Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MBwithadream]

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"She was with all those guys before you and in the end rejected them all, choosing you.

My wife is the 2nd woman I've dated or slept with. I've dated 3 and slept with 4. She's been with over 100 men and women (by her estimate), having started very early, putting a pedophile in prison, going through the swinging community, the polyamory community and the bdsm community... But I'm the only one she's ever accepted a collar or ring from (she has both)

I do not consider my wife to be a slut. She's never cheated on a partner. She hasn't slept with anyone without getting to know them first... She may have pressured friends into trying sexual things with her when she was a kid, but she's 30 now. That was a long time ago. She counts only maybe six of her past & present partners to be notable, at most, myself being among them.

Her experience is helpful to me, being inexperienced. She knows many things that I do not and can usually teach me. It works in my favor and I do not think any less of her for her past."

 

[sixsixtwo]

The American Woman Has Hit An All-Time Low

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I have to disagree, Iooks fde fast for females, and once looks go what are you stuk with?
Nothing.

Now I'm not saying marrying shrek, but a decent looking broad who you click with and has traits of loyalty, honesty, and truly loves you in the ups and downs beats the best looking broad you can marry

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Actually, i believe you referring to "Fiona"...


but who's counting.


One Howie also disagrees with Jahmal on this one as well. If we all strive to date a dime, lord jahmal knows what we have to deal with (the entitlements, outlandish expectaciones, absurd requests, etc. - all just to retain the babe).


And she knows it herself that she has to get what she can because once that aesthetic quality diminishes, what's she got left? The odds of finding a looker who's the killer combo of great personality, charm and pizzazz and would retain those attributes far deep into the middle-age phase of the relationship are soulja slim jim.


Of course, she's out there - but how many of us have the time to keep looking for something when that conquest itself isn't very realistic (and most times out of 12 - and i'll say it - unattainable).


It's not so much settling for someone now, but put yourself out there and see what works for you and look at the big portrait; is this somebody that i want to raise my children or raise up and bounce when shiit hits the fan and doesn't want to stick around and help a fella reignite his life.


In essence, don't knock a female cuz she ain't visually all that and a bag of flaming doritos. It's about adaptability, compatibility, chemistry and a mutual, respectful relationship that can harvest awesome fruits of love.


Reason why i can back my shiit up? My current lady friend is far from a dime, but in my eyes - she's beautiful because of how she carries herself, how she treats me and reciprocates gestures. Has a great head on her shoulders and doesn't nag me or clingy, understands boundaries and lets me do what i need to do during the week and nil asks for more than i can give her.


The hot chicks were always demanding too much shiit and it was a headache. After a few i don't want to go thru that again.


One thing that i do want to point out is that she knows to never step out of line (she almost did once and apologized immediately and vehemently, but her offensive ploy was warranted as i kinda provoked it - but we solid now). She hasn't repeated it or attempted to mock that sitchashun since.


A lot of the things Kev has mentioned, i've applied to my own relationships and its been a truly profound method to peruse the parameters of companionship-dom.


I know a lot of cats read shiit here - but the application is tougher and its hard to do - but the end result will almost always go in your favor.


We here.


We ain't goin nowhere.


And we ain't scurred.


*in jadakiss hawk voice*


"EH HAHHHH!!!"


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[TrifeGod]

its just that I try breh......but they make it difficult for me.

I'm just a Kobe esque type of perfectionist

But I will follow your advice and continue to try and better myself




























I need to get back to listening to more Lloyd Banks songs to get that Inner Pimp mentality in my head...those pop songs on the radio have been warping my mind.....

Gonna get my bulk/weight up this summer after I get this job next week and start earning bread...

Gonna get that year supply of contact lenses and get rid of these glasses which anyone who used to wear agrees they feel awkward.....

