Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

this thread is so real...

you really have to build an immune system to this shyt...

shyts like studying for an exam at least 3 times a week i'll visit this thread and revise
i wanna get good grades on how to deal with these birds

 

[360dagod]

shyts like studying for an exam at least 3 times a week i'll visit this thread and revise
i wanna get good grades on how to deal with these birds

You really gotta practice giving these broads the when you catch them looking...

Dont even pay them any mind until you catch them "slippin"

we gotta break the chains my nikka..1 step at a time..

They gotta start feeling blessed for you even acknowledging them

 

[DaRealness]

I agree with all the posts above. If a woman really loves your mind, it doesn't matter what you do. The movie Coming to America told us this YEARS ago and I don't know how cats haven't drawn that simple concept from it.

Lisa was what dudes today would consider an untouchable dime, she had looks, money, everything. Akeem pretended to be a poor man with a goat herder background on minimum wage with a few pennies to his name while living in poor accommodation. Lisa was digging him so much, she didn't care about any of that. She was ready to cook for him in his own apartment in the middle of the ghetto and everything. In fact, if you remember, she was upset with him after a while because she was gagging for it and wanted to jump his bones and he was saying it didn't feel right yet because he didn't want to rush her (which is another lesson for all you thirsty dudes). She was in effect chasing HIM. When she asked him later on in the movie why he didn't tell her he was a Prince, he rightly said "because I wanted you to love me for who I am". People need to watch that movie again because there were a few gems in that flick in the way he handled his relationship with Lisa.

Throw away all the articles that talk about what places chicks love and whatnot. All that shyt is irrelevant because different women like different things. You'll be able to gauge all of that when you talk with her anyway. If you know of a decent spot that you see couples and families frequent, then take her there - and that's IF you even want to spend money on her in the first place. Just meeting up in a museum somewhere is good enough. Find a woman that shares common interests so you'll know what she's into - i.e. history, arts etc and go to a public gallery or something where you can walk around. I'll probably take my next chick to the British Museum. One of MY requirements is that a broad has to be somewhat cerebral and can engage in intelligent conversation as well as enjoying simple things. If I'm "boring" cos I'm not taking her to the hottest club in town, then she's obviously not the one for me so I KIM. If she doesn't like my Nissan Primera and wouldn't be caught dead in it, then she's definitely not the one for me lol.

Sometimes the chicks we want aren't always the ones who are good for us, so it's just a case of keeping within your lane. The way I look at it, there are literally billions of women worldwide. Out of those billions, there have to be at least 10 who are a good match for you.

 

[Sharp]

cosign, plus the thing that alot of single moms do is corrupt their kids minds, how do you know dad was a loser or a deadbeat? cuz mommy told them

my uncle had a child like 30 years ago, and he paid child support every month for the whole time, his daughter hated him, until last year they finally talked and she realized that my uncle her father was paying child support he was not a deadbeat and wanted to be in her life but her mom didnt want him around.

A deeper question we sometimes need to have the courage to ask ourselves is that if a father wasn't around, or the child doesn't know their father was

1) the father a scumbag

2) the mom prevented the dad from being in the child's life

3) the mom was a whore that slept with so many dudes she can't positively identify the father.

We've all seen the Maury show at least once. These women are disgusting, yet people feel sympathetic for them and always boo the men regardless of if they are the father or not. Society portrays women as victims and men as abuser/users no matter what the situation is.

Nobody ever tells a single mother that she needs to go and get a job. No, they tell her that we need to find out who the dad is so that he can pay.

This whole system is sickening.

 

[Turbulent]

if a chick explicitly tells you she wants a gentleman or looking for a gentleman, chances are she's used to and likes dealing with a$$holes.

 

[Not By Bread Alone]

I'll probably take my next chick to the British Museum.

a great place...

whole post is on point... whole thread is on point!

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree with all the posts above. If a woman really loves your mind, it doesn't matter what you do. The movie Coming to America told us that YEARS ago and I don't know how cats haven't drawn that simple concept from it.

Lisa was what dudes today would consider an untouchable dime, she had looks, money everything. Akeem pretended to be a poor man with a goat herder background on minimum wage with a few pennies to his name while living in poor accommodation. Lisa was digging him so much, she didn't care about any of that. She was ready to cook for him in his own apartment in the middle of the ghetto and everything. In fact, if you remember, she was upset with him after a while because she was gagging for it and wanted to jump his bones and he was saying it didn't feel right yet because he didn't want to rush her (which is another lesson for all you thirsty dudes). She was in effect chasing HIM. When she asked him later on in the movie why he didn't tell her he was a Prince, he rightly said "because I wanted you to love me for who I am". People need to watch that movie again because there were a few gems in that flick in the way he handled his relationship with Lisa.

