Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think women instinctively respond to that type, and cant help but notice a man who looks strong in his appearance. sure they might just pass him by with hardly a glance or of little concern if she already has a man, or has other requirements that she really wants in a man. but chances are - shes still going to look. its just the self control and values thats missing with a lot of people today.

todays women jock a lot harder and smut themselves out because there are many people out there who are telling them that having random sex is cool, and that there isnt going to be an issue with them jumping all over this guy. women end up riding the cock carousel and taking no one seriously in their prime years, and that is leading to men not taking them seriously. THAT is whats disrupting a lot of the family unit today, and leaving aging women bitter on pof talking about "wheres my prince charming?."

I think this involuntary noticing is somewhat the same as when we men notice a curvy, voluptuous woman with a thin waist. and we might look at her features, and like what we see, but it doesnt mean it has to be any more than that. :whoo: this looking might even be something cant really help. but just because we look, doesnt mean we're buying into it.



its those men who go into thirst mode and start emptying out their wallets for any ol thick ass woman, and revolve their whole lives around these simple impulses that end up fukked up and for falling for a pretty face with a big ass. they turn into straight simps and have a lack of self control, they begin to start following behind these woman all of the time. have me like :stopitslime:

Do you think tricking is an addiction as well as an obvious sign of insecurity?
 

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Why is it that muscles are more important than brains? See so many buff guys in this gym but most seem like complete idiots/simpletons tbh.

They'll be hawked by many, and will attract a certain kind, but they will be left in the dust when someone with both qualities comes around. Just like guys want to rip the p*ssy of a women with curves, but if she has nothing else to offer, we move on. That's why you step your game up. Read, learn, and stay in shape. Don't think your brains will get you far if you're looking :flabbynsick:. We want are women looking good, so you should do the same.
 

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Carné Asada;3878663 said:
They'll be hawked by many, and will attract a certain kind, but they will be left in the dust when someone with both qualities comes around. Just like guys want to rip the p*ssy of a women with curves, but if she has nothing else to offer, we move on. That's why you step your game up. Read, learn, and stay in shape. Don't think your brains will get you far if you're looking :flabbynsick:. We want are women looking good, so you should do the same.

Trust me I do, which is why I told the story about that teacher with the PHd yesterday. Older women who are somewhat intelligent just seem to be crazy friendly around me. They'll never cross the boundary but they're often sparking up convos with me more than they will with your average 21 year old. Am I the only one to have experienced this?

And what are some things that you suggest reading/learning?
tbh we should offer advice on books and shyt, and not just books on women and all of that, but actual good novels and perhaps even movies and albums and even fashion if need be.
 

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Trust me I do, which is why I told the story about that teacher with the PHd yesterday. Older women who are somewhat intelligent just seem to be crazy friendly around me. They'll never cross the boundary but they're often sparking up convos with me more than they will with your average 21 year old. Am I the only one to have experienced this?

And what are some things that you suggest reading/learning?
tbh we should offer advice on books and shyt, and not just books on women and all of that, but actual good novels and perhaps even movies and albums and even fashion if need be.

Nope not only you....also 21 years old and this happened to me with I'm guessing a late 20s early 30s woman in the administration building at my college where she was helping me with something graduation/credits related after the vice president sent me there.

Not sure if you meant late 20s early 30s when you said "older" but in either case I know what you mean. She was super friendly and it wasn't in that ditzy dunce stereotypical valley girl way. Hard to explain but in terms of crossing the boundary whenever I come across friendly women like that, some folks may think they are just being polite but I'm good at reading people...

I'm sure a guy like you can understand even if it is hard to put in words exactly. Basically if the opportunity arose, she would possibly make a gesture.
 

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Nope not only you....also 21 years old and this happened to me with I'm guessing a late 20s early 30s woman in the administration building at my college where she was helping me with something graduation/credits related after the vice president sent me there.

