Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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another quote that I never thought about in relation to career minded women:



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i got 3 female friends I'm going debate this with tonight. they're gonna get good and riled up.
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Definitely report back what happens with the debate.. I'm sure there's going to be a lot of funnies said by the females..
 

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Carné Asada;3866441 said:
Same here. That's my goal as of right now. It's expensive since you have no one to split the bill with but that's my dream. Hopefully I can get my chips up and start doing it sooner than later.

Where to?
 

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Carné Asada;3868059 said:
My first trip is Puerto Rico. I've been meaning to go there for a while already.

This might put you in the mood to go. I love this song, it's Puerto Rican too. The dancing there must be fun as hell.
[ame=http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=y6iwJeRfVOA]Ray Barretto - Algo Nuevo - YouTube[/ame]
 

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Yeah @Sharp I know we talk about it on here a lot especially myself.....and nothing is wrong with that we are all red blooded males who are gonna be interested if we see a fly attractive girl with a nice ass....

But man let me tell you, here on my campus just like you expected, since it has warmed up again, you can tell its gonna start getting out of control again. You can't walk with one of your boys without hearing a comment.........every SINGLE time...about a fat ass. I mean once or twice I get it, but these dudes that's all they wanna ever talk about.


Just having staring contests sitting down on a bench "oooo u see that one over there"? :wtf:

Always either gym or p*ssy/let's stare at ass. With a lot of these dudes. Even when you want to or bring up traveling with a passport, "p*ssy" will be brought up in some way. I know I have down that myself with comments I made to DaRealness, but I know that isn't the I the only thing you can do....

Its like we cannot do anything without putting women and p*ssy on a pedastal.......

Bagging bytches bagging bytches bagging bytches.......

"Oooo LegendNas u gonna bag that bytch" "see that bytch right there?" :mindblown:


Dudes like that are probably the majority. Just look at the thread they made about H.E.R. for instance. In their eyes, if you're not fukking everything with a pulse and actually have the ability to be nonchalant at times about the opposite gender, then you're "gay" or something's wrong with you.

Sometimes we just have to admit that we've outgrown certain people in our lives and simply need to make new friends who are more on our level. I agree with the poster who said that he wishes the dudes he knew were more like the dudes in this thread (obviously not the majority of shyt-for-brains cats in this forum in general).

Every red blooded dude, like you said, naturally has an interest, but some dudes are overly obsessed with females. If they put a quarter of that energy into advancing themselves, then they'd probably bag a lot of these same females they thirst after without even trying.
 
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Funny, today I ran into this teacher that I met while volunteering. It was weird, we ended up speaking for 20-30 minutes and she just seemed so interested in what I said, which felt good. And the conversation was good as well, the weird thing was that she has a fiancé, yet she was telling me how it's hard to pay rent and living on your own with not much work (she only teaches 1 class at my college). I think she ended up being highly attracted to me, and even asked for my name, which I found funny knowing that I don't have her as a teacher and never will; it felt weird to have a teacher communicate with me on a personal level rather than a student to teacher level. It's like our titles were stripped and we just randomly met on the street. Crazy.
 

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Older heads will remember this joint. Although dude was thirsty in this song, notice the third woman's reaction when he took the power out of her hands and walked off lol.
 
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Brehs last few days I been sitting back and thinking.Alot of Kevm's stuff and Truest came to mind.When you think about it,its all a power game.If your woman doesnt view you as a leader,its a wrap. I remember one time I was dealing with a woman in college and she use to follow me around and one time I had to go Admission to get business done.Suddenly my instinct kicked in and I notice she was following me I told her "wait here" and this girl sat on the bench and waited the whole 15 mins I was in there. The wait was like how we did for our mothers when were younger boys.The point isnt I didnt want her in my business but how she listened and when I came out of the building she was still there waiting for me.It said alot.Granted this a while ago,if she didnt respect me she would have been like "nevermind im going home" or gave a bad attitude.You got to lead and your woman has to have a "ok i will wait right here while you handle business".
 

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Women who are engaged 9 times out of 10 they pressured the man into marry them.Thats why a woman who is engaged is very friendly or flirty.They know what they doing.They know the guy who they marrying isnt for them or they marrying for status.This is why when there eyes/mind wander they act on it.Granted we all human and even in relationships our eyes may wander,however there is a difference between attraction and actually going out of the way with someone.The poster who met the engaged woman,she was very close to giving out her # however she realize it would be a bad move. This could have been to boost her ego or there is trouble at home :manny: either way women like that bring nothing to the table,in terms of striking anything up then a conversation.Yes the conversation was good,but thats all you will get from her.
 

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We never talk about this much, but let me drop some jewels for the fellas who already have kids.

Never stay with a woman because you have a kid with her. You have to constantly ask yourself "If we didn't have a kid, would I tolerate this behavior? Would I be happy? Would I have any reason to stay with her?"

There are women out there that will trap you with a kid, especially if you are a good man. If you exhibit the type of character that demonstrates that you are family orientated, and will stay for the sake of the kid, she will take advantage of you.

I'm not saying to not be family orientated. But what I am saying is to come to terms with the reality that you can be a good parent, role model, and provide a family atmosphere to your child without staying with the woman.

Don't become a prisoner to a relationship because you have a child with a woman and you want to do the right thing. You will be depriving yourself of the relationship you are supposed to have, and it will ultimately affect your relationship with your child. You have to be happy in all aspects of your life. Sacrifice is senseless, if you don't get anything from it.

Wish I knew this sooner.
 

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Women who are engaged 9 times out of 10 they pressured the man into marry them.Thats why a woman who is engaged is very friendly or flirty.They know what they doing.They know the guy who they marrying isnt for them or they marrying for status.This is why when there eyes/mind wander they act on it.Granted we all human and even in relationships our eyes may wander,however there is a difference between attraction and actually going out of the way with someone.The poster who met the engaged woman,she was very close to giving out her # however she realize it would be a bad move. This could have been to boost her ego or there is trouble at home :manny: either way women like that bring nothing to the table,in terms of striking anything up then a conversation.Yes the conversation was good,but thats all you will get from her.

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i was pressured into it
 

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The good book

It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.

A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;

This is the way of an adulteress: she eats and wipes her mouth and says, “I have done no wrong.”


Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls came and said to me, “Come, I will show you the judgment of the great prostitute who is seated on many waters, with whom the kings of the earth have committed sexual immorality, and with the wine of whose sexual immorality the dwellers on earth have become drunk.” And he carried me away in the Spirit into a wilderness, and I saw a woman sitting on a scarlet beast that was full of blasphemous names, and it had seven heads and ten horns. The woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet, and adorned with gold and jewels and pearls, holding in her hand a golden cup full of abominations and the impurities of her sexual immorality. And on her forehead was written a name of mystery: “Babylon the great, mother of prostitutes and of earth's abominations.” .


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Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,

For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.
 
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