Throw away all the articles that talk about what places chicks love and whatnot. All that shyt is irrelevant because different women like different things. You'll be able to gauge all of that when you talk with her anyway. If you know of a decent spot that you see couples and families frequent, then take her there - and that's IF you even want to spend money on her in the first place. Just meeting up in a museum somewhere is good enough. Find a woman that shares common interests you so you'll know what she's into - i.e. history, arts etc and go to a public gallery or something where you can walk around. I'll probably take my next chick to the British Museum. One of MY requirements is that a broad has to be somewhat cerebral and can engage in intelligent conversation as well as enjoying simple things. If I'm "boring" cos I'm not taking her to the hottest club in town, then she's obviously not the one for me so I KIM. If she doesn't like my Nissan Primera and wouldn't be caught dead in it, then she's definitely not the one for me lol.

Sometimes the chicks we want aren't always the ones who are good for us, so it's just a case of keeping within your lane. The way I look at it, there are literally billions of women worldwide. Out of those billions, there have to be at least 10 who are a good match for you.

lol i mentioned earlier in thsi thread last year i went out on a date with this 30 year old broad who had her mba and lived downtown, she didnt even have a car, everythign was going great but once she went in my toyota corolla everything changed :notimpressed:

 

[Sharp]

Once we stop worrying or concerning ourselves with what women want, the better off we will be.

Stop trying to be the man that women want you to be. Be the man that you want to be, because after all, you're the one who has to wake up and look at yourself in the mirror everyday.

False confidence comes from other people liking you.

True confidence comes from you liking yourself.

All that impressing women shyt...... toss it in the garbage.

The only responsibility you have when dating is effectively showing this woman who you are as a person aka being yourself.

You don't want a woman who wants you to put on a role or entertain her in order for her to want to be in your presence.

And stop putting these heffers on a pedestal.

I want to examine a case study that you all are aware of, yet may have not of paid attention to

SEAN "DIDDY" COMBS

Diddy is powerful, and has women sweating him. He seems relentless when it comes to these heffers. He has Cassie jumping thru hoops. He has Kim Porter doing everything she can to stay in his good graces, but pay attention to his relationship with J. Lo

Why was that outcome so different?

It wasn't because of the Shyne Case. It was because he was a simp when it came to her. He put her on a pedestal, constantly professed to her how much he loved her. He even wrote songs about her, even after she distanced herself from him. And did any of this stuff help him get her back? No, because he gave her all the power in the relationship by making her believe that she was the prize. And then, look at her track record. Diddy, Dancer, Ben Affleck, and her last husband, she has no sense of loyalty.

Loyalty fellas. This is the main requirement a woman must bring to the table. Her loyalty must always be tested. If you take a dog off the leash, that dog should not wonder off too far and should heed all commands. If the dog cannot follow these simple tenets, how can you trust your dog? The same with women.

 

[MikelArteta]

Once we stop worrying or concerning ourselves with what women want, the better off we will be.

Stop trying to be the man that women want you to be. Be the man that you want to be, because after all, you're the one who has to wake up and look at yourself in the mirror everyday.

False confidence comes from other people liking you.

True confidence comes from you liking yourself.

All that impressing women shyt...... toss it in the garbage.

The only responsibility you have when dating is effectively showing this woman who you are as a person aka being yourself.

You don't want a woman who wants you to put on a role or entertain her in order for her to want to be in your presence.

And stop putting these heffers on a pedestal.

I want to examine a case study that you all are aware of, yet may have not of paid attention to

SEAN "DIDDY" COMBS

Diddy is powerful, and has women sweating him. He seems relentless when it comes to these heffers. He has Cassie jumping thru hoops. He has Kim Porter doing everything she can to stay in his good graces, but pay attention to his relationship with J. Lo

Why was that outcome so different?

It wasn't because of the Shyne Case. It was because he was a simp when it came to her. He put her on a pedestal, constantly professed to her how much he loved her. He even wrote songs about her, even after she distanced herself from him. And did any of this stuff help him get her back? No, because he gave her all the power in the relationship by making her believe that she was the prize. And then, look at her track record. Diddy, Dancer, Ben Affleck, and her last husband, she has no sense of loyalty.

Loyalty fellas. This is the main requirement a woman must bring to the table. Her loyalty must always be tested. If you take a dog off the leash, that dog should not wonder off too far and should heed all commands. If the dog cannot follow these simple tenets, how can you trust your dog? The same with women.

 

[360dagod]

Once we stop worrying or concerning ourselves with what women want, the better off we will be.

Stop trying to be the man that women want you to be. Be the man that you want to be, because after all, you're the one who has to wake up and look at yourself in the mirror everyday.

False confidence comes from other people liking you.

True confidence comes from you liking yourself.

