Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In other news @kevm3 how's the book coming brother? I'm looking forward to it keep us posted.
 
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I went on my second date with this girl like 1.5 weeks ago. We just went to the park and had some food into the night. I ended up making a move and we madeout or w/e. She texted me a couple hours after it ended saying she had a good time. I didn't text her for a few days after that and hit her up to see how she was. Then couple days after met up with her in school for just a few minutes. Thing is, she hasn't been texting first lately (sorry if i put so much stock in this), at first she would text me first a lot but it hasn't been like that. So I just fell back form texting her and now it's been like 4 days without me hitting her up or vice versa, I saw her in school today though.it's finals time basically. I don't know what im doing wrong. Should I just ignore her or hit her up saying some outlandish shyt like 'wtf' to catch her off guard and keep her interested. Idk brehs. confused cuase im getting mixed signals. i feel there is some kind of barrier right now between us.
If u want to text her just text her man. Enough with this who text who first nonsense
 

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In other news @kevm3 how's the book coming brother? I'm looking forward to it keep us posted.

The rough draft of it is done, but I've been chilling on it for a second because the revision phase is the toughest. Preciate the interest though... I'm going to have to get back cracking on it.
 
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If u want to text her just text her man. Enough with this who text who first nonsense

I was just going to say this. Plus if she texts you and says she had a good time after a date and you don't respond smh. You're just trying to hard and playing fukkboy games.
 

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I call it having self respect.

If someone texts me and it pops up on my phone I'll text back, I won't do some stupid ass game let me wait ten minutes or a hour to act like I'm busy then text.

Texting, calling fall under the same guidelines to me.



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Words can mean nothing, what's more important, speaking in person or sending a text/letter/post card. At the end of the day you take texts for what they are, a message. Messages are conveyed and are written in print so that you'll always be able to respond to them whenever you'd like, unlike previous conversations with others in person.

It's ok to respond asap, I suppose but for me it's like I've got things to do other than have a back to back text off, if you got that much time then we might as well just meet.
 

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If u want to text her just text her man. Enough with this who text who first nonsense

I agree just text her, if she ignores the text then don't again

Don't even mention it's been 4 days or anything


the thing is after 4 days shes either playing hard to get or truely isnt that interested in you, a women that are interested you wuold have contacted you already. If she goes from hot to cold then its something you said or did that killed the attraction.

Rejection is better than regret though just send the text if she replies and its like short and concise then just dont reply or text again, and if she ignores you know your answer as well.

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I was just going to say this. Plus if she texts you and says she had a good time after a date and you don't respond smh. You're just trying to hard and playing fukkboy games.

Of course I did respond b,pretty much right after she texted me. I'm not like that.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Is twitter a place where all the single bytches go to talk about how they won't settle, and mingle amongst each other about all the things they'd do for their man? :russ:


All these broads think they won't have to settle, cruel reality is the men they want just want to fukk and leave them, the men they don't want are unattractive & corny, and even they just want to fukk and leave them.
 

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Is twitter a place where all the single bytches go to talk about how they won't settle, and mingle amongst each other about all the things they'd do for their man? :russ:


All these broads think they won't have to settle, cruel reality is the men they want just want to fukk and leave them, the men they don't want are unattractive & corny, and even they just want to fukk and leave them.

They will find out when their 30 plus on pof looking for a nice guy.



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Been out of this thread for a minute, finally got my password back & shyt. Way too much for me to quote, even though I want to.

I will say though, that I hate the "games" aspect of relationships and pursuing women. I despise the "rules" aspect. Reincar said some trill shyt that I agree with a few pages back in regards to texting. If I have my phone on me, and I receive a text from a woman, it shouldn't be a bad thing if I text back immediately. Social conditioning has fukked me up from the jump. I remember in HS, getting a phone call, answering immediately, and my friend, or whoever was calling, would be on some "damn, phone didn't even ring" type shyt. It shouldn't matter.

The whole not wanting to appear overly interested thing is fukking wack. I wish we lived in a society where verbalization was more widely accepted. I'd rather just cut to the chase and receive confirmation instead of feeling out the air and "just getting it". There were some valid points brought up in that Just Get It article 662662662 posted, as far as tainting genuineness is concerned when verbally pointing something out, but I'd rather a woman just tell me that she was smashing someone else when she didn't respond to a text, rather than hit me with this bullshyt ass, "I was tipsy, I had homework, I had to pet my cat" type statement.
 

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It isn't about being socially whatever the fukk you said, it's about having better things to do with yourself than immediately responding to someone as if you don't have better things to do.

And a woman will tell you a lie in a text just like a man will, why? Because if she's out there screwing someone else then obviously she isn't yours (a person can't be yours anyway, you do not own them) and whether you converse or not she or he has the right to not share personal information with you, and it's none of your business. Idea of this thread is you should be focusing on you, bettering yourself, so why the fukk would you care if she's fukking someone else when she's not yours and you're supposedly focusing on bettering yourself. You can't claim to be focusing on yourself and then as soon as someone gives you a hint of attention you run into their open arms. Yeah I've got my phone by me and I see your text, yes I've read it, but yes, I do have shyt to do and if you're feeling me you can wait for a funky ass text.
 

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I can't think of one simp that I know that has experienced long term or even consistent happiness.

If you spend your life catering to others, you'll never have time for yourself.

I can't think of one dude whose entire existence evolves around women that has experienced long term or consistent happiness.

This is because long term and consistent happiness comes from within. Being okay with who you are and how you live life. Remaining true to your self. Never changing to meet the standards or requirements of others. Understanding that stress is not a prerequisite for relationships that you build with others.

Not accepting behaviors from others that you don't exhibit yourself. Be the person that makes everybody else step up their game.

I always like to refer to Nas. It doesn't matter what kind of record an artist does... when they step on a track with Nas, they pull out their A game because they know they're going in with the best. You want to be that person where people know not to bullshyt around you. You want to be that man of respect where women know not to play games with you or waste your time. They bring their A game, because you're on a different plane.

It all starts with mentality, which develops into confidence once you set a routine for yourself.

When you stop needing people (being needy for friends & attention) and view your friendships as you lending privilege to others, you will exude all of these things that make people want to be around you and be at their very best.
 
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