Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's amazing the amount of money you will eventually save by not trying to impress women. When cats start trying to impress women, they start buying a whole variety of things they absolutely do not need. They will buy tons of colognes, a flashy car, jewelry, expensive clothes, spending money on dates, on gifts, etc... and when you really think about it, what is it all for?

If you were smart, you could take all of that extra money, pay off all of your debts, invest it, start a business or any other variety of steps to guarantee your financial freedom. Financial Freedom is way greater than trying to razzle dazzle some woman that 39 other guys already dove inside. Plus, when you have a fat bank account, it serves the exact same purpose that all of those depreciating assets does... women will be attracted to your REAL wealth rather than your 'flashy wealth....' which is to say that you will still attract women for trivial purposes, except in the latter case, you actually aren't turning yourself into a debt slave in the process.

I'm telling you cats, stack your paper up, live a low maintenance lifestyle and don't worry too much about catching women that can't be caught by you flying under the radar. Being able to retire early and not have to worry about where your next paycheck is coming from > being the fly guy for the next 5 to 10 years and dumping your money into a black hole, never to be seen again. The kind of women you attract with flash are NOT the ones you want to deal with.

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shyt is just too real
 

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returnofthekings is a great site, iw ent through it all the other day

:getmarriedbrehs:

this post though is what i've preached for years, its when you go to dating sites its influxed iwth women like 28-35, with "i had my fun adn want to settle down" etc.

old 300k miles cars with no car faxes still thinking their a brand new off the lot


goes to pof and does a quick search 30-31 over 600 chicks 5 miles from my postal code looking for long term.

:russ:

I'd rather be single than to wife up these used decaying fossils
 

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one thing i'd like to say if you want to avoid trouble and stress in your life. As men, we often feel like we need to protect (both physically and emotionally)the important women in our lives and that's natural. but at the same time, realize that they are not entitled to your protection. it's something you do for them because you feel like it and you should never allow a woman to forget that. Her job is to make you feel like protecting her. If she does the right thing and follows what you say and still needs it because of circumstances, then cool. But if she's unruly and doesn't accept your advice and leadership, sometimes it is appropriate to take away the benefit of protection. Maybe she needs to get herself reacquainted with the concept of consequences (and i'm not just talking about your significant other here).
 

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When investing in stocks, you NEVER just buy stocks just to have them. If you buy a bad stock, you will lose your money. You want to avoid mediocre stocks too because your money won't be growing at the level it should and you could be tying up your money when that great opportunity comes along. Sometimes you just have to "sit on your money" until that can't miss opportunity comes along.

Same thing applies to women. If you sit and mess with low quality women, you're going to put your life in a twist, especially if you impregnate one. Don't deal with women just to deal with them. Sometimes you just got to sit on your time until you find that top notch that really vibes with you. If you want high quality results, you have to invest your time and efforts into high quality people and high quality endeavors. God bless.
 

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It's amazing the amount of money you will eventually save by not trying to impress women. When cats start trying to impress women, they start buying a whole variety of things they absolutely do not need. They will buy tons of colognes, a flashy car, jewelry, expensive clothes, spending money on dates, on gifts, etc... and when you really think about it, what is it all for?

If you were smart, you could take all of that extra money, pay off all of your debts, invest it, start a business or any other variety of steps to guarantee your financial freedom. Financial Freedom is way greater than trying to razzle dazzle some woman that 39 other guys already dove inside. Plus, when you have a fat bank account, it serves the exact same purpose that all of those depreciating assets does... women will be attracted to your REAL wealth rather than your 'flashy wealth....' which is to say that you will still attract women for trivial purposes, except in the latter case, you actually aren't turning yourself into a debt slave in the process.

I'm telling you cats, stack your paper up, live a low maintenance lifestyle and don't worry too much about catching women that can't be caught by you flying under the radar. Being able to retire early and not have to worry about where your next paycheck is coming from > being the fly guy for the next 5 to 10 years and dumping your money into a black hole, never to be seen again. The kind of women you attract with flash are NOT the ones you want to deal with.

:thumbsup::win:
 

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It's amazing the amount of money you will eventually save by not trying to impress women. When cats start trying to impress women, they start buying a whole variety of things they absolutely do not need. They will buy tons of colognes, a flashy car, jewelry, expensive clothes, spending money on dates, on gifts, etc... and when you really think about it, what is it all for?

If you were smart, you could take all of that extra money, pay off all of your debts, invest it, start a business or any other variety of steps to guarantee your financial freedom. Financial Freedom is way greater than trying to razzle dazzle some woman that 39 other guys already dove inside. Plus, when you have a fat bank account, it serves the exact same purpose that all of those depreciating assets does... women will be attracted to your REAL wealth rather than your 'flashy wealth....' which is to say that you will still attract women for trivial purposes, except in the latter case, you actually aren't turning yourself into a debt slave in the process.

I'm telling you cats, stack your paper up, live a low maintenance lifestyle and don't worry too much about catching women that can't be caught by you flying under the radar. Being able to retire early and not have to worry about where your next paycheck is coming from > being the fly guy for the next 5 to 10 years and dumping your money into a black hole, never to be seen again. The kind of women you attract with flash are NOT the ones you want to deal with.

:wow:

Also to those that may want to step your financial game up you should check out the author David Ramsey. His book "Total Money Makeover" is a step in the right direction of getting your dough where you would like it. I've been following the principles, and although they aren't easy (for instance I moved out of my dope apartment by myself to room with 2 other dudes, one of which is a PIG :snoop: ) I've definitely have seen improvement in my finances.....which I use Credit Karma and Mint to keep track of, 2 great apps that help you monitor your credit and finances also.
 

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Also to those that may want to step your financial game up you should check out the author David Ramsey. His book "Total Money Makeover" is a step in the right direction of getting your dough where you would like it. I've been following the principles, and although they aren't easy (for instance I moved out of my dope apartment by myself to room with 2 other dudes, one of which is a PIG :snoop: ) I've definitely have seen improvement in my finances.....which I use Credit Karma and Mint to keep track of, 2 great apps that help you monitor your credit and finances also.

im 17k in debt, slowly chipping away at it, was 25k last year

hope to be debt free b next year
 

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Lol^.

Reminded me a girl friend of mine texted me last night and asked if I wanted to go to the Saturday market with her, I said sure, but the next day I responded to her text cause I fell asleep and she didn't even respond smh. It's not like I was upset, I really wanted to do hw and chill anyway, but as friends you still couldn't say "hey I'm not going today" after all you did invite me. Something like that makes me wanna just say naw next time she hmu
 

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Ok look ... I'm 24 been talking to a new guy who's 21 I like him but he is so damn clingy he wants to spend every minute of my free time with me. He gets mad if I insinuate that I just wanna be spend time apart. I'm just the type of girl who likes space .. But don't we all? Since we met we haven't gone 2 days without seeing each other it's overwhelming. He's great... I think he's funny.. But I want him to back off a little bit... Idk what insight I'm looking for just thought i would share..
 
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