if you acknowledge it, you're a negative person"
A large portion of these feminists just want to be babied and coddled. kev & OrangeSoda brought up some great points in regard to the majority of these feminists. They don't want to be held accountable, and they aren't for full equality, they're really only looking for ways to avoid criticism.
These women are in love with the idea of sexual liberation, but are too mentally weak to handle it. I've dealt with chicks like this. One moment they feel empowered because they can participate in premarital sex with multiple partners with no commitment, the next moment they're crying their eyes out because they don't feel like guys like them beyond sex.
Shout outs to the fantasy land comment too, that is so damn true man. I've had broads tell me some of the most asinine, illogical shyt, but the instant I calmly challenge the statement, I get viewed as "mean", and "judgmental". Ain't nobody judging you! Just acknowledge the fact that we're all humanistic, and that the tendency to change exists, and we'll be gucci. Instead, we have women who want to be sheltered by "feminism". I.E., "let me fukk up, but don't say anything about it, because if you acknowledge it, you're a negative person"
Virtuous_Brotha
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I need some help brehs. So ive never had a gf, dated, fukked, etc. and im 23 turning 24 at the end of the year so i want to try and form some type of relationship b4 my bday. What makes it hard is that I work 50+ hrs a week and don't have a lot of freetime outside of work. On top of that I have no friends so its not like I can ask for a hook up. Ive tried all the online dating sites and failed at that too. I need help brehs
im in a similar position except all my relationships have started from me chatting them up online honestly given my lifestyle im the worse to give any advice on this but i suggest practicing talk to women online if your not to bad looking shouldnt be that hard to get a date.or theres the cliche route of joining clubs or finding a hobby to meet new people.
Malik
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Kicked it with my uncle and his drinking buddies last night. All dudes in their 40s, 50s. Being 25, I was by far, the youngest one there. Got on the topic of relationships. Never knew this bit of information before but, my uncle got got for $170,000 in his divorce 
He was only in his early 30s back then, said he damn near died in the courtroom 
All this time I wondered why he never got serious with another woman again. He with this cool broad now but, for like 12 years straight, he was straight doing bytches greasy. I understand now
Make matters worse, after his ex wife got him for all that money.....she blew every last penny. Nothing to show for it. Got pregnant by some new dude, then had the nerve to try and get back with my uncle. The game is real my nikka
He was only in his early 30s back then, said he damn near died in the courtroom All this time I wondered why he never got serious with another woman again. He with this cool broad now but, for like 12 years straight, he was straight doing bytches greasy. I understand now Make matters worse, after his ex wife got him for all that money.....she blew every last penny. Nothing to show for it. Got pregnant by some new dude, then had the nerve to try and get back with my uncle. The game is real my nikka
Brandeezy
Superstar
Ive tried pof and okcupi
I've been on POF and OKCupid for 5 years and only got one meet-up which went horrible (she stopped talking to me an hour after meeting and moved to San Diego a couple months later.) I work at a grocery store and the shoppers are majority hispanic women but i've never had anyone hit on me/flirt in my 3 years here. I think I put off a
vibe, idk
I've been on POF and OKCupid for 5 years and only got one meet-up which went horrible (she stopped talking to me an hour after meeting and moved to San Diego a couple months later.) I work at a grocery store and the shoppers are majority hispanic women but i've never had anyone hit on me/flirt in my 3 years here. I think I put off a
vibe, idk
T-K-G
Veteran
If a girl is showing signs of being an extreme women's right activist dont even bother with her.
It's the equivalent of being around someone who thinks every little thing has some deep racist undertone, that shyt gets old fast and you can never enjoy anything around them
and the hypocrisy is mindblowing
It's the equivalent of being around someone who thinks every little thing has some deep racist undertone, that shyt gets old fast and you can never enjoy anything around them
and the hypocrisy is mindblowing
Ive tried pof and okcupi
I've been on POF and OKCupid for 5 years and only got one meet-up which went horrible (she stopped talking to me an hour after meeting and moved to San Diego a couple months later.) I work at a grocery store and the shoppers are majority hispanic women but i've never had anyone hit on me/flirt in my 3 years here. I think I put off a
Ive been in 2 relationships with women I met off of POF, one lasted about 18 months the other about 22 months, in fact im about to make another profile on there, there are like 5 chicks I want to see if something can materialize.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Ive tried pof and okcupi
I've been on POF and OKCupid for 5 years and only got one meet-up which went horrible (she stopped talking to me an hour after meeting and moved to San Diego a couple months later.) I work at a grocery store and the shoppers are majority hispanic women but i've never had anyone hit on me/flirt in my 3 years here. I think I put off a
If you have an iPhone try tinder.
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
Ive tried pof and okcupi
I've been on POF and OKCupid for 5 years and only got one meet-up which went horrible (she stopped talking to me an hour after meeting and moved to San Diego a couple months later.) I work at a grocery store and the shoppers are majority hispanic women but i've never had anyone hit on me/flirt in my 3 years here. I think I put off a
Try tagged chicks on there are lot less stuck up my reply rate is pretty good.
I need some help brehs. So ive never had a gf, dated, fukked, etc. and im 23 turning 24 at the end of the year so i want to try and form some type of relationship b4 my bday. What makes it hard is that I work 50+ hrs a week and don't have a lot of freetime outside of work. On top of that I have no friends so its not like I can ask for a hook up. Ive tried all the online dating sites and failed at that too. I need help brehs
Breh if ur that hard up Id go for a fatter chick. I aint talking about obese but on the chubby side. 90% of the time their self esteem is in the toilet and when they get attention its like
to them. This is especially helpful if they have hot friends cause the u know they getting zero play. I aint gonna front I fukked my share of 3's and 4's. But its basically free p*ssy and u trying to get in the game right 
. Just dont come off as desperate and youll be good to go
T-K-G
Veteran
I need some help brehs. So ive never had a gf, dated, fukked, etc. and im 23 turning 24 at the end of the year so i want to try and form some type of relationship b4 my bday. What makes it hard is that I work 50+ hrs a week and don't have a lot of freetime outside of work. On top of that I have no friends so its not like I can ask for a hook up. Ive tried all the online dating sites and failed at that too. I need help brehs
breh you need to find some time off of work and just go places you're interested in and talk to people, regardless of their facial expressions when out in public most people want to be talked to, i'd say only about 10% of people would be rude and blow you off. have a halfway decent conversation and most people will be give you their phone numbers and just like that, you've got people to hit up to chill with
it's nothing breh
I need some help brehs. So ive never had a gf, dated, fukked, etc. and im 23 turning 24 at the end of the year so i want to try and form some type of relationship b4 my bday. What makes it hard is that I work 50+ hrs a week and don't have a lot of freetime outside of work. On top of that I have no friends so its not like I can ask for a hook up. Ive tried all the online dating sites and failed at that too. I need help brehs
I can help breh
No Homo
What are your interests your hobbies?
Honestly it's easy to eat off dating sites, have a decent written profile a couple decent pics and write a generic message and you'll be fine.
I've probably met like 25 girls online in the past 4 years.
Because your so busy etc the best thing is to create a dating profile and I'll help you construct what to write in there
The thing about being a male is that chicks ain't making the first move or hitting on you.
In all my life only one woman has ever approached me in real life, and if your shy and a introvert you get frustrated
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