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"If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love."

that quote spoke to me today. just sharing​

Somewhat agree

Whnn your looking for something you rarely find it or it takes forever Whnn you relax it's like oh there it is




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Another thought...this has been said before and the video I posted of Tariq speaking of his trip in Brazil emphasised this point: If you're a single guy and have the money and the means, Travel, travel, travel! As long as you're wise with your money and not blowing it away on foolishness, I'd advise anyone to see the world. If you can work for yourself eventually and have that independence, then you're :win:

I had a job yesterday evening by Heathrow Airport and got talking to a guy who works for Virgin Atlantic and he told me ever since he started traveling on his own and seeing different places around the world, he's never been better.

I've yet to see an unhappy backpacker. You notice how they generally know where to get the best deals and where to stay. I remember watching Snakes on a Plane when that dude was saying he was planning a surfing trip to Bali after Hawaii and thinking :obama:, that's that life. I wanna see temples, kick it with tribesmen, go deep in the rainforests and hold Toucan birds and watch monkeys and shyt like that. I used to enjoy watching shows like Globe Trekker where the presenters would do shows all around the world and experience any and everything a traveler would. If you do the research, you can travel on a budget and you can even meet people along the way who may be able to hook you up with a thing or two.

I already subscribed to a monthly travel magazine to get ideas of the countries I want to visit in the future. When I'm on my deathbed, I'd rather say that I traveled the world and got exposed to many different lands and cultures than thinking back on superficial nonsense like trying to look cute and shyt which doesn't mean a thing once you're old anyway.

If I could, I'd fly abroad four times a year.
 

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Another thought...this has been said before and the video I posted of Tariq speaking of his trip in Brazil emphasised this point: If you're a single guy and have the money and the means, Travel, travel, travel! As long as you're wise with your money and not blowing it away on foolishness, I'd advise anyone to see the world. If you can work for yourself eventually and have that independence, then you're :win:

I had a job yesterday evening by Heathrow Airport and got talking to a guy who works for Virgin Atlantic and he told me ever since he started traveling on his own and seeing different places around the world, he's never been better.

I've yet to see an unhappy backpacker. You notice how they generally know where to get the best deals and where to stay. I remember watching Snakes on a Plane when that dude was saying he was planning a surfing trip to Bali after Hawaii and thinking :obama:, that's that life. I wanna see temples, kick it with tribesmen, go deep in the rainforests and hold Toucan birds and watch monkeys and shyt like that. I used to enjoy watching shows like Globe Trekker where the presenters would do shows all around the world and experience any and everything a traveler would. If you do the research, you can travel on a budget and you can even meet people along the way who may be able to hook you up with a thing or two.

I already subscribed to a monthly travel magazine to get ideas of the countries I want to visit in the future. When I'm on my deathbed, I'd rather say that I traveled the world and got exposed to many different lands and cultures than thinking back on superficial nonsense like trying to look cute and shyt which doesn't mean a thing once you're old anyway.

If I could, I'd fly abroad four times a year.

Traveling is not even that expensive especially as a single man who does not care about luxury

I went to cuba for a week for 700 bucks and that was 5 star hotel

I always see like 4 day trips to vegas for like 500

Or you can even get a cheap flight to Miami and a 3 day cruise to Bahamas for like 350 total

Also whn you travel you will see so much gorgeous Women who aren't entitled simped after and will actually be nice to you,

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I have a question

what do you do when a girl your man dated over a year ago is showing interest in you?

your man is out of town you quite frankly dont talk to him alot, but you guys are close in terms of the longevity of the friendship...

if you two have grown apart in terms of how much yall kick it, and communicate, and hes in a different state most of the time....is it ok to get with his ex, when

1. You and her are WAY more compatible not just over her and him, but over other women too....she is a real down chick to you, and only showed interest after they broke up.

2. She broke up with him because she didnt feel he paid enough attention to her, and she took time off to get herself together....shes real good girl type think Jurnee Smolett in temptations type.

3. He was messing with other chicks while they were together, and you knew it, and deep down inside were like (SMH)....but because he was your boy you dapped him up.

4. If she is in your vicinity like every day due to location?


do you still go for it? or is that not allowed in the man law?
 

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I have a question

what do you do when a girl your man dated over a year ago is showing interest in you?

your man is out of town you quite frankly dont talk to him alot, but you guys are close in terms of the longevity of the friendship...

if you two have grown apart in terms of how much yall kick it, and communicate, and hes in a different state most of the time....is it ok to get with his ex, when

1. You and her are WAY more compatible not just over her and him, but over other women too....she is a real down chick to you, and only showed interest after they broke up.

2. She broke up with him because she didnt feel he paid enough attention to her, and she took time off to get herself together....shes real good girl type think Jurnee Smolett in temptations type.

3. He was messing with other chicks while they were together, and you knew it, and deep down inside were like (SMH)....but because he was your boy you dapped him up.

4. If she is in your vicinity like every day due to location?


do you still go for it? or is that not allowed in the man law?

dont do it

why?

because its going to bother him, if the roles were reversed how would you feel?

exactly

look theres over 3.6 billion women in the world, why mess with one your boy messed with?

women come and go,good male friends dont
 

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dont do it

why?

because its going to bother him, if the roles were reversed how would you feel?

exactly

look theres over 3.6 billion women in the world, why mess with one your boy messed with?

women come and go,good male friends dont



honestly? i wouldnt care maybe im just a different cat, but if its my ex, then im emotionally mature enough to move on, because I know theres so many women out there...


but I get where u coming from.
 

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honestly? i wouldnt care maybe im just a different cat, but if its my ex, then im emotionally mature enough to move on, because I know theres so many women out there...


but I get where u coming from.

Best to leave it alone because cats more than likely have feelings for their ex's still. He may give you the go-ahead, but more than likely he will have some kind of feelings and thoughts behind it that he isn't telling you about. Women very often find a way to come into a situation and ruin a great friendship pulling stuff like this. If she has so little concern about her ex, aka your friend, to go holler at one of his buds, how do you think she's going to do you down the line?
 
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