Not sure if you meant late 20s early 30s when you said "older" but in either case I know what you mean. She was super friendly and it wasn't in that ditzy dunce stereotypical valley girl way. Hard to explain but in terms of crossing the boundary whenever I come across friendly women like that, some folks may think they are just being polite but I'm good at reading people...

I'm sure a guy like you can understand even if it is hard to put in words exactly. Basically if the opportunity arose, she would possibly make a gesture.

Exactly, there's something about an older woman that's interested in you. The woman I mentioned I had a fiancé, but still. It's weird it's like they don't undermine you just because of your age and they listen a crazy amount. Like for me I was standing up when I ran into her and she was at a table, I ended up sitting down and having a +20 minute conversation with her. They know how to lure you in, and they can carry a conversation to the point to where they know you're young and instead of letting one die out, they know how to control the conversation and lead you to opening yourself up to them, like with that woman with the PhD I never asked 3 questions, in fact it was her asking most of the questions and before I had known it she had basically found out who I was. Not on the outside as far as material possessions and such, but on the inside as far as thought process and what level I'm on mentally; it was weird. And all at this time I never felt uncomfortable, I never felt like I had to force conversation it just seemed effortless, calming, and entertaining.

shyt is mad weird tbh. These older chicks bro I swear dealing with them, whether you're fukking them or conversing with them, they can really put you onto another level as far as thinking. Because they've played the game and if they're intelligent (like the woman I'm speaking about) they can fukking spot a young intelligent man from a mile away and they'll feed him life lessons and shyt.
 

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Do you think tricking is an addiction as well as an obvious sign of insecurity?

yeah I think it is. thats a very good point you bring up. these same women that have men tricking on them today have most likely in the past, as well as today or in the future, have fukked with men who dont spend lots of dough on them. its these men that feel like they need to buy the affections of a woman that play themselves out and get their pockets lifted.
 

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Exactly, there's something about an older woman that's interested in you. The woman I mentioned I had a fiancé, but still. It's weird it's like they don't undermine you just because of your age and they listen a crazy amount. Like for me I was standing up when I ran into her and she was at a table, I ended up sitting down and having a +20 minute conversation with her. They know how to lure you in, and they can carry a conversation to the point to where they know you're young and instead of letting one die out, they know how to control the conversation and lead you to opening yourself up to them, like with that woman with the PhD I never asked 3 questions, in fact it was her asking most of the questions and before I had known it she had basically found out who I was. Not on the outside as far as material possessions and such, but on the inside as far as thought process and what level I'm on mentally; it was weird. And all at this time I never felt uncomfortable, I never felt like I had to force conversation it just seemed effortless, calming, and entertaining.

shyt is mad weird tbh. These older chicks bro I swear dealing with them, whether you're fukking them or conversing with them, they can really put you onto another level as far as thinking. Because they've played the game and if they're intelligent (like the woman I'm speaking about) they can fukking spot a young intelligent man from a mile away and they'll feed him life lessons and shyt.

Also during my whole conversation with her sitting down, honestly it was just related to the question I had asked the VP about graduation/credits and long story short there wasn't an outside the box conversation.

But like you mentioned, its like when I was introduced to her, her eyes kind of lit up and was just friendly. And I'm not some stud or anything LOL...just a regular dude. I almost died when at some point one of the guy working up front came to the back and she said she straight up said in a straightforward tone without being rude how she can't talk too much or answer the phone when she has a student with her(guess he had been tryi.g to connect her with someone)

But man the older broads like that, its like you can tell they are big on conversation. I can spot fakeness a mile away especially from those Hoodrat girls who try and pretend they are introverted when as an introvert myself I know what is genuine.

Now I don't know what the PHD woman you mentioned and her physical traits are, but the woman I came across yesterday was just about a 5"3/5"4 short and thin brunette....

But this is what some of us in here were talking about how even if a woman doesn't have a banging body, they can knock you out with their allure....

