Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

Why is every song on my local radio station about love and shyt? Not that I mind R&B, I love it, but when it's on some shyt to where "I'd give my life for you!" I'm just absolutely disgusted. I listen to sad songs, but only by older R&B singers like David Ruffin. Real singers, and no disrespect to @turbulent because I like you, but that Chris Brown song is softer than some nuts and a ballpark sausage in some hot cross buns at an opening little league game, and the musicians that we listen to gives others a representation of ourselves, whether they're intelligent enough to see it or not is far from our decision. You listen to shyt like that on the regular people going to think you're some sort of dancing ass unstable emotional ass nikka, cause that's what Chris brown fans are. You want to hear some real shyt, click play on this and soak up some of that real black man game before America turned our men soft, effeminate creatures.
DAVID RUFFIN - YOU OUGHT TO KNOW ME (1976) - YouTube

lol, it's all good, no offense taken. We're just exchanging ideas. Like i said, the song seems soft but if you pay very close attention the lyrics, it's really candy-coated medicine. it seems like simping but i detect pimping in it. peep my views on the lyrics in the post i posted the video. main message of the song to me is "know and play your role". even the way he talks about her it's like he's telling her he's the one who gives her value. a collectable item only has value if someone collects it. and he tells her "when you're mine, i'll be generous" meaning she only gets the benefits of his association if she becomes his thing (if she submits).

like i said, i know it seems a little out there but i definitely see it in that song's lyrics. it's smooth and seems soft but the message goes hard.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

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Don't you think though that some of the great legends like Stevie Wonder had some simpish songs sometimes?

Yes, but there's a difference between simp songs and being a simp.

 

[AffordableSuplexReviews]

Needed more sex, went on holiday with my crazy sister in Asia, met a gorgeous australian guy who was hitting on me, remebered the feeling of being desired, had my first ever one night stand. Came back, told boyfriend, got dumped.
We had been together for over 2 years, we were living together.
The end






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Where is this from? This didn't happen to you, did it?

Forgive me for my slight confusion.

 

[MikelArteta]

Where is this from? This didn't happen to you, did it?

Forgive me for my slight confusion.

662 post on women posting why they cheated

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[TRUEST]

Especially being a black male who do you think they are going to believe?



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it was painful watching that sh1t. only ONLY thing that worked for him was the fact that he's no lil guy. so probably not many people were testing him in prison.

 

[Kartel13]

Keep your heart in your chest
- As men, it's a neverending conflict. We definitely have emotions but we're creatures that have to know how to keep them in our chest. As a man, we always have to maintain our dignity, composure and strength even when our emotions try to push us in the contrary direction. This is what makes the price of real manhood so high and is why it is so very eagerly sought out by women. A real man knows how to keep his emotions and thoughts under control. There are several times when you are feeling a certain way and just want to express your deepest thoughts and feelings to a woman, but knowing that if you do so, it will put you in an inferior position so you learn to keep it to yourself. That is something that is very difficult to do, but really distinguishes you as a man... Knowing when to keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself and knowing how to express them without coming off as weak. Remember, when you start showing weakness with a woman, that is when she will cast you asunder.

This can get kind of tricky. It doesn't work with all women. If you stay mysterious for too long than the girl would probably suspect snake and think you're out there fukking every girl that comes your path. Especially the girls that's been cheated on before.

 

[MikelArteta]

I haven't been in this thread for a while, but I got a few things to add soon. I'm gonna respond to the posters who asked me about my upcoming holiday in Dominican Republic.

I just need to catch up on the last few pages.

breh your gonna have a blast trust me when i went to dominican i was living it up

the women workers at the resort as well


edits out the gawds face

 

[MikelArteta]

This can get kind of tricky. It doesn't work with all women. If you stay mysterious for too long than the girl would probably suspect snake and think you're out there fukking every girl that comes your path. Especially the girls that's been cheated on before.

that will prob make her tingle

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

@Mister_DoItNice -- what's your thoughts on this, G?

