Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do not be too quick to delete the number. There may not be a foul here. Most women are 'flaky' in the sense that they their emotions changes, cannot make decisions, or procrastinate.

She has not been reading this thread so she is not going to be 'perfect' in every way right now. It's your job to lead and vocalize your expectations.

If you made plans and she reneged, tell her :ufdup: and that it's something that you can't rock with going forward.

If it continues to to happen, its time for the bushes.

In most new interactions with anyone there will be things that each one will have to adjust from what they may be used to and boundaries may have to be set. She doesn't know your trigger points, nor do you know hers.

Give her a chance breh.

This is some great advice, and is true, however I'm set in my ways:demonic:

I really dont give chances.

just easier to cut it off in the beginning when nothing is invested
 

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:wow: :smh:..When you go so hard at simping this is the end result, these chicks out here putting these nikkaz on blast.
 

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I'm a bad man.

There's a chick that came into my job on Wednesday cuz her car had a check engine light and the babe needed to have it cleared so she could pass emissions.

We got it fixed for her.

Remembered her mentioning taking the test today and i thought i'd follow up...


With the number she left for contact after completing her vehicle, i hit her up and now... we're texting.


We'll see where this goes.


She's a certified cutie breaghs... if there was a camera in the shop, i'd show you a cam still of how awesomely spectacular this chick is.


And the moment she stepped into the room, the way the babe's fragrance emanated its sweetness throughout the premises was...



:ohlawd:



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The girl I've been talking to is going out of town with friends this weekend so I just told her to have a good weekend and don't drink and drive and she responded "good thing I'm not driving :smile:". Question is can I just not respond to that shyt at all? Or am I supposed to since we might kick it on Tuesday?
 

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I'm a bad man.

There's a chick that came into my job on Wednesday cuz her car had a check engine light and the babe needed to have it cleared so she could pass emissions.

We got it fixed for her.

Remembered her mentioning taking the test today and i thought i'd follow up...


With the number she left for contact after completing her vehicle, i hit her up and now... we're texting.


We'll see where this goes.


She's a certified cutie breaghs... if there was a camera in the shop, i'd show you a cam still of how awesomely spectacular this chick is.


And the moment she stepped into the room, the way the babe's fragrance emanated its sweetness throughout the premises was...



:ohlawd:



.
Lol why are you getting numbers at work all of the sudden? fukk
 

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The girl I've been talking to is going out of town with friends this weekend so I just told her to have a good weekend and don't drink and drive and she responded "good thing I'm not driving :smile:". Question is can I just not respond to that shyt at all? Or am I supposed to since we might kick it on Tuesday?

yeah dont respond
 

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The girl I've been talking to is going out of town with friends this weekend so I just told her to have a good weekend and don't drink and drive and she responded "good thing I'm not driving :smile:". Question is can I just not respond to that shyt at all? Or am I supposed to since we might kick it on Tuesday?

why would u need to respond?? :upsetfavre:
 

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Woman Who Married Young Wants Do-Over On Teen Years

DEAR ABBY: "Jake" and I have been married more than 20 years. I married before I was 18, and I'm not even 40 yet. Jake is seven years my senior. We have had our ups and downs, and although the last five years have been fine, I want more out of life than sitting home watching TV or hanging out with him.

We have two children. One is away at college and the other starting high school. When I talk to my husband about wanting to do things, he says I should have done them when I was younger. But I married him before I was even an adult!

Is it wrong to want to go out and do things I never got to do when I was a teenager? It makes me question whether or not I want to be married to him anymore. I still love him, but I have changed.


Jake insists we don't need counseling and I just need to get over it and accept that this is my life. What if I don't want to regret what I have never had a chance to do? -- WANTS MORE OUT WEST

DEAR WANTS MORE: I'm sorry, but you can't relive your lost teenage years. I wish you had been more specific about what it is you want to do. If it's go out and have some fun, perhaps some of your girlfriends would like to go with you. Instead of sitting home, you and Jake could socialize with other couples. If you're into sports, why not join a women's sports team? If you're not, how about a book club? You don't have to sit around and vegetate.

You also didn't mention whether you completed high school. If you didn't receive a diploma, you would be well-served to work on earning your GED, which could widen your horizons and opportunities considerably.

Woman Who Married Young Wants Do-Over On Teen Years

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