Start learning how to play chess

Try that "Primsleur Method" and try to learn Spanish and French

After getting fully into my career as an electrical engineer, have a side job helping out people in their homes for a cheap price

May I recommend Lloyd Banks - New p*ssy; First verse.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

can nikkas slow down with rehashing the same thing 50 times tho?


might see like 1 or 2 REAL gems per page with like 2342432 things being repeated surrounding it, we get it fam

lol i dont mind it, i can relate to so much of it but going on and on about single moms is irritating because its so simple dont deal with em if you want your own family.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm about to delete the number brehs

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[360dagod]

I'm about to delete the number brehs

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wat happened?

 

[Sharp]

"You've changed"

If a woman ever says that to you while dating or in a relationship, it is a red flag, and you have 2 options.

1) check her fast with the facts
2) give her the pink slip

The reality is that you didn't change. The reality is that she didn't take the opportunity to know you, as much as she got to know you for the things you did for her.

Woman will run with the gimmick that you have to do what you did to get her in order to keep her.

Do not subscribe to this. The only thing you have to do is be yourself as people naturally progress over time. If she doesn't like you for you, tell her that she can leave right now. But I wouldn't even advise that. Never allow a woman to make a decision that is yours.

It isn't a woman's choice to stay with you. It is your choice to stay with her. So once she hits you with the bullsh*t, you need to make that decision. Tell her to kick rocks.

You'll be doing a good deed for all of mankind, which is breaking her out of this spoiled brat behavior. Unfortunately, she'll probably meet a new dude who will nurture that behavior, but at least it wasn't you.

 

[MikelArteta]

wat happened?

Flakiness.



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[Atlrocafella]

When I get home later I gotta show y'all this shyt I saw on Instagram. Female just pretty much put this simp and his simp text messages on blast. shyt just hurt my soul

 

[Malikthegod]

Marine Corps Leadership Traits
The 14 leadership traits are qualities of thought and action which, if demonstrated in daily activities, help Marines earn the respect, confidence, and loyal cooperation of other Marines. It is extremely important that you understand the meaning of each leadership trait and how to develop it, so you know what goals to set as you work to become a good leader and a good follower.

JUSTICE
Definition: Justice is defined as the practice of being fair and consistent. A just person gives consideration to each side of a situation and bases rewards or punishments on merit.

Suggestions for Improvement: Be honest with yourself about why you make a particular decision. Avoid favoritism. Try to be fair at all times and treat all things and people in an equal manner.

JUDGMENT
Definition: Judgment is your ability to think about things clearly, calmly, and in an orderly fashion so that you can make good decisions.

Suggestions for Improvement: You can improve your judgment if you avoid making rash decisions. Approach problems with a common sense attitude.

DEPENDABILITY
Definition: Dependability means that you can be relied upon to perform your duties properly. It means that you can be trusted to complete a job. It is the willing and voluntary support of the policies and orders of the chain of command. Dependability also means consistently putting forth your best effort in an attempt to achieve the highest standards of performance.

Suggestions for Improvement: You can increase your dependability by forming the habit of being where you're supposed to be on time, by not making excuses and by carrying out every task to the best of your ability regardless of whether you like it or agree with it.

INITIATIVE
Definition: Initiative is taking action even though you haven't been given orders. It means meeting new and unexpected situations with prompt action. It includes using resourcefulness to get something done without the normal material or methods being available to you.

Suggestions for Improvement: To improve your initiative, work on staying mentally and physically alert. Be aware of things that need to be done and then to do them without having to be told.

DECISIVENESS
Definition: Decisiveness means that you are able to make good decisions without delay. Get all the facts and weight them against each other. By acting calmly and quickly, you should arrive at a sound decision. You announce your decisions in a clear, firm, professional manner.

Suggestions for Improvement: Practice being positive in your actions instead of acting half-heartedly or changing your mind on an issue.

TACT
Definition: Tact means that you can deal with people in a manner that will maintain good relations and avoid problems. It means that you are polite, calm, and firm.

Suggestions for Improvement: Begin to develop your tact by trying to be courteous and cheerful at all times. Treat others as you would like to be treated.

INTEGRITY
Definition: Integrity means that you are honest and truthful in what you say or do. You put honesty, sense of duty, and sound moral principles above all else.