Stuff like this drives me crazy. I hate to see a fellow military member get taken down in such a fashion. After spending about 4 1/2 years in the service I can tell you that honestly military men are some of the biggest simps around. We're the biggest marks for she-devils, especially in these economic times. Some have no idea how to take the lead in relationships. Work is a completely different story. They seem to get so caught up in the "American Dream" of a wife, two kids, a dog, and a white picket fence that they're not aware that these women are looking at them as a means to an end. It's really sad man. I try to counsel the younger guys but they can't fight their conditioning unfortunately. I work with at least five guys under 23 with at least two kids and they have no idea of the potential disaster that can take place if their wives have a "change of heart". Most of them aren't even aware of the divorce laws and how easily our wages can be garnished for any number of reasons. Cruel world but all I can do is try to be the voice of reason. There's a sucker born every day, usually after they pledge to uphold the constitution.

 

[MikelArteta]

Stuff like this drives me crazy. I hate to see a fellow military member get taken down in such a fashion. After spending about 4 1/2 years in the service I can tell you that honestly military men are some of the biggest simps around. We're the biggest marks for she-devils, especially in these economic times. Some have no idea how to take the lead in relationships. Work is a completely different story. They seem to get so caught up in the "American Dream" of a wife, two kids, a dog, and a white picket fence that they're not aware that these women are looking at them as a means to an end. It's really sad man. I try to counsel the younger guys but they can't fight their conditioning unfortunately. I work with at least five guys under 23 with at least two kids and they have no idea of the potential disaster that can take place if their wives have a "change of heart". Most of them aren't even aware of the divorce laws and how easily our wages can be garnished for any number of reasons. Cruel world but all I can do is try to be the voice of reason. There's a sucker born every day, usually after they pledge to uphold the constitution.

man my numerous travels on relationship forums etc. why does it seem so many military wives cheat? its like a epidemic

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

man my numerous travels on relationship forums etc. why does it seem so many military wives cheat? its like a epidemic

Because these guys don't do their due diligence before tying the knot. They leave home out of high school, probably never really getting much attention from women. Next thing you know they're getting a steady pay check and going out hitting parties and bars. Pretty much the first girl that gives them some ass they want to marry. If she's just as dumb then she says yes and there you have it. Or you have the dudes that leave, but marry their home town girl beforehand because they think this is the start of a new life... Good one! Man I've got stories for days. These youngsters won't listen.

 

[kevm3]

military wives cheat so easily because their husbands are deployed for long periods of time so they have easy access to invite a guy into their house or go to the clubs. Plus a lot of younger women latch on to some military guy for the stable lifestyle and paycheck, but she gets bored and finds entertainment elsewhere.

 

[AgentGrey]

Keep your heart in your chest
- As men, it's a neverending conflict. We definitely have emotions but we're creatures that have to know how to keep them in our chest. As a man, we always have to maintain our dignity, composure and strength even when our emotions try to push us in the contrary direction. This is what makes the price of real manhood so high and is why it is so very eagerly sought out by women. A real man knows how to keep his emotions and thoughts under control. There are several times when you are feeling a certain way and just want to express your deepest thoughts and feelings to a woman, but knowing that if you do so, it will put you in an inferior position so you learn to keep it to yourself. That is something that is very difficult to do, but really distinguishes you as a man... Knowing when to keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself and knowing how to express them without coming off as weak. Remember, when you start showing weakness with a woman, that is when she will cast you asunder.

Expanding on this a lil bit more,

What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?

Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right

 

[MikelArteta]

Expanding on this a lil bit more,

What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?

Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right

the only women ill take advice from is my mom and sister.

women willt ell you bs like follow your heart, let her know that you still care and all that other ish.

 

[Kartel13]

Expanding on this a lil bit more,

What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?

Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right

It depends. Some will give you some good advice, while others will take a female approach to things and put you in the wrong. Take it with a grain of salt.