Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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"She was with all those guys before you and in the end rejected them all, choosing you.
My wife is the 2nd woman I've dated or slept with. I've dated 3 and slept with 4. She's been with over 100 men and women (by her estimate), having started very early, putting a pedophile in prison, going through the swinging community, the polyamory community and the bdsm community... But I'm the only one she's ever accepted a collar or ring from (she has both)
I do not consider my wife to be a slut. She's never cheated on a partner. She hasn't slept with anyone without getting to know them first... She may have pressured friends into trying sexual things with her when she was a kid, but she's 30 now. That was a long time ago. She counts only maybe six of her past & present partners to be notable, at most, myself being among them.
Her experience is helpful to me, being inexperienced. She knows many things that I do not and can usually teach me. It works in my favor and I do not think any less of her for her past."
My wife is the 2nd woman I've dated or slept with. I've dated 3 and slept with 4. She's been with over 100 men and women (by her estimate), having started very early, putting a pedophile in prison, going through the swinging community, the polyamory community and the bdsm community... But I'm the only one she's ever accepted a collar or ring from (she has both)
I do not consider my wife to be a slut. She's never cheated on a partner. She hasn't slept with anyone without getting to know them first... She may have pressured friends into trying sexual things with her when she was a kid, but she's 30 now. That was a long time ago. She counts only maybe six of her past & present partners to be notable, at most, myself being among them.
Her experience is helpful to me, being inexperienced. She knows many things that I do not and can usually teach me. It works in my favor and I do not think any less of her for her past."
Malikthegod
opposite of mediocre
If you haven't read the 48 Laws you need to. Invaluable jewels hidden within.
If you are getting married you should marry the best looking woman you can. I don't see why dudes are marrying these overweight ugly women and setting themselves up to be miserable for the rest of their lives.
Ohms Law
All Star
While i agree with the second statement, with the first I think you meant to say marry someone they find attractive or is universally attractive ? As opposed to saying a man should put a womans beauty before everything else?
But lets be honest. Guys that do end up marrying overweight/ugly women typically do so because thats the best they can find
Huellz Santana
Shocking
@kevm3 I feel you 100% about the MGTOW and PUA communities. A lot of their message is riddled with hate. They hate women for being slighted in life. a lot of PUA's are former geeks and I can't identify with that. A lot of MGTOW have similar issues.
But they do drop useful gems. I extract stuff from each one.
por exemplo...
this spoke to me and helped me realize why I was having such a hard time getting over my ex. I have a career but I don't have a calling. and truthfully I'm kinda scared to find one.
regardless, I learn a lot reading these things every day. in conjunction with this thread. im also grown enough to filter out the BS. I wish I knew a lot of this earlier in life, but I'm sure I would've ignored the message until the consequences hit close to home and I went thru heartbreak
But they do drop useful gems. I extract stuff from each one.
por exemplo...
this spoke to me and helped me realize why I was having such a hard time getting over my ex. I have a career but I don't have a calling. and truthfully I'm kinda scared to find one.
regardless, I learn a lot reading these things every day. in conjunction with this thread. im also grown enough to filter out the BS. I wish I knew a lot of this earlier in life, but I'm sure I would've ignored the message until the consequences hit close to home and I went thru heartbreak
I have to disagree, Iooks fde fast for females, and once looks go what are you stuk with?
Nothing.
Now I'm not saying marrying shrek, but a decent looking broad who you click with and has traits of loyalty, honesty, and truly loves you in the ups and downs beats the best looking broad you can marry
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Men Who struggle after breakups for long periods usually invest so much in their girl so whn there hit with a break up its a struggle.
Invest everything in a broad when she's gone you have nothing.
Just like stocks gotta diversify
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Huellz Santana
Shocking
biggest investment i made was time. 5+ years of my prime. 
i aint even no simp like that either. ive always been an a$$hole but it felt good knowing that my girl was ALWAYS there. then when its gone it fukks with you. So I suffer from the "she's different from other girls" mantra. which gets reinforced when you out chea on this dating scene and see how selfish women can be.
but ive learned a lot. most women are the same no matter how different you think they are. she shared a lot of traits that I see in new girls I meet. its kinda funny actually.
i aint even no simp like that either. ive always been an a$$hole but it felt good knowing that my girl was ALWAYS there. then when its gone it fukks with you. So I suffer from the "she's different from other girls" mantra. which gets reinforced when you out chea on this dating scene and see how selfish women can be.
but ive learned a lot. most women are the same no matter how different you think they are. she shared a lot of traits that I see in new girls I meet. its kinda funny actually.
T-K-G
Veteran
can nikkas slow down with rehashing the same thing 50 times tho?might see like 1 or 2 REAL gems per page with like 2342432 things being repeated surrounding it, we get it fam
Pretty much you learn that they come and go for the same reasons. They just feel like they've upgraded or they got bored... but it's real easy getting comfortable with a woman and not wanting to think she is like the rest, but more times she is and getting comfortable is one of the worst things you can do. Pretty much why I advise focusing on things others than women. You really can't control what they will do next or when they will come and go, so it is much better to look at them as a sort of luxury... something that is enjoyable while it is there, but nothing that you ever really NEED to have. The 'find your passion' thing is a nice endeavor. You may not be able to just go quit your job, but saving your money, getting all your debts paid off and using your free time to find exactly what it is you like to do is a nice plan to have.