Suggestions for Improvement: Be absolutely honest and truthful at all times. Stand up for what you believe to be right.

ENTHUSIASM
Definition: Enthusiasm is defined as a sincere interest and exuberance in the performance of your duties. If you are enthusiastic, you are optimistic, cheerful, and willing to accept the challenges.

Suggestions for Improvement: Understanding and belief in your mission will add to your enthusiasm for your job. Try to understand why even uninteresting jobs must be done.

BEARING
Definition: Bearing is the way you conduct and carry yourself. Your manner should reflect alertness, competence, confidence, and control.

Suggestions for Improvement: To develop bearing, you should hold yourself to the highest standards of personal conduct. Never be content with meeting only the minimum requirements.

UNSELFISHNESS
Definition: Unselfishness means that you avoid making yourself comfortable at the expense of others. Be considerate of others. Give credit to those who deserve it.

Suggestions for Improvement: Avoid using your position or rank for personal gain, safety, or pleasure at the expensive of others. Be considerate of others.

COURAGE
Definition: Courage is what allows you to remain calm while recognizing fear. Moral courage means having the inner strength to stand up for what is right and to accept blame when something is your fault. Physical courage means that you can continue to function effectively when there is physical danger present.

Suggestions for Improvement: You can begin to control fear by practicing self-discipline and calmness. If you fear doing certain things required in your daily life, force yourself to do them until you can control your reaction.

KNOWLEDGE
Definition: Knowledge is the understanding of a science or art. Knowledge means that you have acquired information and that you understand people. Your knowledge should be broad, and in addition to knowing your job, you should know your unit's policies and keep up with current events.

Suggestions for Improvement: Suggestions for Improvement: Increase your knowledge by remaining alert. Listen, observe, and find out about things you don't understand. Study field manuals and other military literature.

LOYALTY
Definition: Loyalty means that you are devoted to your country, the Corps, and to your seniors, peers, and subordinates. The motto of our Corps is Semper Fidelis!, (Always Faithful). You owe unwavering loyalty up and down the chain of command, to seniors, subordinates, and peers.

Suggestions for Improvement: To improve your loyalty you should show your loyalty by never discussing the problems of the Marine Corps or your unit with outsiders. Never talk about seniors unfavorably in front of your subordinates. Once a decision is made and the order is given to execute it, carry out that order willingly as if it were your own.

ENDURANCE
Definition: Endurance is the mental and physical stamina that is measured by your ability to withstand pain, fatigue, stress, and hardship. For example, enduring pain during a conditioning march in order to improve stamina is crucial in the development of leadership.

Suggestions for Improvement: Develop your endurance by engaging in physical training that will strengthen your body. Finish every task to the best of your ability by forcing yourself to continue when you are physically tired and your mind is sluggish.

 

[Cory MBA]

Flakiness.



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Do not be too quick to delete the number. There may not be a foul here. Most women are 'flaky' in the sense that they their emotions changes, cannot make decisions, or procrastinate.

She has not been reading this thread so she is not going to be 'perfect' in every way right now. It's your job to lead and vocalize your expectations.

If you made plans and she reneged, tell her and that it's something that you can't rock with going forward.

If it continues to to happen, its time for the bushes.

In most new interactions with anyone there will be things that each one will have to adjust from what they may be used to and boundaries may have to be set. She doesn't know your trigger points, nor do you know hers.

Give her a chance breh.

 

[yoyoyo1]

can nikkas slow down with rehashing the same thing 50 times tho?


might see like 1 or 2 REAL gems per page with like 2342432 things being repeated surrounding it, we get it fam

I think a kind of "best of" is needed, but reminders every so often aren't so bad. This thread is pretty entertaining.

 

[T-K-G]

I think a kind of "best of" is needed, but reminders every so often aren't so bad. This thread is pretty entertaining.

im cool with reminders but nikkas be writing 3-7 paragraph posts about some shyt that was already covered......

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Flakiness.



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My #1 pet peeve. :wow2:

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