Also after I came back to thank her for the help with what we were doing.........said no problem and asked if she gave me her card....said no and she gave it to me. Then told me she would call on the number I left sometime after 5 to confirm to me she registered for that summer class for me.....

She called around 5:30 told me confirming she registered me for that summer class I need to graduate .

This is only the second girl like that I've met on campus in my 2 and a half years.....some folks may think its just a polite worker which could be true.....but its actually reading that person and seeing how genuine they are.

Although we did not have a conversation like you and PHD woman, she was open in the same way when we were talking and if out of the workplace I'm sure it would be a great conversation. From the Card that she gave me.....saw her on the school website that she had a masters and in the social work field....(there are bytchy social workers so I don't think its a profession reason)




























Man as skinny and short as she is I would smash that woman :ohlawd:
 

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do you guys ever sit back and realize how much effort you put into understanding women and relationships, i'm not accusing cause I am guilty as well. It just makes me sick that we put so much thought into them. just writing paragraphs and paragraphs about girls, and talking about girls all the time. i do frequent this thread a lot and also i feel ashamed i frequent it a lot cause i just put too much though into girls.

last night i was talking to my cousin about some situation i was in with a girl and he reminded me that i was overthinking it, i really was and I didn't even realize i was until he told me and i'm happy i caught my self.

this is me just READING this thread. i'm like 30 minutes in thinking, the fukk am i reading this for :mindblown:
 

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Okay let me ask yall something

i met this chick little more than a month ago, went out on first date like a week and a half ago monday, it Seemed it went really well, about 5 hours long, she didin't check her phone once, was able to get a little touchy feely also and she reciprocated fine, gave her a goodnight kiss at the end. The next day she texted me first, the day after that also, said something reminded me off her, all seemed well. then saturday she texted me saying she thought of me friday night, i asked her how she was and she just ignored it, she's ignored before so it's w/e. Fast forward this week i texted (i woulda asked her at my uni but she wasn't on campus that day when i asked so i juss txtd her) her if she had plans thurs/friday, she said she was doing something friday and the other day she usually goes home to do hw, :camface: so i said okay well i'm free thursday evening to do something, she didn't text back. i haven't texted her back since cause no reason to nd ball is in her court now. I Already know what i'm gonna do. just wnat your opinions

btw this is the girl you guys that wasn't into me/fukkign with another nikka while ago but i managed to get a first date at least. i mean other nikkas is def texting her and she could be but yea, what yall think ?
 

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Okay let me ask yall something

i met this chick little more than a month ago, went out on first date like a week and a half ago monday, it Seemed it went really well, about 5 hours long, she didin't check her phone once, was able to get a little touchy feely also and she reciprocated fine, gave her a goodnight kiss at the end. The next day she texted me first, the day after that also, said something reminded me off her, all seemed well. then saturday she texted me saying she thought of me friday night, i asked her how she was and she just ignored it, she's ignored before so it's w/e. Fast forward this week i texted (i woulda asked her at my uni but she wasn't on campus that day when i asked so i juss txtd her) her if she had plans thurs/friday, she said she was doing something friday and the other day she usually goes home to do hw, :camface: so i said okay well i'm free thursday evening to do something, she didn't text back. i haven't texted her back since cause no reason to nd ball is in her court now. I Already know what i'm gonna do. just wnat your opinions

btw this is the girl you guys that wasn't into me/fukkign with another nikka while ago but i managed to get a first date at least. i mean other nikkas is def texting her and she could be but yea, what yall think ?

simply put drop her

if it was a family issue or someone died or something, most people would let that known .

even the most introverted of women are always around their phone....if you had offered to pay her tuition or buy her something....she would have all of a sudden miraculously been available.

i guess she was using you as a backup for one of her other guys and your one of the "Roster Builders" for her.

in her mind....(not saying its true or anything) your appearing like you NEED her and she can respond when she feels like it

Just turn ghost on her and watch her respond
 
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