Was at a bar again last night. Ran into this girl from class who seemed to be genuinely interested in me. She mentioned hoping that I would show up, and even bought me a beer.
I made a mistake though. This acquaintance of mine (can't fully call him a friend yet, I know him through another friend, but I'm still getting accustomed to this guy's viewpoints and shyt) was pretty drunk and was trying to mooch off of my stature and aura to get some tail. I was too open, and told him that I was waiting on a girl to come back with a drink for me.
The girl from class comes back, I introduce them to each other, and this fool starts rambling on talkin' bout, "you should buy us drinks." I'm trying to awkwardly laugh it off but I'm sittin there with the heavy
going. The guy was overly thirsty. I was thinking of the posters in this thread, and about the heavy contrast in approaches to women that was going on with the guy hanging around me. Every being that had a vagina was getting raved over by this dude. "I think these girls are models." "These girls are beautiful man." "Ah, we let those girls get away man."
It was disgusting. I told this cat that while yes, there are some attractive females in the area, I'm not going to chase any of them, for I don't find that to be a necessity, I don't want to play into games at the moment. He was perplexed as fukk. I was getting ready to dip, told dude he could stay and he responds with "I have no swag." He lucks up though in the parking lot. Some drunk birthday girl in the passenger seat of a truck notices his tye dye t-shirt, calls him over, and kisses him twice. The dude was geekin'. After the first kiss, he told her to get a cab, she didn't adhere to his requests but this fool wouldn't stop harping over the shyt in the car. I can't recall the last time I've heard someone marvel over a random kiss like that.
We're all constructed differently, but I'm really glad that chasing vagina isn't a top priority of mine. It would ruin my experience in public settings. It just feels odd to me. This isn't a gem or advice or anything, so I apologize about that. Just wanted to share.
I made a mistake though. This acquaintance of mine (can't fully call him a friend yet, I know him through another friend, but I'm still getting accustomed to this guy's viewpoints and shyt) was pretty drunk and was trying to mooch off of my stature and aura to get some tail. I was too open, and told him that I was waiting on a girl to come back with a drink for me.
The girl from class comes back, I introduce them to each other, and this fool starts rambling on talkin' bout, "you should buy us drinks." I'm trying to awkwardly laugh it off but I'm sittin there with the heavy
going. The guy was overly thirsty. I was thinking of the posters in this thread, and about the heavy contrast in approaches to women that was going on with the guy hanging around me. Every being that had a vagina was getting raved over by this dude. "I think these girls are models." "These girls are beautiful man." "Ah, we let those girls get away man."It was disgusting. I told this cat that while yes, there are some attractive females in the area, I'm not going to chase any of them, for I don't find that to be a necessity, I don't want to play into games at the moment. He was perplexed as fukk. I was getting ready to dip, told dude he could stay and he responds with "I have no swag." He lucks up though in the parking lot. Some drunk birthday girl in the passenger seat of a truck notices his tye dye t-shirt, calls him over, and kisses him twice. The dude was geekin'. After the first kiss, he told her to get a cab, she didn't adhere to his requests but this fool wouldn't stop harping over the shyt in the car. I can't recall the last time I've heard someone marvel over a random kiss like that.
We're all constructed differently, but I'm really glad that chasing vagina isn't a top priority of mine. It would ruin my experience in public settings. It just feels odd to me. This isn't a gem or advice or anything, so I apologize about that. Just wanted to share.
Was at a bar again last night. Ran into this girl from class who seemed to be genuinely interested in me. She mentioned hoping that I would show up, and even bought me a beer.
I made a mistake though. This acquaintance of mine (can't fully call him a friend yet, I know him through another friend, but I'm still getting accustomed to this guy's viewpoints and shyt) was pretty drunk and was trying to mooch off of my stature and aura to get some tail. I was too open, and told him that I was waiting on a girl to come back with a drink for me.
The girl from class comes back, I introduce them to each other, and this fool starts rambling on talkin' bout, "you should buy us drinks." I'm trying to awkwardly laugh it off but I'm sittin there with the heavy
It was disgusting. I told this cat that while yes, there are some attractive females in the area, I'm not going to chase any of them, for I don't find that to be a necessity, I don't want to play into games at the moment. He was perplexed as fukk. I was getting ready to dip, told dude he could stay and he responds with "I have no swag." He lucks up though in the parking lot. Some drunk birthday girl in the passenger seat of a truck notices his tye dye t-shirt, calls him over, and kisses him twice. The dude was geekin'. After the first kiss, he told her to get a cab, she didn't adhere to his requests but this fool wouldn't stop harping over the shyt in the car. I can't recall the last time I've heard someone marvel over a random kiss like that.
We're all constructed differently, but I'm really glad that chasing vagina isn't a top priority of mine. It would ruin my experience in public settings. It just feels odd to me. This isn't a gem or advice or anything, so I apologize about that. Just wanted to share.
Man..He definitely needs some guidance from you..he's headed down a path of destruction.
