Been out of this thread for a minute, finally got my password back & shyt. Way too much for me to quote, even though I want to.
I will say though, that I hate the "games" aspect of relationships and pursuing women. I despise the "rules" aspect. Reincar said some trill shyt that I agree with a few pages back in regards to texting. If I have my phone on me, and I receive a text from a woman, it shouldn't be a bad thing if I text back immediately. Social conditioning has fukked me up from the jump. I remember in HS, getting a phone call, answering immediately, and my friend, or whoever was calling, would be on some "damn, phone didn't even ring" type shyt. It shouldn't matter.
The whole not wanting to appear overly interested thing is fukking wack. I wish we lived in a society where verbalization was more widely accepted. I'd rather just cut to the chase and receive confirmation instead of feeling out the air and "just getting it". There were some valid points brought up in that Just Get It article 662662662 posted, as far as tainting genuineness is concerned when verbally pointing something out, but I'd rather a woman just tell me that she was smashing someone else when she didn't respond to a text, rather than hit me with this bullshyt ass, "I was tipsy, I had homework, I had to pet my cat" type statement.