All that impressing women shyt...... toss it in the garbage.

The only responsibility you have when dating is effectively showing this woman who you are as a person aka being yourself.

You don't want a woman who wants you to put on a role or entertain her in order for her to want to be in your presence.

And stop putting these heffers on a pedestal.

I want to examine a case study that you all are aware of, yet may have not of paid attention to

SEAN "DIDDY" COMBS

Diddy is powerful, and has women sweating him. He seems relentless when it comes to these heffers. He has Cassie jumping thru hoops. He has Kim Porter doing everything she can to stay in his good graces, but pay attention to his relationship with J. Lo

Why was that outcome so different?

It wasn't because of the Shyne Case. It was because he was a simp when it came to her. He put her on a pedestal, constantly professed to her how much he loved her. He even wrote songs about her, even after she distanced herself from him. And did any of this stuff help him get her back? No, because he gave her all the power in the relationship by making her believe that she was the prize. And then, look at her track record. Diddy, Dancer, Ben Affleck, and her last husband, she has no sense of loyalty.

Loyalty fellas. This is the main requirement a woman must bring to the table. Her loyalty must always be tested. If you take a dog off the leash, that dog should not wonder off too far and should heed all commands. If the dog cannot follow these simple tenets, how can you trust your dog? The same with women.

I never looked at that situation in that light

 

[MikelArteta]

Listened to this on Thursday recorded and uploaded listen to it brehs

All you brehs hanging on to exes getting jealous listen

[ame]http://vocaroo.com/i/s0qIS4qK2ZIj[/ame]

sent from royalty via tapatalk

 

[AquaCityBoy]

 

[sixsixtwo]

Don’t Date Girls With Borderline Personality Disorder

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

For those who are in relationships who are currently experiencing difficulties, I have some advice for you.

First you have to admit to yourselves that you are having difficulties in your relationship because your woman doesn't respect you as the authority figure or the "head" of your relationship.

I'm not sure how this even started, but we have conformed to the belief that it is our responsibility to make things right in our relationships.

Understand that you can't make a woman respect you. She must naturally do so, and this is done thru strong leadership and decisiveness. Your word must be your word, and you must carry out all consequences. You must establish rules, guidelines, and boundaries. Your woman must always be aware, not thru words, but actions, that being with you is a privilege.

You must also respect your woman. Don't call her out her name, belittle her, or do anything negative towards her, because after all, if she is these such horrible things, why are you still with her? You should leave. A lot of brothers will belittle a woman, and then wonders why she either blatantly or subliminally disrespects you.

The moment you feel that you can no longer treat this woman with respect, it is time to end the relationship. Nothing good can come from it.

A woman that refuses to be lead, should be left. You wouldn't attempt to domesticate a tiger would you? Some people have tried, but history proves that the tiger will be a tiger and eventually harm the owner. Why be with a woman who will eventually become belligerent and defiant. Leave her in the wild.

Also be firm and assertive with your communication. Be firm with your "yes" and "no". If woman feels you can manipulate your no into a yes, she will, and then your word will have no value.

Be loving and affectionate towards her, but be manly. She should be the one craving affection, and you should be the one complimenting it. It is so pathetic when a man is craving affection from his woman in a relationship. If she's not automatically being affectionate towards you, then her connection with you is not strong, and you should question if this is the type of relationship you should be in.

You will almost definitely be challenged by your woman during your relationship, but as long as you are firm, discipline, and keep your word, you can't lose. If the first blow is the strongest and hardest, she will think twice before she raises up again.

Breh, this post just restored me. At least when it comes to a relationship. I needed this on a Sunday morning. I've racked my brain for a few days as to what I'm not hittin' on and you just showed me.

This post has made me take responsibility for my lack of action and assertiveness when it comes to being in a relationship. I'm guilty of being lax and "meh" once I have a woman as my own. Side chicks and jump offs have reaped the benefits this whole time (I'm a bit of a dikk to em BUT I'm really not; I say what I mean, mean what I say, make moves when I say I will, denounce bad behavior, and I assure them they are not the center of my world or life; they are merely in a position to earn that coveted spot). Here's the thing, that "coveted" spot has been a regressive break from what they've been exposed to. I take full responsibility for my "switch sided-ness"...

I vow to never allow a woman or any entity to have a counter-productive influence on my life again. I vow to never hold any lowly being (person or possession) to skew my visions or block my road to being the coldest brother alive. I vow to never be a man of convicting words with empty action.

The time is now!

Many blessings to you all! Big ups to you @Sharp...

 

[sixsixtwo]

NO MA'AM: Bonecrker #44 - Women Have Contradictory Love

NO MA'AM: Philalethes #27 - In the "Battle of the Sexes," If She "Wins," She Loses!