Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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No offense, but what were you tying to prove with this article? I'm not being abrasive, I'm genuinely asking. From what I read I don't feel the woman is wrong in this particular situation. It's just incompatible expectations in a relationship, neither her nor her husband are really at fault IMO
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How cute.
Poh SIti Dawn
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i was pressured into it
On another note, fellas how do you fight off the thirst? I'm trying to keep wholesome relationships with people and wait until I see someone who like truly captures my eye.
Fair enough my dude. I'm kind've in a similar boat. Here's the thing...don't settle. Stay single until you find a woman that you think is worthy of you, someone who will represent you well, someone who will be willing to compromise, and someone you are physically attracted to. It's cool to date and fukk and all that, but don't make it top priority and don't let a woman become a serious part of your life until she proves that she deserves that distinction.
That's how I see it anyway.
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the act of what is going on is cute
what is disgusting that someone took a picture for the sole purpose of them putting on instagram showing this scene
George Gooney
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Here's a jewel a lot of you will disagree with but I'll add it anyway:
CELEBACY
A great way to avoid inner thirst and to keep women off of undeserving pedestals. If you make it known you ain't just trynna get the cat and you're serious about righteous commitments then you'll only increase the quality of women you encounter and keep ratchet chicks at Bay...Masha'allah
CELEBACY
A great way to avoid inner thirst and to keep women off of undeserving pedestals. If you make it known you ain't just trynna get the cat and you're serious about righteous commitments then you'll only increase the quality of women you encounter and keep ratchet chicks at Bay...Masha'allah
Not gonna use the phrase "real life" to refer to the internet being unreal and different from real life ....because its cliche and not true....
I look at forums as the inner workings of our minds.....I think its better to let it out on here rather than in public. Dudes in public need to know how to network more like we do on here and release all that tension online......not saying to replace the thirstiness in public with online
but just repress yourselves more...This whole myth BOTH men and women are age repeat about "Men are supposed to chase women" has got to stop. Especially when these same hypocritical woman will turn around and say a man is being too thirsty.
About the thirstiness again, it really is embarrassing whenever we see one of those older dudes in the hood by the corner store(let's be straight up we have all seen it) just embarrass themselves with how they act around younger women, whether unmarried or married. Saw a dude one day saw this thick tall dark skinned girl with a perfect perfect fat ass walk by........says "wow" .....then starts to say "excuse me...." but then his voice trails off and he stops himself like he came to his senses....
Then this dude started talking about "THERE IS A GOD..." when his friend came out and he showed her......
I forgot to mention by the way.....there is a high school right across my college.....On the main boulevard with all the stores, I saw these two girls I know for a fact attend High School, and I saw this middle aged white dude working in a truck(again.....why are so many dudes acting like this on the job) try and holla at her as they walked by.
With girls who are actually LEGAL....when will we learn to Stop chasing them.......Let them chase you. You are the business and they are the employee.
They are the maple trees and you are the oak trees.
The hilarious thing is that in that Jenna Shae thread, as expected dudes started doing in about how people making comments in threads like this Gems thread are being gay or dramatic by talking about not going out their way to actively chase for women.
do you guys ever sit back and realize how much effort you put into understanding women and relationships, i'm not accusing cause I am guilty as well. It just makes me sick that we put so much thought into them. just writing paragraphs and paragraphs about girls, and talking about girls all the time. i do frequent this thread a lot and also i feel ashamed i frequent it a lot cause i just put too much though into girls.
last night i was talking to my cousin about some situation i was in with a girl and he reminded me that i was overthinking it, i really was and I didn't even realize i was until he told me and i'm happy i caught my self.
last night i was talking to my cousin about some situation i was in with a girl and he reminded me that i was overthinking it, i really was and I didn't even realize i was until he told me and i'm happy i caught my self.
If you want to accomplish anything at a high level, it takes time and patience to understand the laws that govern success in that endeavor-- women included.
It's only overthinking it if you are neglecting your other responsibilities in other critical areas of your life. It's those cats that don't think enough that end up with huge problems down the line. Women can be enjoyable, but if you are not careful in how you interact with them, they can completely destroy your life. Remember, women have ruined kings before, so what will they do to the average man if he doesn't know how to deal with them properly?
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Man I wish I didn't laugh, but it's almost humorous that you can tell just from that interaction, that that guy is about to have huge problems with his woman.
Cat's go around looking for the 'awwwww' when it comes to women, but when women aww you, it's like you are a cute kitten to be played with, not a man to be respected.
You remember how we discussed the 'prize mentality'? Just saying, "I am the prize" doesn't mean you actually believe it. It's the internal dialogue that you have inside your head and your ultimate actions that truly confirm your belief.
Say for example you come across a woman, you have a couple of cool conversations and she's just beautiful. The internal dialogue in your mind comes up, "Man I can't lose this woman." You may have been the 'prize' when you initially met her and played it cool, but do you truly believe you are the prize even after procuring her interest? That sort of internal dialogue is not consistent with being the prize. The small details matter. You have to be consistent. This is why the power dynamics of relationships often change. A man stops being what he is supposed to be after he catches the woman and then reverts back into something else. That's PLAYING a role or INTENTIONALLY PROJECTING. You are supposed to BE the prize and it will project itself even without you realizing it. Your internal dialogue when you come across a woman will tell you a lot about how you really view yourself.
The problem with saying, "I can't lose this woman," is that you have then made yourself dependent on her and you have now attached a price on her company. Her company is something you are now willing to pay for. This then shifts you into a position of inferiority. When she realizes you have that attitude, she will now be able to ask that you do things for her in order to keep her company. How are you the prize then if you are the one doing things to 'win' her company and keep her attention? You see how deep the game gets?
Say for example you come across a woman, you have a couple of cool conversations and she's just beautiful. The internal dialogue in your mind comes up, "Man I can't lose this woman." You may have been the 'prize' when you initially met her and played it cool, but do you truly believe you are the prize even after procuring her interest? That sort of internal dialogue is not consistent with being the prize. The small details matter. You have to be consistent. This is why the power dynamics of relationships often change. A man stops being what he is supposed to be after he catches the woman and then reverts back into something else. That's PLAYING a role or INTENTIONALLY PROJECTING. You are supposed to BE the prize and it will project itself even without you realizing it. Your internal dialogue when you come across a woman will tell you a lot about how you really view yourself.
The problem with saying, "I can't lose this woman," is that you have then made yourself dependent on her and you have now attached a price on her company. Her company is something you are now willing to pay for. This then shifts you into a position of inferiority. When she realizes you have that attitude, she will now be able to ask that you do things for her in order to keep her company. How are you the prize then if you are the one doing things to 'win' her company and keep her attention? You see how deep the game gets?